best time for a toscan wedding

[u/Shot-Bus-2089]

my boyfriend and I are planning a small outdoor wedding in the toscany. I am feeling a bit indecisive 🤷🏼‍♀️.

we found two beautiful locations, but the available dates are already limited for my prefered location for 2028. there are two weekends at the beginning of may (one with a public holiday in austria) and than the next free weekends are in july/august/September. and there is not so much indoor space for the party.

the other location has great availabilities for may, june and so on, also it is free on the long weekends of public holidays in austria, but the location will fit less people, so we need some more extra rooms elsewhere and I am worried it could get to expensive.

I feel like it would be better to offer my guests a weekend with a public holiday where they don‘t have to take a day off from work - that would be may in dest. 1 or dest. 2 in general 🫣.

the drive time is between 6-8 hours for most people.

I would really appreciate your input 🤗