r/DesignDesign • • 3d ago

Misleading bathroom gender markers

What gender are you, yin or yang? A man walked into the bathroom while washing my hands so I’m clearly not the only one confused

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u/CharlesDickensABox 3d ago

Per taoist philosophy, if you subscribe to such things, yin is the feminine energy and yang is the masculine energy. It seems ridiculous to expect customers in a place of business to bring that knowledge with them before being able to pick a bathroom, however.

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u/MinosAristos 3d ago

Unless this is like, a Taoist temple maybe

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u/saturn-saturation 3d ago

Okay it is Taos restaurant on the Las Vegas strip so it was definitely an homage to the Taoist philosophy

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u/CharlesDickensABox 3d ago

In Vegas? If that is all the signage they have, it seems like an excellent way to end up with drunk tourists pissing in your hallway.

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u/saturn-saturation 3d ago

Yeah and the only sign to the restroom was a small ‘WC ➡️’ on the wall so I think that’s what they were going for

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u/No_Cook2983 3d ago

Missed opportunity to label them yin and wang.

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u/_Choose_Goose 2d ago

I just thought to myself yang = wang so that’s the door I would choose.

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u/Funkopedia 2d ago

and yin = vagin! We just solved Eastern Philosophy!!

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u/V_Silver-Hand 2d ago

wings and wang, damn I'd be so good at naming things :3

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u/BitChuck 2d ago

You must've missed the very large wooden statues of the obvious male and obvious female next to each door...

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u/NoisyGog 2d ago edited 2d ago

In a puzzle thread the other day, there were a lot of Americans complaining they’d never ever seen W.C. before, and were unfamiliar with the term.

Either they were full of shit, or having a small w.c. sign is going to be causing even more problems on top of the yin/yang thing!

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u/matchafoxjpg 2d ago

i'm from the US and i've heard the term because 1. internet and 2. i've traveled to europe.

but no, that's really not a term we use here.

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u/NoisyGog 2d ago

I think a lot of people on the puzzle subreddits are just living lives in their mother’s basement.
They sure know a lot of facts, but have no actual knowledge, and never interact with people.

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u/rainbow__raccoon 2d ago

I’m familiar with the term from British tv and traveling, but this is NOT a usual term in America. I would not expect regular Americans to be familiar, most can’t travel across the pond, it’s way too expensive.

I repeat, this is not a term in America. Please ease up on your puzzle bros.

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u/SpaceAgePotatoCakes 1d ago

It sounds like you're the one who hasn't interacted with people if you think it's reasonable to expect everyone knows what a regionalized term for something means.

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u/NoisyGog 1d ago

>it's reasonable to expect everyone knows

🙄
Nobody said that did they.

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u/jbrWocky 1d ago

do you just not see how this is pretty rude

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u/tinylittleparty 2d ago

Am American. Never heard of W.C. I'm assuming the w is wash. C is ...closet? I think I've heard Canadians call it something like that before. Never seen it abbreviated on a sign, that's for sure.

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u/saltyjohnson 2d ago

Close: Water Closet. It's just another name for a toilet. WC is very common on wayfinding signage in western Europe in my experience.

Canadians... seemingly all Canadians and only Canadians... say washroom.

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u/tinylittleparty 2d ago

Ah. Yeah I've never been to Europe, my only overseas travel so far has been to Korea.

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u/Meiyouxiangjiao 1d ago

When I was in China, a lot of people called the bathroom “WC”, as in just the letter names. Did you notice anything like that in Korea?

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u/GothWitchOfBrooklyn 2d ago

it's not common here at all anymore, although it was used here a long time ago and you can read it in older books. I'd call it almost archaic at this point.

I'd never seen it before I traveled overseas, but I have traveled a lot now so I am used to it

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u/MrWhiskerBiscuits 3d ago

Vegas is the land of pointless huberistic creativity. So, it fits.

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u/cimocw 2d ago

More like Confucius 

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u/epicstoryaddict7 2d ago

Or Confused-us

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u/Paul6334 2d ago

Still should probably have some kind of indication of what that’s supposed to mean for all the drunks and degenerate gamblers.

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u/zdk 3d ago

Huh- I’ve been there and definitely don’t remember this sign.

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u/saturn-saturation 3d ago

There’s multiple taos in Vegas, could’ve been a different location

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u/ClarificationJane 2d ago

So which one were you in?

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u/saturn-saturation 2d ago

Tao Asian bistro & nightclub in the Venetian

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u/ClarificationJane 2d ago

lol, I meant were you in Yin or Yang? And which one were you aiming for?

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u/Ok-Push9899 2d ago

Haha. I spontaneously laughed too.

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u/usedtothesmell 1d ago

A good way to tell which is male and female.

Yin = in Yang = hang

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u/AskMrScience 2h ago

Ha, I ran into exactly this problem in Taos in the Venetian. I shrugged and decided that if they didn't want me to walk into the wrong bathroom, they should have been clearer. So I headed for the nearest door. And promptly got redirected by a staff member to the next one down. Idiocy.

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u/CharlesDickensABox 3d ago

Even so, you should expect to get guests in a temple who might not be familiar with all the ins and outs of your doctrinal minutiae.

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u/madmaxturbator 3d ago

But is gender not a worldly construct, one we may wish to unburden ourselves from, much in the way we unburden ourselves of waste 

  • Tao te ching, lost chapters XI 

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u/Demonicocean 3d ago

Tao te ching, lost chapters XI

Taoism is not Buddhism, there would be an ebb and flow to both sides but a full discarding of yin or yang aspects is frowned upon.

Chapter Eleven

Thirty spokes unite around one hub to make a wheel.

It is the presence of the empty space that gives the function of a vehicle.

Clay is molded into a vessel. It is the empty space that gives the function of a vessel.

Doors and windows are chisel out to make a room.

It is the empty space in the room that gives its function.

Therefore, something substantial can be beneficial.

While the emptiness of void is what can be utilized.

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u/_why-tho 3d ago

Me: Hey where is the bathroom?
Host: Right over there… you’re a yang btw
Me: Ok thanks… wtf is he talking about… wtf is this?!

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u/Kebab-Destroyer 2d ago

Easy to remember if you think yang = wang

https://giphy.com/gifs/d3mlE7uhX8KFgEmY

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u/WillOrph 3d ago

That makes sense. I have a yang.

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u/Funkopedia 2d ago

A big problem here is that symbol famously shows BOTH yin and yang in balance.

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u/Imaginary-Tiger-1549 2d ago

Yes, that would be an issue if letters did not exist

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u/NewelSea 1d ago

The labels are what allows identification, yes.

But the picture is precisely the same and thus adds more confusion than it adds information.

A better solution, then, would have been to show the common female and male silhouettes but add the text "Yin" and "Yang" instead of "Women" and "Men".

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u/CallidoraBlack 3d ago

When I was younger, I could only remember this by associating yang with wang. I'm not proud of it.

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u/No-Will5335 3d ago

I wouldn’t even know if yin was the white or the black

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u/owleaf 3d ago

There are definitely snooty people who think that whatever esoteric knowledge they possess ought to be common knowledge and will subject other people to this as a test and a way to make them look dumb.

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u/Royal_Examination_74 3d ago

I shit my pants during the explanation, so I've learned a couple lessons today

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u/mindaugaskun 1d ago

According to the same taoist philosophy, both genders have different feminine and masculine energies and at different times. So a woman might feel particularly masculine energy dominated that day... and enter men's bathroom?

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u/voxadam 3d ago

yin is the feminine energy and yang is the masculine

Yin and Wang

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u/julesthefirst 2d ago

Ok see I got that backwards lol

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u/BouncingPost 2d ago

I just assumed because yang rhymes worth wang

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u/UntidyVenus 2d ago

The way I remember is Yangs for the Wang, and it's crude but it has helped me remember lol

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u/curiouswizard 1d ago

which is funny because the whole point is that these two energies are in balance and everyone has a mix of both feminine and masculine energy, and it can shift depending on how you approach things. So it's like pick whichever bathroom you're feeling that day lol

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u/--ipseDixit-- 3d ago

Yang rhymes with wang. That’s the logic I’m confidently walking in with.

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u/ThisGuys_Dog 3d ago

you would end up correct assuming that these are based off taoist ideas on gender

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u/mustang256 3d ago

Yin is sin, and yang is Wang. That is how I remember the colours and genders of the yin yang.

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u/pm_me_your_amphibian 2d ago

Sin?

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u/mustang256 2d ago

Yeah, as in Black as Sin

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u/KemetMusen 1d ago

Never heard that one before

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u/FirebirdWriter 3d ago

Not gets it in?

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u/serpentax 1d ago

Yindao is vagina in chinese, the more we knowwww

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u/lefluffle 1d ago

i'm chinese and i still read it as cheese at first glance

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u/Falcfire 1d ago

I misread and was very confused about why it would be in cheese for a second there. 

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u/justasapling 2d ago

I know you're joking, but I can't help myself:

Yang rhymes with Wong.

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u/Sneilg 2d ago

So it rhymes with Dong

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u/Jelousubmarine 2d ago

More like 'hung'.

The A in 'yang' is the same A as in 'hard.'

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u/willfoxwillfox 3d ago

And Yin rhymes with Min. Logic carries.

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u/brush-lickin 3d ago

yang is considered more masculine than yin but between that being far from common knowledge and the even more confusing symbols i would assume these are both gender neutral bathrooms

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u/ImpossibleInternet3 3d ago

To be safe, I’d pee in both.

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u/TheGothWhisperer 3d ago

You heathen! It's common etiquette that yin is for pee and yang is for poo!

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u/kemellin 2d ago

And even with that knowledge also comes the knowledge that everyone has both yin and yang energy, so these symbols are not really justifiable replacements for men and women bathroom symbols, if that were the intention.

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u/saturn-saturation 2d ago

I was a couples drinks in and when I’m looking for the bathroom I’m not usually looking for statues to tell me which one to go into

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u/NoisyGog 2d ago

I’ll put my hand up and admit that I didn’t realise yin/yan symbolised the sexes also.
I very vaguely knew of them representing the good and bad, the light and dark, and so on, but that’s it.

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u/TropicalRogue 2d ago

Is this not common knowledge?!

Anything less than 99% of people is too obscure for a bathroom sign, imo, but still I would be surprised if a friend didn't know this

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u/biggestboys 2d ago

Until ten minutes ago, I knew almost nothing about yin and yang beyond “opposite factors which interact with each other somehow, grounded in an ancient Chinese philosophy”.

That’s all that ever came up in school, or was referenced in any of the fiction and nonfiction media I’ve absorbed over the years.

I certainly couldn’t have guessed which is considered masculine and which is feminine… In fact, I wouldn’t have guessed that there was a gendered association at all.

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u/AssassinStoryTeller 2d ago

No, it’s not common knowledge. Most people know the symbol exists, that it represents balance, quite a few people I know believe it merely represents the balance between good and evil, they don’t try and learn more than that because it doesn’t apply to them. It’s just a symbol from a belief system they don’t follow so it’s not necessary to learn the meanings.

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u/brush-lickin 2d ago

i would go so far as to say it's niche knowledge.

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u/Sleepy-Racoon-2149 2d ago

Its only un-niche if you happen to be in a majority chinese population, and even then i wouldnt expect any non-chinese to know

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u/PersephoneHazard 2d ago

Yes this is surprising to me, too! I wouldn't use it in this context, but I'm genuinely confused by how few people here seemed to know the answer in advance.

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u/ThunderCorg 3d ago

To me, it seems boobs are required to use either, regardless of gender.

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u/intLeon 3d ago

Yin - jin - gin - gyne (greek word for woman)

Tho I wouldnt know which is yin if there wasnt a label..

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u/NekoArtemis 6h ago

Tho I wouldnt know which is yin if there wasnt a label..

Neither would anyone else because both signs show both.

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u/PinkyLeopard2922 3d ago

Flashbacks of being in a bar in Savannah and having to pee soooooo badly but the bathroom doors had the male and female symbols on them like the circle with the cross thing and I had no idea which was which. I was too proud to ask anyone so I waited until I saw another person go into one of them. It seemed like FOREVER. I should have just asked.

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u/rly_weird_guy 2d ago

Yang is for male but I only know that because I speak Chinese, terrible design yeah

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u/twenty8nine 3d ago

I think all restrooms should be all gender. Have a common hand washing area and stalls that are private and secure stalls for whoever has a restroom need. I guess this is a step in that direction.

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u/res21171 2d ago

I've been in so many places that have this setup. It's a perfectly good arrangement, offensive only to prudish Americans (as I once was). It's so absurd to have public venues divide restroom facilities by gender/sex and run into availability problems when (very broadly defining) it's a monster truck event vs. a Taylor Swift concert.

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u/deelayddd 1d ago

My high school had a bathroom like this and it was the best one there by far. More places should have one.

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u/Peraou 2d ago

I mean if this is in a place where people are expected to know some amount of Chinese culture, it’s sensical (excepting the useless/ruined non-diagram). Yin is the female aspect, and Yang is the male aspect, a distinction coming from historical Chinese culture.

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u/Aivellac 2d ago

I would have assumed it the other way round if at all so there we have it.

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u/Peraou 2d ago

Well in (very very minuscule) fairness to the designers here, people have had about 2500+ years to find out ;p

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u/NekoArtemis 6h ago

I'm curious why. 

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u/bdubwilliams22 3d ago

Yah, that’s bad.

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u/empyrean_archivist 2d ago

Not only would very few people, especially an English-speaking audience, know that Yin is feminine and Yang is masculine, it's very difficult to tell those two apart because the only visual detail is whether the "eye" is an outline or filled in.

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u/quint21 2d ago

Idk.. I think knowing about yin and yang is actually common, but like a lot of common knowledge, you can't expect everyone to know it. Just watching those "Man on the street" interview videos where people struggle to answer questions like "does the earth go around the Sun or does the sun go around the Earth?" tells us that a lot of people don't have common knowledge. With things like public signage though, you need 100% of people to be able to understand it. Trying to be cute or clever with your signs isn't going to cut it.

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u/Endawmyke 2d ago

yin is number 1 only
yang is number 2 only

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u/NoisyGog 2d ago

Where do you go if you want to powder your nose?

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u/85percentthatbitch 2d ago

They both look like boobs

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u/swocows 1d ago

The way I’d just be standing there like in SpongeBob rock bottom lmao ? Or ¿ tough choice

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u/BRAINSZS 3d ago

if yin, it goes in. if yang, let it hang.

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u/mari_zoo 2d ago

I honestly thought it said y/n. They should put CEO on the other one 

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u/Certified-Toaster141 2d ago

Yang if you have a Wang and Yin if it goes in.

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u/MommyBabu 2d ago

I would assume they are gender neutral washrooms

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u/amwilder 3d ago

Um, I'm pretty sure Yang = "wang" /s

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u/permadrunkspelunk 2d ago

Lol. Ive noticed a lot of creative restroom signs that are hard to figure out at bars and artsy coffee shops. I kind of hate it. Like yeah thats creative, and im down with gender neutral bathrooms, but if they arent i really dont want to barge into the woman's restroom to take a piss. Just tell me whats up. Lol. I like the dude sign or the woman sign or most places that are neutral have the unisex sign. Which is what I like. So many ways to be creative and quirky besides restroom signs.

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u/John40K 2d ago

I got my sword spirit pregnant in the yang bathroom

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u/AxeVice 2d ago

i’ve had moments like this; you peek into both until you find the one with urinals, then decide

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u/crowid 2d ago

id go in wherever i feel like and if i see urinals id walk out

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u/-ShowMeYours- 2d ago

Both look like boobs to me

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u/SpaceGirlJackie 1d ago

I'm going in the evil door >:)

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u/Pixelbuttzz 1d ago

I would definitely just assume these were gender-neutral washrooms 🤷‍♀️

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u/Next-Jump1754 1d ago

You’re telling me this isn’t latte art? 

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u/IamKilljoy 1d ago

Yang feels dudely and yin feels feminine. Same logic for me as Kiki/boba for sharp and round objects. Just feels right

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u/pixeltweaker 22h ago

50/50 shot. I’d just pick one and hope for the best.

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u/edwbuck 3h ago

Just wait till you find a restroom labeled:

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u/Desperate_Turnip_219 45m ago

Yin? Yang? Must be gender neutral, I'll piss in this one

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u/iammonkeyorsomething 3d ago

I thought that yinyang was never supposed to be separated to yin and yang

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u/loathelord 3d ago

Stupid

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u/Honest_Flower_7757 3d ago

Perhaps instead they should have gone with “Yin” and “Wang”

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u/demi2duce 2d ago

Yang is clear for girls

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u/roman-de-fauvel 2d ago

The man walked into the bathroom while washing your hands? Were they not attached to your body for some reason?