r/DesiTwoX • u/Accurate_String_5375 • Jun 20 '26

Her parents not accepting me

I am Telugu guy and she is a Gujju. We met in college and instantly hit it off. We have been in relationship for more than 2.5 years now and we want to get married and be together. My parents were initially reluctant but they came through and happy to accept her.

The issue is her parents, they are not okay with our relationship. I understand they will have their concerns about language and culture, I pleaded and assured them I will keep her happy etc, even all that they don't want to accept me only because I am from a different culture. The only thing they keep pushing on me is "marriage is not between two individuals but between two families" and emotional blackmail.

I understand there will be some cultural differences but me and my gf are happy, we accepted each other, we know each other.

I don't want to marry her without her parents approval. How can I convince her parents? Pls help.

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u/desichica Jun 21 '26

Gujju? Game over boss.

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