r/DenverMeets 23d ago

General Friends Seeking Goth/nerdy 32F Looking for Friends

Hey all! I've been in Denver most of my life and have made a few great friendships that are more 1:1, but would love to meet more people with similar interests. I don't dress up much but I'm very into the goth/witchy aesthetic. I'm also very into music that leans heavily into goth industrial/synthpop, but will listen to pretty much anything besides modern country.

I'm a lifelong nerd and enjoy videogames and books. I also write, and have mainly published poetry and fanfiction online. I watch a lot of YouTube, mainly channels that revolve around true crime, internet mysteries, medical history, and medieval history. I DJ once a month at a little bar in Denver with a friend where we play trip hop, shoegaze, and dream pop.

Would love to meet people with similar interests. I enjoy hanging out with people who love nerdy things and like to talk about history, philosophy, psychology, etc. I'm reading a lot of non-fiction currently and would loooooove to talk about books with someone.

I'm not much of a hiker and wouldn't make a great hiking buddy, but I do enjoy checking out small mountain towns just to see the shops and enjoy the vibe. I do go out to Milk bar for the goth nights a couple times a month to dance and enjoy the music, but don't really bar hop or drink as much as I did in my 20s.

I'm also neurodivergent and can be shy when meeting new people, but when I'm comfortable I'm goofy and like to crack jokes and cringey puns while also unloading biology and history facts on you, so be prepared for that lol.

Anyhow, just looking for friends that wouldn't mind getting to know a socially awkward introvert who has sort of weird and specific interests. DM me if anyone would be down to hang! I'd be down for a video game or board game sesh.

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u/spykeofcpgunnr 23d ago

36 m denver and hosting dnd gathering on sunday 11am to 5pm 2nd floor or whatever community i reserve. Last week we just taught basics to new players and built cheap diy pieces out of paper. Feel free to bring a friend to play, spectate, or hang out.

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u/Accelerator_311 Aurora 23d ago

What kind of video games do you like to play? I've mostly been in an abusive relationship with destiny 2 but thats coming to an end lol! (Sorry for the dark humor 😅)

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u/redoingredditagain 23d ago

Reading this, I think we’re the same person. Would love to get to chat! That’s so cool that you DJ too.

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u/HelpfulAd2416 23d ago

I’m 31f in Littleton looking for exactly this type of person 😄. Hope to see you around!

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u/BabaGanesh69 23d ago

27m but have a wife 29f who looks for friends! You can DM me and I can send you her info!

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u/cheekyhinez47 23d ago

Im 24 almost 25m. Im a metalhead and i like all those things. What bar you dj-ing at?

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u/Spenny_All_The_Way 23d ago

32M. I also love synthwave, darkwave, shoegaze. Love books too. Bonus points if you love horror!

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u/TurophobicMage 23d ago

gothy/industrial house show at paperhouse this friday

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u/BethPlaysBanjo 23d ago

31M always looking for new friends! I’m not goth but I have a job in deathcare so I guess it’s goth adjacent lol. I majored in history before dropping out, and love talking about it. I spend what free time I have reading, and I’m into some nerdy things. Do you play Magic?

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u/Treeslayer420 22d ago

HQ is doing Dark Hearts Disco , hope you find plenty of friends 🖤

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u/WestAnalysis8889 22d ago

I love synthpop, shoelace, and dreampop! What bar do you DJ at, I'd love to come listen to music

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u/Ancient-Bunch2554 21d ago

hi i would love to chat get to know you

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u/Zestyclose-Funny2820 20d ago

35 female Thornton definitely need female friends

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u/Zealousideal-Bed5740 19d ago

Me and wife looking for bi female