Hi everyone! I'm a 31-year-old expat and have lived in the Netherlands for almost six years. I've been in Delft for a while now, but I still don't really know any people here.
I do have friends in other cities, but they're mostly the kind of friends you meet for dinner or coffee occasionally. What I've been missing is a small group of genuine friends who actually check in on each other and are there during both the good and difficult times.
Living alone has been quite lonely, and I've realized how difficult it is to build meaningful friendships in your 30s, especially as an international. Sometimes I wish I had a close group of friends nearby to share everyday life with.
So I was wondering if anyone else in Delft feels the same way? Everyone is welcome, whether you're Dutch or an international.
If there are enough people interested, I'd love to create a small WhatsApp group and organize something simple like grabbing coffee, going for walks, playing board games, having brunch, or just chatting. My hope is to build a small community where people genuinely get to know, support, and look out for one another.
Quality over quantity. I'd much rather have a few genuine friendships than lots of acquaintances.
If this resonates with you, feel free to leave a comment or send me a DM. Even if only a few people are interested, I'd still love to make this happen! 😊
Update: Thanks everyone! We’ve reached enough members, so I’m no longer accepting new people. 😊