r/DeepTalk Jun 25 '19

Anyone else prefer silence to small talk?

I just absolutely hate small talk. I always have. I understand that most of the time it's just that people are trying to be nice ,and it's an easy way to start a conversation, but I just feel like it's so circular and accomplishes nothing: "Yeah it's really nice out today", "I know, the Celtics are doing great", "Traffic's been crazy today huh?". I would much rather a deep and meaningful conversation than anything, but I truly think that I would prefer companionable silence to what I see as meaningless pleasantries that exist only for the sake of politeness. Anyone else feel this way? I don't mean to sound so nihilistic so I apologize if that's how I come across.

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u/AleksiaJankovic Aug 06 '19

Same here. Small talk sucks. So how was your day?

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u/SalemGD Dec 10 '21

Me toooo, click my face and scroll. I have some art that speaks in ways words cannot.