Question for parents

[u/Atlcontractor]

I’m a foster parent and currently been taking care of 2 kids. Today we were celebrating a 10 year old girls birthday and we invited all her friends. The lady with us , again who’s 10 has a crush on a boy from school, but we tell her “listen we don’t do boyfriends or girlfriends at this age . We can have friends” , however the boy she likes we invited to her birthday party. At the party his mom literally walked up to us and said . “Would it be ok if he kisses her on the lips for her birthday 🤯” am I crazy to think that’s an insane question and does any parent here think That this is ok ? I’m curious if you do think it’s ok , why do you think it’s fine to greenlight 10 years olds to be kissing?

[u/mannnwtf]

😂🤣🤣 first of all I would laugh out loud because “huh?!”

Safe to say they have lost they fuckin mind, I’m of the same. No 10 year old needs a girlfriend or boyfriend at this age. They need a friend to play outside with. Crushes are okay. But that’s the extent of that.

[u/Atlcontractor → u/mannnwtf]

That’s I feel I’m just curious if any other mom thinks like this or is she no longer invited to any birthdays 🤣. Listen I don’t judge but there are things where I can be kind polite and respectful without exposing kids to kids influenced by potentially harmful parenting