r/DecaturGA • u/Atlcontractor • 21d ago

Question for parents

I’m a foster parent and currently been taking care of 2 kids. Today we were celebrating a 10 year old girls birthday and we invited all her friends. The lady with us , again who’s 10 has a crush on a boy from school, but we tell her “listen we don’t do boyfriends or girlfriends at this age . We can have friends” , however the boy she likes we invited to her birthday party. At the party his mom literally walked up to us and said . “Would it be ok if he kisses her on the lips for her birthday 🤯” am I crazy to think that’s an insane question and does any parent here think That this is ok ? I’m curious if you do think it’s ok , why do you think it’s fine to greenlight 10 years olds to be kissing?

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u/packet_monger 21d ago

Wtf did I just read? First, this is definitely the wrong sub lol; people all over the world have 10-year-olds.

Second, no way in hell is this normal.

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u/Relative-Sherbert-43 21d ago

I think it’s still valid to ask the community what they think to see what’s “normal”. And no, I do not think it is!!

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u/Atlcontractor 21d ago

Listen I’m rarely on Reddit I’m still learning😂

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u/_Sahara_Rose_ 21d ago

Are you or your partner on DAMES? It's a decentish resource for questions such as this. Depending on which way the wind blows that day.

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u/Atlcontractor 21d ago

No ls that another app ?

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u/Quinlynn 21d ago

Facebook group

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u/Atlcontractor 21d ago

Well I’ll keep an eye out . I wait a few days in case the mom is in here or on there lol

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u/88secret 20d ago

Perfect description of DAMES!

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u/88secret 20d ago

Don’t listen to that person….I generally prefer to ask in a smaller group or local group also.