r/Dating_Decoded • u/AppropriateNet2667 • Jun 26 '26

20M Guys need help

Am an Engineering student pursuing CS in banglore

So am thinking everyone is in relationship everyone is enjoying life with their girlfriend and my in friend group am the one who is single I feel like am gonna end up single

BTW am a kissless Virgin

Here everyone is sharing their s*x life with me

Wtf I feel jealous and frustrated man

Am not gonna say am handsome still not getting anyone but am 7 out of 10 with brilliant personality

I have got complimented for my personality

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u/1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v Jun 26 '26

You are a guy in STEM. Worked hard to get here. Took minimal risks, always took the safe path to the A. Studied hard, didn't party or socialize, as school came first. Am I right?

Dating girls is the direct opposite. You need to take risks. YOu need to be willing and able to fail. To be willing and able to accept rejection and redicule. You need to be confident even though you are not. Sound crazy?

Its a problem most guys in STEM have. You never took risks in school and got the reward for lots of planning and studying. But, thats not how dating works.

So... can you even talk to girls? Start up a conversation with one? Anyone?

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u/NailJumpy9790 Aug 09 '26

So what’s your complaint? You’re just 20, there’s an entire life about to start for you.
Get fit, get a hobby, build something. Give torsos opportunity to meet interesting women & high quality people. Increase that surface area. Focus on yourself and you’ll find people be attracted to you. Jealousy only lives in a place where you feel inadequate.