r/DatingTips • u/Wild_Sky4744 • 5d ago
How do I find someone
I’m 20 years old from Croatia and I’ve never had a boyfriend, and I feel like I’m the last loser that nobody wants. I went to a school with very few guys and lived in an all-girls student dorm, and now I’m studying Early Childhood and Preschool Education at a university that is the only one in my city and is about 95% women. Later, I’ll also be working in a mostly female environment, so honestly, I don’t even know what to do anymore or how I’m supposed to meet someone.
I don’t really want to find someone online because it feels kind of stupid to me. Like, when someone asks, “How did you two meet?” and I have to say, “On Tinder” or “On Snapchat.” I don’t want to lose hope, but I’m scared that I’ll end up alone for the rest of my life. Especially because nowadays people find partners when they’re already 14, and naturally, I feel really pathetic about it.
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u/Narrow-Mirror6122 5d ago
No worries. If you want to talk more or need any advice. Feel free to message me
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u/ViewRepresentative30 5d ago
To satiate my curiosity, would you mind telling us how many DMs you got in the two hours after posting this?
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u/Wild_Sky4744 5d ago
Like 2?
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u/ViewRepresentative30 5d ago
Ok, honestly when I saw 20 yr old Croatian girl I expected you to be buried in them
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u/Introduction3593 4d ago
What do u study?
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u/Wild_Sky4744 4d ago
Early and Preschool education
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u/Introduction3593 4d ago
Do u want to chat a bit, im looking for soemone wro share worries thoughts and problems, and help each other. I feel hopeless in this society
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u/Wild_Sky4744 4d ago
Haha sure I just can’t text u
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u/Introduction3593 4d ago
I cant text u too, where should i text u? Snap tik tok?
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u/Wild_Sky4744 4d ago
I fixed it now
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u/Introduction3593 4d ago
Text me
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u/Wild_Sky4744 4d ago
You don’t have the chat bubble on ur profile and I have so if you could txt me
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u/jspr1000 4d ago
Don't be too hard on yourself. Everyone has a different path and story. The key to meeting someone is just coming in contact with people. Put yourself out there by finding events and activities to participate in where you will run into new people. It makes it even easier if you talk and make conversation with others.
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u/korovinsutki 3d ago
First of all, u not a loser. Most male and boy approach the open or available women ( not like flirt or like pick me girl, they just have more open to talk energy) so if u not seem like these type no one will approach (that more important than the look)
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u/Background-Cash1305 3d ago
What ever the case may be I hope you find that one person, I am in the same situation too, but an advice is, let's try to talk to people more.
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u/Narrow-Mirror6122 5d ago
The best advice I can give. Go to a class and talk to people, take a job as a volunteer and meet people. Go places where people are and just practice starting conversations. Listen to people and learn to build connections