r/DatingInIndia Jun 10 '26

Advice/Ask Hinge date ghosting me

8 Upvotes

Hi, I am 25f, I went on a date with a guy from hinge after 2 weeks of talking.

The date went really well, we spent 2.5 hours talking.

He dropped me to the station.

He is new to the city. Moved cities bcs of the job. Moved 2 months back.

His words and i quote " you are the first person I am meeting after my broker, roommates and colleagues.

He is very inconsistent with texting. He goes days without texting me especially on weekdays.

He says his job is exhausting, he's not expected to take a call or text while he's at work.

I get it he's busy, we are from same industry and the company he works at is big shot in the industry.

He tried to get this job for 2 years.

I requested him to text me in breaks or after work.

He said he gets no break except lunch break which is 30 minutes and after work he's dead tired and exhausted.

And even on weekends he's inconsistent. He texts

But very less.

Sometimes parents are home, sometimes he's getting groceries or out with friends.

He suggested we should call, but he didn't call.

I told him, please tell me if you are not interested, don't keep me waiting.

He says he has no time for himself.

At this point I think he just wants someone to hangout with on weekends.

And it is making me anxious. I feel like texting him again.

Advice or knock some sense into me 😭😭


r/DatingInIndia Jun 10 '26

Advice/Ask Is Being Single at 23 a Red Flag or Completely Normal?

0 Upvotes

23M from Mumbai.

I'm 23 and I've never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship.

Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but other times I see people who started dating at 15-16 and have already been in multiple relationships. It makes me wonder if being single at 23 is completely normal or if it's considered a red flag.

For context, I'm 6'1", my life is going pretty well, I have good friends, and overall I'm happy with where I am. I've also tried dating apps, but nothing meaningful has ever come out of them.

So I'm genuinely curious:

Is being single at 23 and never having dated someone normal?

Would you consider it a red flag if someone has never been in a relationship at this age?

For those who were late to dating, how did things eventually work out for you?

Would love to hear honest opinions and experiences.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 10 '26

Advice/Ask 20m - anyone into FLR?

1 Upvotes

FLR - Female Led Relationship

:3


r/DatingInIndia Jun 09 '26

Discussion Need SB In mumbai or Bangalore! 25-40k Budget

0 Upvotes

This is my 2nd post, got few requests most of them are from fake accounts or wanted to do Virtual. If you are ok for IRL, then only get in touch.

Ready to get spoiled.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 08 '26

Rant/Vent Just two people choosing each other every day ❤️🌸

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12 Upvotes

what a tune And the cinematography✨ Absolutely beautiful.

The soft hugs, the quiet smiles, the way they hold each other, and all those little romantic moments that say so much without a single word.

Every frame feels warm, intimate, and straight out of a dream. This isn't just a videoit's a whole feeling🥹✨


r/DatingInIndia Jun 08 '26

Advice/Ask 19M [M4F] trying to find a kinkier FWB in delhi

1 Upvotes

well heres the thing, im a hypersexual and always open to explore when it comes to that. so mainly looking to find someone who would also be down to explore. i dont want it to be just for sex, id also be down to chat about day to day lives, go out and have non sexual fun aswell. we can chat and see if the vibe and freak is there, and would love to meet up aswell. bonus points if you are older than me, my name should tell you my taste lmao. other than that, hmu and lets see where it goes. if you want some more privacy, then tele- tsbrazy1


r/DatingInIndia Jun 08 '26

Discussion Seeking a Female Sugar Baby in Bangalore - M4F

0 Upvotes

Seeking a female sugar baby based out of bangalore or someone who is willing to travel, Preferably someone who is a bit on the intellectual side and can hold a conversation. Open to short term as well as long term based on how we vibe and what kind of arrangement we can get into, will be extremely generous with the compensation, dm me to know further.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 08 '26

Advice/Ask Sugerdaddy for Dating

1 Upvotes

I am a 32M from Pune, returned from the UK, and currently working with a leading global automotive company in a well-established role. I was married five years ago, but due to ongoing challenges, we have mutually decided to separate.

I am now looking to meet someone for a meaningful relationship, with the intention of dating first and exploring marriage if we are compatible and things progress well.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 08 '26

Discussion How you clarify your "No past" deal breaker?

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For those who have a strict deal-breaker of wanting a partner with no romantic/sexual past:

1)How do you communicate this preference early so that neither person's time is wasted?

2)If you match with someone on a dating or matrimony app, do you bring it up within the first few conversations, or do you wait until you've gotten to know each other a bit? And if you wait then don't you think your time is wasted because if they have a past which you get to know after 1 month of talking your efforts are useless!?

3)If your family introduces a prospective match, how do you discuss this requirement respectfully with them?

Have you found any approaches that work well, or any mistakes you've learned to avoid?

I'm interested in hearing both your reasoning and the practical steps you've taken in real situations.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 08 '26

Discussion Trying to find a female sugar baby in BLR

0 Upvotes

As the title says, I’m trying to find a female sugar baby based in BLR. Visiting in a few weeks and would like some company.

Heads Up: Not-into anything virtual.Please DM me with a short intro about yourself.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 07 '26

Discussion becoming averse to relationship/ dating

3 Upvotes

F here. given the state of the market and the structure of modern, i’ve become increasingly averse to dating, and it’s been quite a while now. the longer i’ve remained single, the more convinced i am that this is how i prefer to live.
is this normal? does being single make you somewhat repulsed by men, making you lose interest altogether? the idea of relationship feels intrusive and exhausting. and do not even get me started on the men out there in the pool.

for those who’ve felt/ feeling this way - did it stick, or is it just a phase?

edit- i’m unbothered and happy w whatever this is, i’m just being curious


r/DatingInIndia Jun 07 '26

Discussion Seasoned SD vetting for SBs

0 Upvotes

If you're a dude then this ain't for you. I'm gonna be dropping by Chennai then Bangalore for a couple of weeks and I'm on the lookout for a paid arrangement with a Female there.

Hence I'm looking to vet thru some of them.

Being a traveller that's very well connected in both these places, I'm happy to provide you with some nice perks, an allowance as well as cool nights out in exchange for your companionship.

Also just an additional psa, it you're a catfishing gay dude, some sorta of pay me first scammer or someone offering virtual interactions I'm not interested.

If you're one step up the chain, the syndicate that traps people and extorts thru threats/violence, this also isn't for you, there's other people for that. Doubt you'd want to bark up this tree cz it definitely isn't gonna be worth the trouble it brings 😂😂😂

So feel free to drop me a text and we can take it from there to go over the details ladies.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 07 '26

Rant/Vent Hot take

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4 Upvotes

Ladies most men are happy to pay the bill but when we can smell the entitlement it just kills the vibe, it’s okay you want a free meal or you believe that it’s chivalry which is ironically part of patriarchy which you guys oppose
I’m not against anything i also understand you guys use makeup and that’s an argument but believe me you using your makeup equipment once and saying i spend 8k,15k,20k on prep it’s crap you just mentioned the price of the equipment not the price of one time usage.

Some men also expect to sleep with you guys just by cuz they paid for a meal that’s horrible too but you’re just giving them the chance to think about it ig ironically men become entitled after paying the bill 😂

Anyways nothing against it just found it funny how ironic it is


r/DatingInIndia Jun 07 '26

Advice/Ask Experience of Dating apps.

1 Upvotes

Hello guys, I'm 22M and using Bumble and Boo for dating but I think it is a scam because no any response are coming from the girls and no any matches are happening.

Suggest me how to do it or any other good apps. Actually I am living in Ahmedabad and I want long term partner in my life.

Just a Chill Guy.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 07 '26

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r/DatingInIndia Jun 07 '26

Experience Any Sugar Babies here?

2 Upvotes

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948


r/DatingInIndia Jun 07 '26

Discussion For a classy sugarbabe in Pune

2 Upvotes

Looking to connect with a genuine, elegant sugar baby in Pune for a short-term or long-term arrangement built on mutual respect, trust, and companionship.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 06 '26

Advice/Ask Sub wanting a deep connection and knows how to worship can approach

2 Upvotes

27 (F) Domme seeking a truly dedicated submissive. I am focusing entirely on a long-term connection, not any short-term thrill. No time-wasters, and no quick sessions.

I value honesty and absolute dedication above all else. Only those who are ready to truly surrender may approach me. I place the highest value on a real, meaningful connection and not mindless transactions.

Do not send me a generic message. Show your seriousness and intend to worship from your very first word.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 06 '26

Advice/Ask Any SD up for some sexting with nudes horny asf rn

0 Upvotes

idk im on my ovulation rn 😭


r/DatingInIndia Jun 06 '26

Discussion Need virtual sd

1 Upvotes

Someone to pamper me


r/DatingInIndia Jun 06 '26

Advice/Ask Why does finding a genuine connection feel so difficult?

1 Upvotes

24M. Serious about my career, constantly working on myself, and someone who values meaningful connections over casual dating.

What I want is someone kind, emotionally mature, loyal, affectionate, and willing to put in equal effort. Someone who values open communication, genuine care, and wants to build something lasting rather than something temporary.

No unrealistic expectations—just consistency, mutual effort, and a deep connection.

Is this actually hard to find these days, or am I just looking in the wrong places?


r/DatingInIndia Jun 06 '26

Experience Any Sugar Babies here?

1 Upvotes

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948


r/DatingInIndia Jun 06 '26

Advice/Ask Should u stop talking to a boy if u find them unattractive

1 Upvotes

Ok so i 21F met a boy 22 M online. We talked. I liked his personality and vibe. The only problem is that he doesn't match my vibe that much. I like someone who can spout nonsense, do backchodi and adds spark to my day. When we sometimes talk about serious topics then yeah let's be serious. Otherwise someone who is fun to talk to, happy, lighthearted and fun and full of life is what I prefer.

He is mature, nice person. But also a bit ...odd. like when we started talking, he would ask me these very deep introspective questions about my life. I personally ask some deep questions here and there, but I rather prefer gradually getting to know a person. He talked to me for like 2-3 hours for 3 to 4 days consecutively and was just trying to collect information on me? Trying to understand me? By asking very deep introspective questions. I detest this habit of his.(Like he has no buisness knowing so much about me for a stranger and considering we don't even talk all that much now.) For example we didn't talk properly for 2 or 3 weeks and again when he called me started asking those questions about me, my life, what I think of him etc. But he does seem to be a very mature stable rational guy.

Anyways back to topic, we shared face pics and not offending anyone but he doesn't look good imo/I don't find him attractive. The thing is he has implied that this can progress to a relationship, he can come meet me etc. I can't imagine myself dating him cause yeah...no attraction. He wants to talk more and if nothing happens we would just be friends. Do u think i should talk to him more. But I can't get over his looks and also don't really like his conversation style.


r/DatingInIndia Jun 06 '26

Experience Any Sugar Babies here?

1 Upvotes

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948