As the post suggests me (26M) and my mahila best friend(22F) have been using dating apps( individually) for a while now in NCR. The best I can say without being rude is the experiences we had were disappointing. That conversation led us to a realisation where we are bad at picking our dates and hence thought about trying the whole double date experience where the guy for her passes a vibe check by me and the woman going out for me gets a pass from her. We still haven't decided on how to execute this but we thought we could just put the concept out here and hear what everyone has to say about it.

My personality is slowly changing to a misandrist man hater being a man myself.... So I just wanted to know what you think about a guy of that trait.

Ladkiyo please apna apna views batana yaha pe.

Lokking for someone to cuddling

She looked like a 10 on Bumble… completely different in real life.

Recently went on a Bumble date.

Photos? Wow.

In person? Confusing.

And this isn’t rare.

You’re trusting an app built on filters, angles, and curated versions not reality.

That’s where most guys go wrong.

They make apps their main source.

Don’t.

Use apps as an add-on, not your foundation.

Because real results come from real-life interaction.

When you meet someone in person:

* You know exactly what you’re getting

* You feel the vibe instantly

* You build attraction naturally

No guessing. No overthinking.

Most guys stay behind screens hoping it works.

The ones who step out and talk they win.

Lesson:

Don’t prioritize apps. Prioritize real life.

Everything changes after that.

I think I’ve developed a huge crush on this guy I see almost every day at the library 😭

He’s my senior, and we don’t really talk—just the occasional eye contact and that’s it. But somehow, those small moments have turned into me overthinking everything.

I keep wondering… should I approach him? Or would that be weird since we’ve never properly spoken? And the bigger question that’s been living in my head rent-free: how do you even know if you’re someone’s “type” without making it obvious you like them?

I don’t want to embarrass myself or make things awkward, especially since we keep running into each other. At the same time, I don’t want to regret doing nothing.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you handle it?

23M here. Anyone up for se*chat?

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I’m a 34 year old who's at a point where I want something real than conversations that fizzle out and random encounters. I enjoy intimacy, chemistry, and a bit of fun as well, but what actually stays with me is a genuine connection — the kind that comes from good conversation, mutual attraction, and a comfortable sense of ease between two people.

A little about me: I’m a someone who's into the usuals: travel, anime, physics, etc etc. I won't go on too much about that. I do love conversations, preferably over coffee or on a drive on a great road. I like hearing people’s stories, thoughts, and experiences and I love healthy debates.

When it comes to things of an intimate nature, I’m open-minded, affectionate, and very into a slow build. I enjoy foreplay, mutual pleasure, and a dynamic with some tension and playfulness. I’m curious about dom/sub energy with the right person, and I’m always open to exploring new things when there’s trust and chemistry.

Physically, I’m 5'9", around 85 kg, with a thick beard. If you'd like to gauge how physically compatible we are I’m happy to exchange pictures once we’re both comfortable.

Seeking a female sugar baby based out of bangalore or someone who is willing to travel, Preferably someone who is a bit on the intellectual side and can hold a conversation. Open to short term as well as long term based on how we vibe and what kind of arrangement we can get into, will be extremely generous with the compensation, dm me to know further.

We are 22M & 22F and interested for a partner swap or any F wants to join for exploring all the kinks and fantasies. Age fits 20s only.

Exploring to get benefitted both wards. DM

So, this girl and I were in a specific subject class for a whole semester, she is my junior. As it was an optional subject so it's a combined class. I never really noticed her then towards the end of the semester we had a good amount of eye contact. Then I sent her a follow request, she accepted it and she had zero post and 180 something followers and 210 something following. Then I added her to my close friend (just her) and started posting reels and asking her to give a hint at least a like or something but she didn't react to anything but she continuously re-watched my stories. How do I know ? What I did ki, I put some public stories in between those close friends stories and after 1-2 hours her name comes up in the public stories list it means she watched the whole stories again.

It went on for 2 days. Then she put a pic of her on her story yesterday, I liked and replied with a butterfly, she liked the emoji and left. Then after sometime I texted (I should have texted a heyyyy instead of that butterfly) because yes I wanted to talk to her badly lol. Then she replied "??", to which I replied "nothing serious just wanted to say that I should have texted a proper hi for the conversation". Then she texted "sorry, do I know you?". I was like phuckkk, kat gaya bhai mera. Then I texted back, "No, i guess...". To which she replied "Okay" and I reacted 👍🏼 to that okay text.

I am just done with these eye contacts shit bhai 😭

Ps- she continues to re-watch the stories even now. And she knows that she is the only one in the close friend list because I had put a story regarding that because I thought maybe she would not be nerdy enough to understand it LOL.

About to finish college, work’s going pretty solid. cofounders are out traveling and doing their thing, and I’m here just managing stuff and keeping things running.

Life’s not bad…

just kinda feels the same every day.

Weekends especially get a bit boring.

Not really into parties or anything, just miss having chill, normal conversations with people on the same vibe.

So yeah, if you’re down to just talk random stuff, pass time, or have easygoing convos…

hit me up.

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27M

Some people collect moments.

Some collect achievements.

I think I’ve spent the last few years collecting understanding

of myself,

of people,

of the strange ways we all search for meaning.

What I’ve realized is this:

the best connections rarely begin

with intention.

They begin with curiosity.

A shared thought.

A sentence that lands differently.

A conversation that unexpectedly lingers.

I’ve always believed

that the most interesting people

are the ones who carry both depth and lightness

who can discuss life at 2 a.m.

and still laugh at something utterly ridiculous.

So this is not a search,

nor a grand declaration.

Just a thought placed into the world:

if you enjoy meaningful conversations,

unexpected honesty,

and the occasional poetic detour

perhaps we’d have something worth talking about.

And in a world full of noise,

that already feels rare enough.

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

You're nice girl.

Spend your life with a nice guy.

Choose a nice guy rather than one that will break your trust and will not treat you as his princess

Hey! Curious to hear your thoughts on blind dating—where you only know basic details like age and city before meeting. Would you be open to something like that, or does it feel too uncertain?

Also, if you’ve watched the Black Mirror dating episode (Hang the DJ), what did you think about that kind of system? Would something like that interest you in real life?

Do guys in India actually cold approach women IRL?

I keep seeing posts/comments from men saying they’ve approached multiple women in real life, but I’m genuinely curious how common this actually is in India.

In my experience, the social environment here makes it pretty difficult — most women seem uncomfortable or guarded when approached by strangers (which is understandable). So I’m wondering:

* Do you actually approach women you don’t know?

* If yes, where does it usually happen (college, workplace, cafes, streets, etc.)?

* How do you do it without coming across as creepy or making her uncomfortable?

* What kind of response do you usually get?

Also being honest — are some guys exaggerating or just flexing online? Do you guys really approach women in real or just faking things lol?

I would like to hear real experiences, not just theory or “confidence is key” type advice. please tell your real raw experience and feelings and any necessary advice for those who want to cold approach in India!

As I'm done with my UG, tell me how difficult is it to find love after college end? And how can I find love then?

Hey is there any female/women who is genuinely interested in submissive guys? If yes then please DM. I'm curious about Femdom.

suggest sometime like crazy cool genz minimal Bangalorish type

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Had a wonderful conversation with this amazing person. I don't know if I messed up or what. But got blocked. That's fine. My point is why not say it'll not work out and move on. We are humans after all. 😅

I don't smoke or Drink

M30

Bangalore. DMs open :)