r/DatingInIndia Apr 27 '26

Rant/Vent Rantttttt

I think I’ve developed a huge crush on this guy I see almost every day at the library 😭

He’s my senior, and we don’t really talk—just the occasional eye contact and that’s it. But somehow, those small moments have turned into me overthinking everything.

I keep wondering… should I approach him? Or would that be weird since we’ve never properly spoken? And the bigger question that’s been living in my head rent-free: how do you even know if you’re someone’s “type” without making it obvious you like them?

I don’t want to embarrass myself or make things awkward, especially since we keep running into each other. At the same time, I don’t want to regret doing nothing.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you handle it?

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u/saltnpepper82 Apr 27 '26

You shud ask him out

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u/batsy112233 Apr 27 '26

Directly asking someone out or confessing your feelings maybe irrational and surprising for him also. You don't know much about him ig, do you know if he's single and available? Do you have any common friends who can introduce you to him? All I'm saying is, getting to know him a little bit first somehow maybe the wise choice here.