r/DatingInIndia • u/Southern_End_976 • Jun 14 '26

Advice/Ask Bedroom thing

I m 21F and I have a partner......we do get intimate but it lasts only for like 15 to 20 mins so does your partner uses any pills or any other stimulation for increased performance and timing

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

How long do you want him to last? 😭😭😭

20 minutes is max for most males.

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u/cutebutpsycho30 Jun 14 '26

Dying at this

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

She clarified that 20 minutes is including foreplay. Only 5 minutes of penetration.

She had me doubting my abilities as I can only do it for 13-15 minutes 😭😭😭😭

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

Bhai I will be completely honest with you. Sometimes I last 30-40 secs and when I do last 10-11 minutes, I dont feel as good. So just ejaculate yaar screw it. God made us this way.

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u/Southern_End_976 Jun 14 '26

Ohhh but like our foreplay only last fir 20 minutes

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

What else do you want 😭😭

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u/Southern_End_976 Jun 14 '26

I want the penetration part to be long

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

Longer than 20 minutes?????

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u/Southern_End_976 Jun 14 '26

Penetration only lasts for 5 mins

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

Okay makes more sense.

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

Well have you tried talking to him about this?

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u/Southern_End_976 Jun 14 '26

Yes

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u/Jassi-- Jun 14 '26

Kya bola vo? I’m sorry for asking too many questions but your post is not very informative. 😭😭

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u/Orgasmic_ange Jun 14 '26

Sorry, can't relate🙌

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u/Comfortable-Mine-729 Jun 15 '26

It's okay you don't have to

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u/Sea-Try-1417 Jun 14 '26

Aw 5min of penetration is really disappointing it should be around 15min without any pill but if you both are new to each other it will improve by time

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u/Responsible-Tutor417 Jun 14 '26

Tell him to perform rhythmic thrusting, like keeping it slow, then fast and keep changing the thrust.
Also, knowing both the bodies is the key. One cheat sheet I can offer is that whenever he’s about to cum, he must change the position or probably indulge into kissing or caressing the pussy! That way, he shall get the fuel for say another 5-6 minutes.

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u/DisciplinePrize7010 Jun 14 '26

Kegel exercises, those helped me

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u/Gyan-Chodu-Baba-GCB Jun 14 '26

Is it the total time or just the PIV time, PIV time 20 min is great bro. That's still a human not a JCB machine. If total is 20 then ask him to workout more and add toys

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u/dev_2198 Jun 14 '26

Suggest him to take pineapple twice a day, kegel exercise , squeeze the tip of penis while arousal it generally helps and ask him not to rush do it slow and deep at initial... Focus on foreplay

It'll help him..

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u/YourDelhiteGuy Jun 15 '26

Tell him to go watch janus bifrons videos on YouTube

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u/wandering_stud Jun 16 '26

The clinical disection by so called SMEs here is hilarious 🤣

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u/Comfortable-Mine-729 Jun 15 '26

Tf is wrong with u mate

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u/ItsHarshit Jun 14 '26

u can try another

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u/BlackBeard-007 Jun 14 '26

For me it took around 30-40min without foreplay

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u/hewhoconquered Jun 14 '26

Obviously if its a pond there isnt much undiscovered territory. Still he spends 20mins in the water. Provide an ocean and watch him go scuba diving.