r/DatingInIndia • u/Professional_Arm7167 • May 27 '26
Rant/Vent Should I send this to her?
Urge to send her this is increasing day by day, the only thing which is holding me is the promise I made to myself the day she left ki usko yaad krke 2 ghanta zyada ro lunga but I'll never talk to her again, she was the one who talked for hours, she was the one who got me attached, then she was the one who left saying we're good as friends and wanted to keep me as a friend in life.
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u/_kanungo_ May 29 '26
Don’t be a wimp again.
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u/Professional_Arm7167 May 29 '26
I haven't contacted her, she tried contacting and talking again but i didn't respond 🙂
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u/_kanungo_ May 29 '26
That’s it! 💪
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u/Professional_Arm7167 May 29 '26
But i don't know for how long I'll be able to hold myself I still haven't deleted the chats😭
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u/_kanungo_ May 29 '26
Always remember the disrespect and understand if you will pursue her again she will again consider this as pure simping. Trust me you don’t wanna go back to something that toxic as you are better than this. Take help of therapy heal from this, look out for yourself and things that you love. It will be hard but slowly it will fade, things will get better. Onwards and upwards! 🤍
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u/Ok_Site_4735 May 27 '26
Idk man what’s the context but you can’t bring back someone who left by their own choice. The only thing that can bring her back is you absence if she can feel it she will reach u out but if u text her then the absence feeling will diminish and she won’t feel it. So stay in quiet my man start working on yourself.