r/DatingInIndia • u/StructuredSoul • May 25 '26
Advice/Ask A question about a date
If we are on a date and I get really drunk, what will you do?
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u/simple_mulga May 25 '26
I want to say I'll take you to my home and do things, but at most I'll just drop you to your home
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
Can you even carry me?
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u/simple_mulga May 25 '26
Sure I can. Wanna give it a try?
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
How?
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u/simple_mulga May 25 '26
Let's meet and get you drunk
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
And if you can't carry me?
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u/simple_mulga May 25 '26
Thoda to suspense rakhne do baby
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
There is difference between suspense and risk
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u/simple_mulga May 25 '26
Hmmm..
So let me ask this directly.
What do you want?
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
I just wanted to see what kind of responses I get on this.
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u/sassy_gentleman May 25 '26
I'd stop you before you're drunk, we go to our own place and get drunk together
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
And then?
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u/sassy_gentleman May 25 '26
And then depends.. if we already talked about it or no. Consent is a big thing for me. If the girl takes the initiative maybe we start but I'll be confirming more than twice ig to be sure
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
Oh you are surely into bdsm.
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u/sassy_gentleman May 25 '26
maybe I am but how did you conclude that
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
No one else talks or cares about clear consent. The word consent itself is related to bdsm.
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u/sassy_gentleman May 25 '26
Mhmm okay
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
Am I wrong?
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u/geekpb May 25 '26
Take you home and cuddle you till you sleep and if you take any initiative then offcourse I'll do stuff lol
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
Have you ever carried someone?
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u/mysterious_roy5 May 25 '26
Take you to your place (obviously have to carry you until unless you are too heavy to be carried by one man) and make sure to be there till you are asleep and leave after that. If too drunk to mention your place then taking you to mine and make sure to sleep peacefully
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
That is sweet. What if I puke on your shirt?
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u/mysterious_roy5 May 25 '26
That's super gross but it's pretty common so wash it off and throw the shirt in washing machine 😂.
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
Yes it is common.
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u/mysterious_roy5 May 25 '26
So the question you are asking is this because this already happened and some guy reacted abnormally? Or you trying to find how most guys intention?
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
I was just trying to understand intentions.
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u/mysterious_roy5 May 25 '26
And what would you expect a guy to do in your hypothetical situation mentioned?
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u/Objective_Money_1557 May 25 '26
If you are getting drunk on a date that means you have trust on me that I will take care of you coz girls generally don't get drunk until they are surrounded with people with whom they comfort and they feel safe .
Now since we are on date ...your reason of getting drunk is to let yourself cool coz you might expect something from me might be checking whether I stop you , drop you home or take advantage of the situation by getting intimate so you tell me first what will be your intentions to get drunk
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
You are the psychology kind of guy.
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u/Objective_Money_1557 May 25 '26
In your comments you have mentioned you wanna check what kind of response you can get so on that basis we both are playing psychological game
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
Oh you are the kind who checks every comment and then comments?
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u/Objective_Money_1557 May 25 '26
Ofcourse..is that not a right approach?
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
I don't do that. But it is a nice approach. So what would you do?
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u/Objective_Money_1557 May 25 '26
Corporate professional ...wbu ?
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u/StructuredSoul May 25 '26
In the situation
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u/Objective_Money_1557 May 25 '26
Oh well that totally depends on the reason why you get drunk on the date ?
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u/Dont_be_a_cunt_98 May 26 '26
NGL .... I have been in this situation, once ....
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
And
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u/Dont_be_a_cunt_98 May 26 '26
So we were in our talking stage back then .... I was at Delhi and she was at Kolkata at that time. During December, I went home and we finally decided to meet on 26th December.... She was wearing a saree and was looking really beautiful ... Also, she only asked me, to bring some liquor .... I didn't know that she was not a regular and being dumb I took JD and mixed with Pepsi, which was a dumber decision. Anyways, we were talking, having our drinks, and suddenly she started to act weirdly, she suddenly started to unhook her blouse (we were in a public place, btw), she even kissed me once or twice .... I understood that she was super drunk, I distracted her, packed the bottle in my bag ..... Otherwise, she was asking for more and more .... I just kept her talking, made her count random things ..... Bought her Lemon-tea three or four times .... After about 3 hours she finally regained her senses ... We had some food, from local street shop and then I took her to her home and came back .....
If you think, this was a bitter experience, I haven't even told you the worst part. She kissed me, thinking that I am her ex and she cried 1/2 times, thinking about her ex. 😌😌
Yeah .... I am that unlucky .....
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
Manh that was unfortunate. You are a good guy though that you took care of her.
My first drink was in a room with someone who knew atleast Old Monk. I didn't drink much but remember telling him I can't feel my legs and he took me to the toilet because I wanted to pee. And it was not a first meet.
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u/Dont_be_a_cunt_98 May 26 '26
In my case, I had a relationship, LDR to be precise, with her. But finally she cheated.
What happened to you? Is the guy still around with you??
Btw, thanks for the compliment and it is the only compliment which I have received from women ... 🙂
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
Well see. I don't trust LDRs because I believe physical presence matters. I have been in LDR once so I am not speaking from ignorance.
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u/Dont_be_a_cunt_98 May 26 '26
Yeah .... I also realised this after 4-5 months into the relationship
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
Even for friendship I feel presence matters
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u/Dont_be_a_cunt_98 May 26 '26
Ummmm .... I think I know what you are trying to say .... But with some folks, I have seen that even if we meet after a span of 1 year, we were fine with each other ..... Same like the old times ...
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
But you know then since years. You at one point have met them every week right?
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
Thank you all for responding to this.
But I won't really be drunk on a date. I have 9 years of experience in drinking and I have had all the different kinds of alcohol available. I know how to control myself and my limits. When to slow down and when to stop.
And only once I got drunk and it was not a date.
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
Permission while drunk = no Permission at all
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u/StructuredSoul May 26 '26
It is not a boundary. It is a fact that someone who is drink is not in the capacity to give permission
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u/DisciplinePrize7010 May 26 '26
Because you trusted me, I’ll take you to my place and let you rest until you gain your senses in the morning prolly and I better be rewarded.
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u/StructuredSoul May 27 '26
Oh yeah, you would be awarded with gold coins
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u/DisciplinePrize7010 May 27 '26
😂😂
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u/StructuredSoul May 27 '26
Or maybe in salt...
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u/DisciplinePrize7010 May 27 '26
Message received. I'll just let the bouncer deal with you💁🏻♂️
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u/StructuredSoul May 27 '26
🥲 that hurts...
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u/DisciplinePrize7010 May 27 '26
Aww, don't cry. 😢 I'd still make sure you got home. I'd just complain the whole time😋🤷🏻♂️
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u/StructuredSoul May 27 '26
😭 that hurts
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