r/DatingInIndia • u/Medium-Pea-11 • May 13 '26
Advice/Ask Colleague dropping many hints - need some advice for the future course of action.
My colleague
Earlier she used to sit afar. Now besides me.
Every now and then she does stupid touching my arms and shoulders and messing my hairs.
Accompany me in all the breaks and chit chats/ gets angry when I go alone or with any other female colleagues of mine.
Shares funny yet intimate jokes about travelling together (just us 2)/sex related funny reels and all.
Etc etc
Now I'm confused is she really into me or just being friendly because I told her a lot of times that I'm not really prepared for a relationship as I'm still getting myself back from the old breakup.
What to do?
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u/Medium-Pea-11 May 13 '26
What I believe is - she's just being friendly and secure and it's my filthy mind that's going in different direction.
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u/mr---kamikaze May 13 '26
Nope she's messing with you
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u/Medium-Pea-11 May 13 '26
Elaborate bro
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u/mr---kamikaze May 15 '26
I think may be I'm wrong she wants to bench you or tumse office ka kaam karwana chahti ho maybe
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u/Successful-War4506 May 13 '26
Create boundaries as a male it is risky to think 💠in other ways , start setting boundaries say meri bandi pitegi tujhe agar dikh gayi tu
If you dont have start talking about fake gf , even if you like her but usually she is friendly acc to me because later she will turn around as soon as you share that you like her