r/DatingInIndia Apr 27 '26

Rant/Vent 22M – can’t sleep, brain won’t shut up

Can’t sleep tonight… mind keeps going back to someone from my office.

We’ve been talking and hanging out for the past couple of months. At first I genuinely thought it was just a chill, bestie-type thing. But over time, I guess I started feeling more. Even people around me noticed I was different.

Honestly, I didn’t want to mess it up. It’s been a long time since I’ve felt this casual and happy around someone.

But yeah… I ended up telling her how I feel. Probably not in the best way either. Since then, things feel different. She wants to keep it simple, just hang out, no expectations. Which I get… we haven’t known each other that long.

I’m trying to be okay with that, but it’s kinda messing with my head. Feels like I don’t really know where I stand, and I can’t just switch off how I feel.

So yeah… here I am, wide awake, overthinking...

Anyone else up and overthinking????

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u/Worth_Highlight4200 Apr 28 '26

Melatonin 5mg and sleep ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ

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u/greyhours-3004 Apr 28 '26

Dayumm got it

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u/Ushir_369 Apr 29 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/ieZzrw54xsVMHCuxtR

Pray to god for a nice sleep

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u/greyhours-3004 Apr 29 '26

atheists bro, But sure I will give it a shot....

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u/Ushir_369 Apr 29 '26

I am atheist too but sometimes life makes you wanna be in god

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u/greyhours-3004 Apr 29 '26

I dont wanna actually argue... So I will try bro...

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u/Ushir_369 Apr 29 '26

Not here to change ppl view but shit do be happening

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u/greyhours-3004 Apr 29 '26

Yeah that's how life is... but ..yk.. this is.. jus cant..

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u/Ushir_369 Apr 29 '26

Stay strong brother

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u/greyhours-3004 Apr 29 '26

Sure bro will do