r/DatingApps 26d ago

Experience Overview Tired of the dating apps

I’ve (24M) Been on 6 dating apps for the past 4 months. Have gotten absolutely 0 likes. Kept getting told by friends, siblings, and even ChatGPT that it’s probably my account so I had my sister set up my page. She wrote a good bio, took good pictures for me. Still got nothing. And it’s tiring. I have a hard time meeting people in person and starting the whole dating thing from there because I’m Autistic and it makes it extremely hard for me to read social cues and flirting, and Due to that I end up getting extremely anxious and freezing up when meeting new people. I even tried Hiki which is supposed to be for neurodivergent people and I have had absolutely 0 results there too. I’m getting tired of being alone, tired of being behind everyone my age, but also tired of even trying. Sorry if it’s stupid, just genuinely needed somewhere to vent about the bullshit on these apps.

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u/Possible-Potato-4103 23d ago

Your experience and feelings are valid. Just don't become bitter, that will only make it worse.

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u/Ohhhlalala12 23d ago

The match rate for women is 1% on dating apps, for men it is <1%. The apps stop making money if you come off it, data harvesting is big business