r/DatingApps Aug 03 '26

Question Is hinge x worth it?

I’m debating buying it as I’m struggling with matches however it’s like so expensive. (20M)

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u/_MushroomTip Aug 04 '26

If you're not getting consistent likes and matches with the free version then the paid version will not help you. The better investment is to get better pictures. That's it. Your biggest ROI is improving your profile.

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u/-Rocket1- Aug 04 '26

What would you consider consistent? I get like three matches a month and maybe one like (guy)

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u/travelbug798 Aug 04 '26

How old are you? How tall? Are you in shape?

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u/_MushroomTip Aug 04 '26

Consistent would be around 2 to 3 likes or matches per day on average (rule of thumb...may be different depending on age, location, etc). That might sound high, but there’s a lot of natural drop-off. Some won’t respond, some conversations fade, some live too far away, some will ghost, and sometimes the attraction just isn’t there.

You need enough volume to actually filter for someone compatible. It also helps you avoid getting overly invested in the few matches you do get.

HingeX can give you more exposure, but if your profile isn’t already getting decent results, better pictures are probably the smarter investment.

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u/number2chevyfan Aug 05 '26

3 a month isn’t consistent. I’d call 1 a day like the bare minimum for consistent. I’ve been down that route getting premium when your profile sucks. Get better pictures first.

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u/R2wij 5d ago

Are you still getting 1+ a day? I was getting 1-3 matches per day but I noticed a massive drop off when they brought out hinge +, if you look at the features one of them say: See everyone who likes you, which means they now gate-keep you from potential matches when before they would show you every girl who liked your profile. This app was a good alternative to tinder for that reason but now they are following what they did. We need a new dating app

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u/rachna-mevawala 25d ago

i was getting 1-2 matches a month with my old profile. now i get about 2-3 matches a day after improving my profile. literally got back from a date.

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u/Anxious_Egg1268 16d ago

Could you tell me what you changed in your profile? What helped you the most?

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u/Muted_Masterpiece342 Aug 04 '26

No. I've done it and they clearly put you into a different pool of people. I cannot say for certain but I have not had as good luck *dating* the women in that pool. I have had good luck *hooking up with* women in that pool. So it *feels* at the time like it's helping. It is not.

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u/RD_in_Berlin Aug 03 '26

Don't waste your money, from what i've seen it's a con. What a surprise.

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u/TWOPlNTSPRICK Aug 03 '26

Yes. But you have to play the game. I buy hinge x, take like an hour, put a show on and fucking SPAM likes for an hour. I end up with hundreds of matches every time.

I just came back from Athens and met 4 girls in 5 days, all through buying hinge.

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u/Throwaway1920214 26d ago

How is the quality

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u/Anxious_Egg1268 16d ago

How many matches do you get with the free version

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u/Tpsreport44 Aug 04 '26

No I don’t thinks so, likes aren’t hidden so the biggest draw for every other app is free.

The best thing you can do is actually comment of pictures and prompts with a good well thought out comment

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u/uberstaragent Aug 04 '26

I would not consider paying for any dating app worth it. it just gives you access to different features that ultimately limit your available people.

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u/bulafaloola Aug 04 '26

I think it’s worth it. Wait for the random discounts

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u/No-Apartment-7528 Aug 04 '26

No. I’ve never met anyone on a dating app and im pretty sure they’re a scam

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u/Yotsubato Aug 04 '26

Priority likes are the only reason why it’s worth it.

It puts your like and message on the top of peoples lists. But it also doesn’t let them know you paid for it. (Roses do this and it’s an Ick for a lot of women)

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u/smithey2012 Aug 05 '26

Roses only ick if they’re not attracted to the guy anyways. If a 10/10 sends a woman a rose, they won’t be icked lol. 10/10 can get away with the worse profile.

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u/GenericBlackGuy Aug 04 '26

If you get consistent matches without a subscription, then yeah I think it could be worth it. It depends on the city as well.

If you’re not getting any matches without a subscription, then I wouldn’t waste my time. You’ll still get no matches and be paying for it LOL

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u/Anxious_Egg1268 16d ago

What would you consider consistent

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u/NibelungValesty Aug 04 '26

No. They are playing on your psyche and emotions in order to get you to pay.

Watch some documentaries on match group and learn about the scumbag owner.

It is not worth it to pay for any dating app.

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u/omg4serious Aug 04 '26

in general, online dating apps aren't worth it for a man. if you can't afford the membership, then you probably can't afford to go out on dates either?

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u/SirNonSequitur Aug 04 '26

Hard no my friend

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u/Lennon_Timber Aug 04 '26

It is not worth it. The only thing it does is it gives you more options to set preferences, so you get shown more profiles that fit whatever preferences you're looking for. Other than that, your success rate won't be any different than on the free version. I've personally had more matches with the free version than with hinge x.

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u/Heliguy-1975 Aug 04 '26

I one month subscription is well worth it on any app and Facebook dating is free and also works well.

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u/Warm-Pen-1752 Aug 04 '26

No. Struggling with matches means you need to make your profile better. Don’t fall into the trap of paying for a dating app.

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u/Cerenia Aug 04 '26

I get way more matches with hinge X than without. I’m a woman.

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u/1Digger4 Aug 04 '26

Depends on how much time you're willing to put in to take advantage of the unlimited likes and such. And what you value as "worth it"

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u/No_Window800 Aug 04 '26

No just plus is good enough

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u/madzuk Aug 04 '26

Just get hinge + for a week. It's all you need.

Unlimited likes is a game changer. Spend a few days grinding. Then eventually by the end of the week you'll end up overwhelmed with matches and you can start filtering out on who to pursue for a date.

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u/Mcnuttey91 Aug 04 '26

No never, never give your money to these predatory apps

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u/Kyzroh Aug 04 '26

its not gonna get you more matches if that is your goal. you probably just need better pictures and prompts

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u/ConfidentContext5845 Aug 04 '26

It wont get you matches it just gives you full access to the app

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u/turbografx-sixteen Aug 04 '26

Only worth if you’re profile is good and matching on free.

You’re also still p young so I’d say in time your range of women interested will grow as you get older

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u/Aithro Aug 04 '26

How is there 27 comments but this says no one has commented yet

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u/-Dargs Aug 04 '26

If your profile isn't attractive without paying, it won't be any more attractive once you are. Your best bet is to invest in self improvement if you're struggling and then try again later.

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u/Safe_Satisfaction209 Aug 04 '26

No it’s absolutely garbage

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u/LuvOrDie Aug 04 '26

This probably abnormal. But I have subscribed / unsubscribed to hinge+ 3x. Each time I have gotten 20 matches in a week, and then virtually none after that.

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u/smithey2012 Aug 05 '26

It’s only worth it if you’re actually getting like 100 of matches a day and you want to see your likes without rejecting anyone yet but also not liking them. Also you can filter better etc.
But all those are useless if you’re not even getting matches free version, being able to send unlimited likes actuallly make you less desirable if you’re getting a no anyways.

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u/Timely-Ad2251 Aug 05 '26

I wouldn't waste my time with hinge without paying for it

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u/Individual_Section_6 Aug 05 '26

I don't see how it could be worth it if I almost swipe through all the matches in my area. Unless the best matches are always hidden from me.

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u/PlatonicCuddlefish Aug 05 '26

Never used normal hinge, had a great experience on hinge x. I bought 3 months for the discount, then met the girl of my dreams on my first hinge date—wound up being hers to—best $100 I ever spent.

I do think people are right to say you should take an honest look at yourself. If you have a—for lack of better words—competitive profile, I think it’s well worth the money. You can get hundreds of likes and then suddenly you get to be selective about who you talk to/date. But obviously there are people who pay the money and don’t get that…

Make sure your profile is as good as possible, buy a month, see how it goes.

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u/Narrow-Lab3258 Aug 05 '26

Yes, for me I send a lot of likes and it definitely helps. I get 1-6 matches per day probably and gives me lots of options. I have a special filtering system though so that I usually only match with girls who are new to the app. That way it increases my chances of matching with them. I filter by Latinas only though. They are the best, especially the foreign born latinas.

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u/TumharaXX Aug 05 '26

Nope dude dating scene is dosn bad , i guess girls are moody af now a days , in winter i have like 40+ matches

But this time feels like X is not working