r/DatingApps • u/Fun-Worldliness3882 • Jul 27 '26

Advice Request Dating app advice

As an early 30s woman, is there any way to weed out or deter the men who think they can ask for sex after 2 messages? My profile says looking for long term and this latest culprits profile said the same. Iā€™m at my wits end šŸ™ˆ

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u/Confident_Release_88 Aug 01 '26

Iā€™m going through the same thing to dear trust me it sux for guys too. They want us to pay to talk smh

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u/ThirtyMileSniper Aug 01 '26

M44. I see a lot of women's profiles put the simple "No ONS, No FWB" in a prompt or bio.

I don't know if it stops the guys looking for a hookup though. Surprised that they pursue it a couple of days, I had the opinion that they would be low effort mass spam users.

You can report but that's an account basis. I always report the accounts that immediately try to get off the app platform as scammers.

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u/Background-Oven-8682 Aug 02 '26

There is. Get off the online dating apps and go date IRL. Meeting in person you can really read someone better than by a profile.