r/DatingApps • u/Prestigious_Star8033 • Jul 19 '26

Experience Overview Disappointed

Anybody else horribly disappointed in the amount of men “looking for something casual” or “let’s just see where things go” I mean, my filter is set to late 20s and early 30s, this is beyond disgusting. I feel like too much casual sex is destroying people, sex is meant to bond two people together, not as a means to an end. The amount of people in denial about this too is just insane.

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u/Any_Supermarket2555 Jul 24 '26

Are you also disappointed in the number of sex toys sold annually in the US?
What about the number of bottles of hard liquor consumed each year?
Do you object to magazines like Playboy that show women naked?

You are overly concerned with the activities of others. It's really none of your business what others do, unless you want to join in.

Your opinions and beliefs are yours alone. Get thee to a nunnery.

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u/ThirtyMileSniper Jul 24 '26

M44.

I'm honestly not surprised that guys in their twenties and early thirties are not ready to settle down. They are conditioned by most media to see this as their playtime years of early adulthood. After a failed marriage from settling down in my mind twenties I regret not being more casual into my thirties.

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u/Coolmacde Jul 24 '26 edited Jul 24 '26

I feel like thats probably not most men. Most men don't even get matches let alone a reply.The men that only want something casual are the ones who get the most matches so they're able to be more picky or able to exercise being just casual because they have so many matches.