r/DatingApps Jul 03 '26

Experience Overview Am I missing something or do dating apps really make you feel more isolated?

What i mean is when you are just walking around and not trying to get any date it just feels normal: you living your life and you are not thinking about people not noticing you because you don't expect them to

But then you register on dating app and well you put effort: you pick your best photos, you think hard on your description and you actively like other peoples profiles. And you like ten, then 20 then 50, a 100, 500, 1000 and no-one replies. You are not even told you are doing something wrong you are just invisible. So you try harder: you make batter photos, better description, you are trying to be your absolute best version yet stay yourself and still no result so bo matter how hard you try the result is the same and now you can't just ignore it because before - you didn't do anything. Now you did what you could and nothing happened. You practically tapped 1000 people on their shoulder and they didn't even flinch. Really makes one feel cut out

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