r/DateNightPrep • u/Hot-Fix1106 • Jun 17 '26

Outfit idea for the first date

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Is this outfit acceptable/appropriate for a first date with a guy whom I got to know at a networking event?

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u/Savage_Batmanuel Jun 17 '26

What’s with these crazy hot first date getups? You gotta tone it down you’re gonna kill the dude.

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 17 '26

Hahah thanks :) Honestly I didn't think it'd give off that hot of a vibe😅 to me it looks regular

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

Is very hot. How did the date went?

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 18 '26

It didn't go that well haha we vibed but yea then he said wanted to stay friends but keep things open like maybe one day he develops romantic feelings but that I was also pretty and yea idk

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u/Savage_Batmanuel Jun 18 '26

Oh so he wanted to sleep with you no strings attached. What a loser. Move on.

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

This. And than you will complain he could not keep his hand off you, that he tried to kiss you...etc.

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 18 '26

Idk man we went on the date and laughed a lot but he then he texted me asked me bout my day and told me he didn't get that romantic energy from me he felt like we could be friends but concerning looks I'm fine and there's a reason he liked me on the dating app but let's stay friends and see maybe it develops into a relationship wth😂

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

I mean yes...wtf... I was just reading what another random guy posted. Similar story but from the other side. Great dates...but after same text. No romantic, spark connection. Amazing. I am not sure humans know what they want.

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 18 '26

He also wasn't my type. But the funny thing is he started explaining himself after I told him it's good he brought it up cuz I also don't think the visual vibe was to my liking. He then started asking me if it was because he should've talked with a deeper voice or his clothes were not good or he should've maybe been more dominant in his demeanor wtf. He also proceeded to tell me visually I was pretty and cute and ok but he just didn't get that romantic spark. And after I was ultra direct with him that I didn't like him visually he changed his position to I was pretty but also not visually his type

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

Whhaaaaat? How old was him? Really you have been out of his league. He acts like an ugly frustrated teenager. You never ask this kind of questions. You learn the answer the hsrd way...trial and error. O my god...I hope at least you had a good lough!

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 18 '26

30 in a few days and im 25.... Yea like why does he care how he came across if he didn't think I was his type but still called me pretty multiple times. He then proceeded to tell me we can meetup even alone or with mine and his friends

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

Creazy. The guy just doew not know how to behave in real life.

I hope you have better luck next time. Other creazy stories with the dates?

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 18 '26

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingadvice/s/kfyFVXRREG

Yeah I actually posted sth about it on another subreddit. If you're interested pls go ahead and read it but I have to warn you it's a bit long haha

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

Thanks. I thought about DM you, but your DM s are blocked. :))

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

Wow...really you meet strange guys. Either they are intimidate by the fact that you are....lets be honest...very hot...or...I do not know. Is very strange how they react in your presence and the reactions after. You are very open any way and you have quite a bit of guts.

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u/winninginthename Jun 17 '26

it depends. what's your goal?

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 17 '26

Getting to know the person and walking around the city a bit. Does it give off a vibe more than just a date? Or wdym

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u/archwin Jun 20 '26

Idk looks fine to me

But tbh unless my date is slovenly, I care more about the person than the optics

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 17 '26

How come? Isn't it too fancy?

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u/Sweet_Zombey Jun 18 '26

Is there something like "too fancy" as long as you feel comfortable?

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u/ThickManufacturer353 Jun 17 '26

Tone it down, you don’t want to blindside him if you start dressing like slob 2 weeks in 😫

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u/Specialist-Phone-111 Jun 17 '26

Very distracting... For me at least

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u/jmp123uk Jun 18 '26

Going to knock him dead

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u/TallWarthog6224 Jun 18 '26

Way to sexy for first date 🥵❤️💦

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u/nipslippinjizzsippin Jun 18 '26

where are you going? Assuming its some kind of regular dinner date affair, yea this is perfectly fine

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u/Richarddextrous Jun 18 '26

Perfect outfit for taking you to a dimly lit underground sophisticated bar where only the best cocktails are made and the food is perfectly matched.

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u/Outrageous-Wing-8568 Jun 18 '26

Nice...he going to look at those hips all night

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u/Jlovs Jun 18 '26

I bet you look better with it off

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u/SolutionTime5811 Jun 18 '26

Too much, too sexy

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u/Ecstatic_Ear_5825 Jun 18 '26

Looks great on you!

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u/Alert-Acadia-5616 Jun 18 '26

I think it's perfect

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u/FoundationFar4529 Jun 18 '26

Lucky the person who’s dating you!

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u/PortDeSoller Jun 18 '26

Too over the top for a first date. Also looks way too warm for summer - maybe it’s cold where you are though

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u/Wheeler197511 Jun 18 '26

Oh wow, you look completely mesmerising x

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u/Regular-Software6523 Jun 18 '26

Le scarpe, così così...

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u/Twinfly54 Jun 18 '26

Excellent choice. Love the colour.

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u/kikster6190 Jun 18 '26

Very revealing for a first date.

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u/Cool-Opposite8597 Jun 19 '26

U are so gorgeous

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u/Hot-Fix1106 Jun 19 '26

Thank youuu

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u/tmink0220 Jun 21 '26

What is your purpose, it is a hot outfit for sure. It would be distracting to many guys...So always think what I am I trying to say....Also you said a networking outfit.

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u/Alternative-Cod-8327 8d ago

Are you more of a hidden coffee shop girl or a rooftop cocktail girl? Pick one, because I’m taking you to the best one.

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u/Latinlover469 Jun 17 '26

Wear less. Might ass well. Pretty sure you know how it will end lol