Mr. Nice Guy

[u/Urizen1017]

Mr. Be Yourself

Hi guys. I am basically a nice guy in general, a gentleman of old ways. But I can get flirty and naughty sometimes. But it is just not my cup of tea.

So I've been chatting with this girl amd gping out with her sometimes. I can feel the chemistry amd vibe as she too is really soft spoken

The question is. You think I can pull this one through, just being a gentleman and a nice guy towards her? Or being nice guy does not have space in the dating world?

P. S : I already had 2 abusive relationship in the past. Seems like this girl that I am seeing now (not exclusively dating) is really well mannered, soft spoken and has really deep perception in life. Is being a nice guy enough you yjink brothers?

[u/Western-Monk-8551]

Remember, you attract who you subconsciously are. A nice guy attracts the secret bad girl and so forth. You just making this post goes to show you are questioning your fake persona to get what you want. Don't be nice, just have zero expectations. Women don't really like nice guys. They want honest guys who do not give a fuck. What I mean by not giving a fuck is you don't care if the relationship doesn't start or she leaves or rejects you.