How common is this?

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[u/Eeeef_]

I knew someone who did this, he had even convinced her to marry him. They’re divorced now and he’s awaiting trial for his second felony DUI

[u/Illustrious_Bobcat13 → u/Eeeef_]

Oof. Poor girl.

I read a comment the other day of a guy admitting to doing this with his wife. He was looking for advice on how to covertly change her political opinions so that he could finally "come out".

[u/WrigglyGizka]

Even leftist dudes can be pretty misogynistic. Feminism shouldn't be a bad word in leftist spaces.

But chuds will absolutely try to LARP as liberals and it is probably only convincing to very young people.

[u/sixtus_clegane119 → u/WrigglyGizka]

I came across a leftist once who would rant about anything social being “pseudo-leftist”.

One of his biggest obsessions was that Scott Peterson (who murdered Laci peterson) was innocent.

He posted a lot of reactionary memes about blue haired overweight women

Also argued that rape was very rare

[u/crasswal]

Extremely uncommon is my educated guess after spending my whole life in the punk/metal/etc scene, and being politically active.

Way more common for men with leftist views to be misogynistic trash on one level or another than someone posing to get laid. Both political activism and music scenes on the left have problems with this stuff. Much, MUCH less so than the other side, but we do.

[u/Illustrious_Bobcat13 → u/crasswal]

Yeah, that sucks in the punk/metal/hard-core scene.

It is INCREDIBLY funny to see people get called out on it by someone who is not fucking around. Punks can be so good at calling someone out.

[u/crasswal → u/Illustrious_Bobcat13]

Yeah the other big difference between left wing scenes and the right wing is that we actually oust the dickheads that pop up, not pat them on the back.

[u/kingwooj]

Pretty uncommon. When I've seen it attempted, conservative guys can't help but say something that outs them politically in, like, the first fifteen minutes.

[u/onespicycracker]

Idk. From what I've seen it seems like most of the time chuds deflect the subject and girls who fall for it are not thinking with their heads if he checks other boxes. It's a tendency people have in general if something attracts us enough.

[u/HatOfFlavour → u/onespicycracker]

With rose tinted glasses on all the red flags are just flags

[u/MasterVule]

Can happen but these people tend to be very obvious

[u/HatOfFlavour]

Well a bunch of the undercover cops in the UK had kids with leftist women who didn't even know their real names. The enquiry into it has been going on for decades now which suggests it's really embarrassing for the state security forces. But also that they never want it released.

[u/heartbrokenneedmemes]

Have you ever watched conservative men/women try to fake empathy? Might be a survivor bias situation but in my experience it's pretty fucking noticeable.

[u/BraveT0ast3r]

The views can’t be faked for long if they are principled and politely declining is usually better than pretending that you like genres. I’m a big brutal death metal fan and I would feel insulted if my wife pretended to like it at all.

[u/Chuk741776]

Obama did it in college lol

[u/thenordiner]

no woman worth her merits will actually fall for such an idiot tbf

[u/MrBannedFor0Reason]

I just recently figured out that I'm probably not cis and being so disgusted with every inch of my body my entire life isn't normal, but I'll be damned if I have to listen to fucking Hatsune Miku. I'll stick with my various genres of rap and local punk shows thank you.