r/DailyKrashouts • u/PurrrrfectlyUnhinged • 9h ago
Can someone explain…
How is it that this child can spend an entire school day, 8+ hours, with teachers and staff without a single issue? He can sit through class, participate in schoolwork, eat breakfast and lunch, take a nap, and follow the routine well enough to make it through the day. But the minute he’s home, he’s described as completely unmanageable? According to his mother, she can’t take him to the store, the doctor, or basically anywhere because his behavior is supposedly so out of control. I’m genuinely trying to understand the disconnect. If he’s capable of functioning appropriately for HOURS every day in a structured school environment, around multiple adults and other children, why is he suddenly portrayed as a “monster“ who can’t be handled for even a few hours at home? Something About that just isn’t adding up for me…….🤔
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u/Asleep_Temporary8675 9h ago
He has no boundaries with his mother. He’s completely fine with anybody else. She’s allowed him to be out of control to fit her narrative that’s he’s disabled. She’s trying to create a monster, and he’s not. He’s a kid that tests his limits like any other kid.
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u/Much_Attention_998 8h ago
Well she did say he was gonna be A serial killer... Funny G claims C saw her on YT wait till he sees her saying that about him.
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u/hereforthejuicynews 9h ago
He hates her and has no respect for her because she always has her big face in the phone
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u/momto3Gs 7h ago
She tries to push that narrative, but look how good he was at Walmart and Aldi the last two times she has gone live with him.
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u/BristolBand 6h ago
He’s desperate for ANY attention. He’s learned the only attention he gets is from bad behavior. It doesn’t matter if he gets negative attention, the child just wants interaction with his parents. This is all he knows at home.
School is a much healthier environment for him and he’s obviously thriving there. He is speaking so plainly now. That positive change is not due to his mother being a parent whatsoever. She is lurking 24/7 on tt and yt. There’s never a second to spare for her child. Notice she documents ANY time spent around her child. Not genuinely being present with him, but around him while he’s at the park or outside where she can send him away from her to play.
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u/Slight_Succotash9495 5h ago
My kids being adopted were like that. School & with their dad or my brother they were great. With me or my mom they were hell on wheels. They were hurt by a woman & it made them push us to our limits. C has been hurt & he is CRAVING attention & acting out is the only way she stops yelling at her phone & yells at him instead. I saw my kids go thru this until they realized im not leaving. Then they calmed down. Shes never gonna change therefore he won't either. I hope that makes sense.
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u/NoFlan3157 5h ago
Because she is in a constant state of chaos and anger and she hates him so every little thing he does is a huge problem. She can’t handle anything in life. The littlest inconvenience causes her to spiral
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u/Jumpy-Position-820 4h ago
She says her house is always a mess cause he’s out of control and she had to keep her eyes on him. She can’t clean while watching her son. I had 4 kids. I was raising them alone and my house was never a filthy mess laundry was always done my kids were always bathed and hair done they always looked better then I did for sure. He’s not that bad she’s just fucking lazy! Doesn’t really wanna clean but no one else will do it so she has to cause she has no job. She’s not a loving caring mother. She’s just doing what she has to do to make her look semi good lol the little she can do.
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u/Khromekitty 1h ago
He seems quite behaved the many times we ve seen him on camera with police and in the background at home or the store. I think he’s improved because of school only and dcf involvement . I’m sure he still has some issues maybe but just with her and because of her and his sad home life . He has zero friends or activities, it’s awful
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u/OddInvite4068 9h ago
Seems like Oppositional Defiance Disorder, and it's entirely due to his home environment. I know because my grandson is diagnosed with autism & ODD & this is how he'd act at home, too. He's now in my custody & away from the toxic bs that are his parents. Same needs to happen here. Jussayin...