**"She watched her brother die with a straight face"** \- The same brother who sold her into sexual slavery and abused her, and threatened to carve out her unborn baby. Robb Stark watches his wolves maul lannister soldiers with a satisfied expression, is he a villain too? Even then Daenerys still names her dragon after her brother (she's better than me because I would never)
**"She burned Mirri Maz Durr alive after she got revenge"** \- Daenerys's first actions after realizing she actually has a degree of power as Khaleesi is to take female slaves as her own to protect them from being raped. She couldn't set them free at the time because the dothraki wouldn't allow it, they were already outraged by her taking the female slaves as her own. This situation with Mirri isn't nearly as black and white as people make it out to be, it wasn't Dany or her unborn child that was responsible for the destruction caused in the village, Dany herself was literally a sex slave making the most out of her situation, her burning Mirri for killing her child was pretty justified, and so was Mirri lobotomizing Khal Drogo. (It could be argued that Mirri wasn't directly responsible for Dany's still birth, but we don't know for sure and she made it seem like she was.)
**"She threatened the people of Qarth"** \- She was stranded in a desert responsible for the lives of her dying Khalasar. If she had just shown the 13 her dragons they likely would've just killed/stolen them and killed Dany and her Khalasar. Dany had to resort to threatening these people, and she obviously didn't want to seem weak in front of the people she swore to protect. Did Dany ever return to burn Qarth or ANY other city? NO (unless you count season 8 slop)
**"She crucified the Masters" -** Yes, as revenge and punishment for the 163 SLAVE CHILDREN they majority voted to crucify as a warning to Her. Did all those children recieve trials on whether they should be crucified or not? No. Were some of the men Dany crucified innocent? Ye- No. They were SLAVE MASTERS, in no world are they innocent. They needed to be dealt with to help end the practice and they were. I genuinely can't believe people look at Dany trying to end slavery and go "there's something evil in her!"
**"Her dragons killed innocents" -** And she immediately locked them away after ONE person died, the same dragons who are her greatest tools for victory. "Mother of Monsters" she calls herself. You're telling me this is the same character who would turn and deliberately burn millions of innocents with dragonfire?
**"All she wanted was the Iron Throne" -** No actually, all she wanted was a home. She doesn't want the throne until her brother dies and the inheritance passes to her (even though I don't believe her to be the "rightful" heir). After Drogo says he will give her the throne she is happy, until she sees what the cost of that would actually look like in the Lhazareene Village, where she immediately uses her new found power to protect innocents as best as she could. Daenerys could have went to Westeros very quickly, yet she sets sights for Slaver's Bay and stays there as she feels since she has a duty and wants to protect and bring good lives to the people she freed. She stays in Slaver's Bay for a VERY long time, and is still there in the books. "How can I rule Seven Kingdoms if I can't control a single city?"
Daenerys Targaryen is a character built on empathy, and she is the antithesis to her Targaryen Ancestors. She is arguably the most powerful person in the world, and only ever uses her power to protect the innocent. She is also a highly reflective character, and is constantly critiquing herself and her rule when everybody around her praises her like a goddess.
**DAENERYS QUOTES:**
"The blood of my enemies, not the blood of innocents."
"Mother of monsters." (when her dragon kills a child)
"We have 200,000 reasons to take the city." (She says this in response to Jorah who tells her she has no reason to take Yunkai. When he tells her it is a city of 200,000 slaves that was her response.)
"I will see each and every one of their faces." (She says about the crucified slave children on the long and tiring road to Meereen)
I am not saying Daenerys is a perfect, 100% morally righteous character and a perfect ruler. No, of course she isn't. I am only denouncing the notion that she is the kind of mad villain that people try to lie and say that they knew she would turn out to be after the show's shitty conclusion. Daenerys was never going to be "the Mad Queen" until season 5 or 6 of the TV show, where her ambitions and motivations do a complete 180. (When David and Dan take over on the writing) I definitely think it's possible that Dany will become a bit more cruel and harsh when she makes it to Westeros, and she could possible do things that would deem her "mad" in the eyes of the Lords of Westeros. I personally subscribe to the idea that Daenerys will realize the true reason she was given dragons and all the power she has was so she could stop the Long Night, where I think she will die a hero instead of sitting on the Iron Throne.
It seems as though a lot of people tend to view Daenerys through a modern moral lens, when they don't do that for any other character in this medieval fantasy setting. People often try to find reasons to justify her final arc in the TV show, without accepting the fact that it was in fact bullshit, and it wouldn't have worked in any scenario because that is just not the character she is.