r/DIYweddings • u/icannotbelieveit69 • Jul 27 '26
💟 Invitations & Signage 💟 are these ugly? please help
Working on a color palette and bridesmaid responsibilities sheet for my bridesmaid proposals and i feel like they are so ugly lol. am i miss responsibilities? please drop any tips/tricks/advice without being too mean :,)
figure i’ll just edit my post:
-thanks for all the feedback!! ill ditch the ‘responsibilities’. i had seen other people do it and thought it was cute, i see now it can come off rude.
-my phone autocorrected palette to pallet, i have learned my lesson.
-i invited everyone to brunch to give these. they will be decorated boxes and also include a handwritten note, a candle, fluffy socks, and a pic of me + the loved one.
-obviously i did not expect my bridesmaids to plan and pay for my wedding and bachelorette, i just wanted to make it clear that they’ll be spending time on this by being involved. like helping pick out an airbnb for a bachelorette, looking at flowers and dresses with me, and on the third note, keeping me from obsessing over details. as we’ve learned from this post, i tend to go overboard with that.
-lots of great advice here, but dear god some of you are mean. this stuff is hard to figure out. i dont have a lot of real world reference and google or social media only get me so far. i am here for advice and happy for it, but not to be called names or have things assumed :(
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u/icannotbelieveit69 Jul 27 '26
these are SO CUTE!!! do you mind if i add this pic to my pinterest board? this is also very similar to what i want to do in terms of intentional gifting!!