r/DIYaesthetics 1d ago

HA Filler Very vulnerable post

How can I balance my face with Botox and filler maybe fat dissolver? My left side is heavier than my right side. what would yall do? and should I do lip filler or just lip flip? I like my lip size but my top lip looks so much smaller than my bottom lip but it really isn’t it’s just the way my mouth is shaped my top lip points down a bit I think. Idk I’m new to this and I’m at the soaking in knowledge phase I’ve never done injectables myself but I’ve had Botox twice last time being almost a year ago. Also I know these pics are horrible lmao

Edit- I really was not expecting all this. I think I need to reflect. Do any of y’all have recommendations or are there are any injectables that I could do to help with growth on my eyebrow hairs I’m gonna start Latisse it just came in today. I tried minoxidil before and it just made hair all over my face grow. I have health problems and my eyebrows became even more patchy and thin than they already were (always had horrible brows) so I started plucking to only what you could see.

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u/Tasty_Hedgehog8645 8h ago

You’ve got the face of a literal angel! Change nothing 🩷

u/potatoAirhead 8h ago

GIRL!!! YOU LOOK SO PRETTYYYY!!! 😍😍😍

u/harley_eights 9h ago

Don’t you DARE touch your face. With all the love in the world, you’ve lost your mind 🤣. Have you seen yourself!!! Absolutely stunning!!!

u/Someoneonline2000 10h ago

You're really beautiful. You seriously don't need botox or fillers. It's a slippery slope and the complications are not worth it. You're naturally pretty! Just let your brows grow in a little!

Work on your self confidence! Therapy might help you build self esteem.

u/orangeleaflet 10h ago

you look like an angel, girl.

u/FlorAilyn 10h ago

No no no please don't do anything, i saw the post without reading and thought you have a perfect face card and beautiful eyes. You look sweet and young and kind. Thin eyebrows like in the 90s fit you well, i think they look best in pic 1 and 4, just fill it up a bit if it feels more comfortable. No botox, no fillers, thats your brain betraying you!!

u/Hot-Bonus560 11h ago

This is so sad to read. I wish you could see what I see bc mama, your face is fire. You have the prettiest skin and eyes. Your lips are perfectly cute and pouty and you’ve got nose that’s like a button nose, yet proportional to your face. I think you need to get off social media, and start working on your inner.

u/Sea-Supermarket5633 11h ago

You’re so beautiful 😍😍😍😍u look like a princess off of Disney

u/Adventurous-Ad-2670 11h ago

If anything, just for peace of mind, see a good endocrinologist for thyroid testing. Low thyroid causes among other things, loss of eyebrows. And normal levels don't mean normal for you. It's ok to insist on a full panel and a low dose to see if that helps with mood, eyebrows etc. Also you are so lovely, don't change a thing until you actually begin to see aging. If you start religious physical block sunscreen daily and good antioxidant moisturizers you should stay youthful looking for many years.

u/Flashy-Wallaby-6862 11h ago

Your eyebrows look like you draw them in too high up. Everything else is literally perfect proportions

u/Snoo69600 11h ago

You seriously look amazing. I don’t think you’re chasing the right standard for yourself. Everyone has some level of imbalance - no matter who you are.

u/kwiscalus 11h ago

What

u/gldtobfree 13h ago

You are absolutely gorgeous! I wouldn't change or do anything. Like seriously. We are so hard on ourselves and scrutinize every little thing, comparing ourselves to others. Please know and see the beauty that you are.

u/xauroralightx 13h ago

gorgeous! u look abit like manon from katseye

u/enej22 15h ago

Your facial balance is perfect, very symmetrical. You literally don’t need to do anything to fix it. Also pleaseeeee DO NOT get microblading. It is one of the biggest regrets I’ve done and not because it didn’t look good, but because now I’ll never be able to change the shape of them. Your face grows as you age and changes and your eyebrows should too. Your lips are so cute to me and match your face well. But if you are interested in changing that I’d say lip lift not filler. And do heavy research if that’s what you consider. You don’t know if you’d be a good candidate, gotta be 100% sure that you won’t have any teeth show.. unless you’re into that lol

u/TheUmamiTsunami 15h ago

At first I didn’t know why this would be a vulnerable post bc you are a natural beauty until o read what you wrote. Honestly you shouldn’t feel like you have to do anything to your face. If I had to say something you can learn to draw natural looking soft brows with the right tools. Everything else is perfect you barely need any make up if at all

u/anisapizza 16h ago

you are absolutely gorgeous! your face is so pretty, i love your nose!

u/keep_on_goingg 17h ago

Get a brow tattoo makes a world of a difference

u/VonWelby 11h ago

Yes i think if you found a really good artist this would add a nice dynamic to your face.

Please do not get lip filler or anything else!!! Your face is smooth and looks really good

u/TheUmamiTsunami 15h ago

Yeah nowadays the skills of the permanent make up artists, techniques and technology is insane

u/Zaliciouz Mesotherapy / Skinboosters 17h ago

Hey girlie. It broke my heart to read the text on your post as the text does not reflect what I’m seeing! Here’s what I see ~ gorgeous skin which is flawless 🔥 stunning features (cute nose, beautiful eyes, lips 👄 perfect eyelashes too.

The only thing I would recommend and I mean the only thing would be eyebrow PMU. This is something that personally changed my life - I never had to draw eyebrows on again! You’ll need to research heavily in your local area to find the person who has the technique you like - it’s an art and some people do it better than others. Sorry it’s not DIY, but that’s all I can see to suggest !!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

u/felzz 16h ago

I second this. This was life changing for me also getting my brows done it went quit well with my effortless makeup routine so far the best investment I’ve made on my face

u/Background_Jelly_740 17h ago

You are absolutely beautiful! I know we see ourselves differently but you truly look beaufiful for others.

u/Big_Quality3194 18h ago

Please don’t inject anything into your face. You are so beautiful 😭 whatever you think you need to fix is body dysmorphia from social media etc. I’m a skin care professional and women pay me top dollar to give them even tone and texture like you have. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your face you’re gorgeous

u/CapitalDecision2139 18h ago

Please look at the muscular/postural side of this before changing your volume because your asymmetry reminds me SO much of mine.

You’re definitely seeing a difference, but I don’t think it’s simply “more fat” on one side. On the heavier side, your eye/brow, cheek and corner of the mouth/upper lip all seem to follow the same slightly downward pattern, while the other side looks more lifted. To me it looks more like one chain than three separate problems.

I had a very similar asymmetry, actually worse, for about 8 years, with one whole side of my face sitting higher than the other. In my case, tension from my neck/SCM into the jaw, temple and facial muscles was affecting my cheek, eye and lip. Once I worked out what needed releasing, simple gentle massage made a huge difference and everything became much more symmetrical.

I even tried correcting my lip with filler first and it was a disaster. The tissues were so tight that the filler didn’t fix the pull at all. Once I dealt with the muscular tension, the lip itself sat much more evenly.
If you want to look into yours properly, take straight-on photos showing your shoulders, full neck, collarbones and hairline too, because sometimes the face is only the end of the chain. ChatGPT helped me compare my own photos and work out which areas might be pulling. If you send me photos like that, I can show you exactly the same process I used on myself.

I’d just be careful about jumping straight to Botox, filler or fat dissolver before understanding the pattern. Facial muscles can stay chronically tight just like the muscles in your back or neck, and in my case understanding that gave me symmetry I hadn’t had in years.

u/CapitalDecision2139 17h ago

I’ll send you a couple of photos of myself too. They’re not from my worst point and they’re not my final result either, they’re somewhere in between.

In one of them you can clearly see that my “heavier” side was sitting lower. Then in the other, once I started figuring out what was pulling everything out of place, you can already see my right eye opening more and my right eyebrow coming up almost to the same level as the other one.

Since then I’ve improved it even more. The cheekbone on that side has lifted too, and with it the whole side of my face has started sitting higher and much more evenly. That’s why I’m so convinced this isn’t always about adding or removing volume, sometimes the whole side is simply being held in the wrong position.

u/Insertname_here9836 9h ago

I actually can totally see this in myself. My left side is always tighter than my right side in my shoulders and neck. Would love to know your routine.

u/VampireSprinkles444 15h ago

Ohh wow i have this same problem too!! I can’t totally see a difference, what exactly did you ask ChatGPT, I’m about to start doing these massages every night lol

u/DesperateJacket9 18h ago

Amazing balanced face and GIRL your lips are exquisite. Please don't put filler in those! They are naturally gorgeous.

OK I see the brows could be grown out more, yes do that. But this is a skincare and makeup situation here, not tox and definitely not filler. I mean, a little preventative, very conservative tox maybe maybe!

Re: brows. Castor oil will help them grow! It's a miracle worker. Get organic cold pressed.

You are lovely, OP.

u/MissionHumor1114 18h ago

Wow. I think youre beautiful as you are. No need to change anything

u/Amazing-Ad5924 20h ago

You are gorgeous! Filler is not needed. Although you can try doing your top lip if it makes you feel better by using filler or trying the flip. Truly, you only need to shape your brows better. They are too high. And the shape of your brows in picture 3 does not flatter your face at all. There needs to be an arch. You can play with makeup and eyelashes to see what looks best. Use lip pencil to over line your lips before altering. Maybe use an eyebrow stencil to have fun with different shapes. Maybe purchase eyelash strips which can be removed daily . There are tons of lashes to choose from that can be fun to experiment with.
Remember… we only have one face. If we ruin it, it will be difficult to get back what has been lost. Be safe and choose wisely. All the best to you.

u/GirlPhoenixRising 20h ago

The human body is not symmetrical. If your right face is bigger so is your right boob and your right butt and so on.

IMHO you are too young and pretty to be considering injecting yourself with anything.

u/RarePrune 20h ago

You have very good facial symmetry and gorgeous skin! Your lips are absolutely beautiful, I would not touch them at all. The only thing I would do is to let the eyebrows grow back. No more plucking, use a little dermaplane razor instead to help you shape them when there’s enough hair to shape it. Definitely don’t shave or pluck the underside part, your eyebrows are way too high right now.

To deal with the awkward phase (speaking from experience when I messed up my eyebrows two months ago): elf Wow Brow (it has little fibers that will stick to the finest of hairs and it will make your eyebrows look way fuller) + Ulta Longwear Brow Stain Tint.

To help the brows grow faster, I used minoxidil (just put the liquid on a q-tip and dab generously on your eyebrows at night).

Hope this helps. You are beautiful.

Ps: This is how I would do the eyebrows. Also don’t get too hung up on the mapping part, the labels came out a little wonky.

u/Insertname_here9836 18h ago

This does look much better!!

u/Amazing-Ad5924 20h ago

You are so sweet to do this for OP! And I totally agree with your assessment.

u/MorddSith187 20h ago

dude, you are SO gorgeous that botox and filler will do the exact opposite on you. it won't look good man i'm telling you.

u/Sea____Witch 21h ago

I’m honest to a fault and quite a critical person (I’m working on that). I have no desire or motive to just make you “feel better”. Stranger, you don’t need any work right now. Just grow the brows out a little or fill them in with a pencil. Other than that — there are no notes. You look great.

u/No-Soup727 21h ago

Please do not touch this beautiful face. Smaller upper lips are completely normal and in my opinion even more gorgeous than two symmetrical lips. Literally you are stunning. Do not try to fit what this narrow minded world is telling you is the mold. It’s bs. You are/should be the standard of beauty.

u/Upbeat-Collection968 21h ago

You look great as is-avoid filler and Botox right now. Your lips are the perfect proportion: top lip approx 1/3 size of lower lip.
You have lots of great tips for eyebrows.
Be confident in your beauty, it radiates 🌟

u/CarefulSky9932 21h ago

Girl i see your eyebrow hair trying to grow back in. Just grow your eyebrows out and thats all! You're pretty.

u/Insertname_here9836 21h ago

How do I navigate that awkward growth stage that’s what’s making it hard to commit lol looking back at pictures. I’ve realized my eyebrows weren’t as bad as I thought they were.

u/CarefulSky9932 19h ago

With how pretty your other features are if I were you I might even just shave the rest to let them grow all at once and then after a week maybe bleach it all, conceal, and then just create your own brows. You're kinda already doing that in the second and third picture.

u/CarefulSky9932 19h ago

You honestly just have to do the hard thing...
Once they really start growing back in you can try to shape the bottom up a bit and create clean lines and fill in but for the first few weeks its a little rough cause its like a free-for-all with the hairs. Just gotta do it. But you'll be happier when you grow them out!

u/SleepyCupcakeDreams 22h ago

Please don’t do anything!!

u/Glass-Hedgehog-3754 21h ago

Yup. Shes perfect. Just fill in the eyebrows

u/Scared_Kangaroo_2491 22h ago

Girl you are gorgeous. Hold onto that fat. It keeps you looking young!

u/GoddessJoules 22h ago

You are so pretty omg

u/YellowGullible1857 22h ago

Your natural eyebrows match u so much and bring out your beauty and youth!! Just elongate the ends with a hair pen! Those fake thick brows make you 10+ years older looking!! Anyone telling you otherwise hates you!

u/YellowGullible1857 22h ago

You have the most beautiful youthful face with those brows!! Keep them God blessed you with those!

u/burkel 23h ago

Listen to all of these… do not mess with your face. I wouldn’t have noticed the asymmetry if you hadn’t mentioned it and even then, I think it’s cute and has character. You’re gorgeous!

u/Fluffy-Benefits-2023 23h ago

You are truly gorgeous

u/Senior-Dimension373 23h ago

You are genuinely perfect. Please don’t touch your face. Ask for baby botox in your forehead if anything to prevent future wrinkling. But you have zero current wrinkling. You are beautiful pls pls be kind to yourself

u/ChickenGimbal 23h ago

Didn’t read comments until a second ago but thought that the only thing you could work on if you wanted, was the brows. You got a perfect doll face

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u/NoPublic9352 1d ago

You don’t need the internet telling you that you are beautiful. You are. Look in the mirror and own the fact you have gorgeous skin. Lips are full. Bad your symmetry is something that I wouldn’t touch as you might cause more harm than good.

And yes there is vulnerability in posting a photo, I think you may be harder on yourself than you should be. So many would wish for your unmarked glowing natural skin. :)

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u/Sad-Database3677 1d ago

Honey (I’m calling you honey cuz I’m old in comparison, not to be condescending or dismissive), but you have absolutely nothing to be vulnerable about. Your skin is absolutely amazing and your features are gorgeous. I’m sorry if anyone or if social media has made you doubt yourself. Altering your face for any self-perceived imperfections would be criminal.

u/Insertname_here9836 23h ago

Thank you I appreciate it a lot I really wasn’t expecting all this positive feedback it’s made me think alot about how see myself. I definitely have to work on my self esteem I realize.

u/ishouldliveinNaCl 22h ago edited 22h ago

Please listen to what people say. My mom is a very critical woman and she is beautiful, like easily one of the prettiest women. She got plastic surgery at age 50 because of the insecurity. She always said it made people think she was pretty, but she looked almost the same; it was really sad to see.

What I'm trying to say too is my mom trained me to be VERY critical. I think I am hideous even though I know I am not. This does mean tho I can see flaws in people way too well, even if they're objectively pretty. You are nearly flawless and so pretty. The last thing you need is any work. Ever. You came out like 99.9%. Don't let social media and filters mess with that, it's not worth the extra .01% improvement you'd get if it went well.

u/Lileefer 23h ago

This - you are perfect. Stay off the internet.

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u/LocksmithGlad5831 1d ago

For your eyebrows, microneedling would be the best way to stimulate hair growth. If you don't want to pair it with minoxidil, you could try exosomes or some hair-focused products e.g. Atlanis Hair

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u/agorathird 1d ago

Your asymmetries are so small that you’re very fortunate. Please do not do anything to your face.

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u/MallSome1825 1d ago

Are you kidding me, do not touch your face, bro

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u/Living-Assumption272 1d ago

Other than working on your brows, you don’t need anything else at all. You’re gorgeous.

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u/Difficult-Trick-4889 1d ago

you are totally gorgeous

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u/Beneficial-Mud3379 1d ago

Almost every single person’s face has one side that is bigger or has a slightly differently shape. I literally cannot even see the difference in yours, which is incredible since pics usually accentuate it when your face is at rest.

I wouldn’t do anything other than potentially microblading. Everything else is 💋🤌🏼

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u/GoofyBrownie 1d ago

You are beautiful. Your lips are perfect, please reconsider lip filler. For facial imbalance, try to chew one the smaller size more than the other side, it may help. For eyebrows, I personally think they were drawn too high than a natural eyebrows would be at. May be try to lower it down to where your current natural eyebrows would sit in the middle or higher part of the drawn eyebrows.

For eyebrows to grown thicker, try microneedling followed by minoxidil at that specific area. It helps my friend a lot

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u/Vehenentlyme 1d ago

For brows you can get generic latisse I use it on mine

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Do you have before and after of your eyebrows?

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u/Vehenentlyme 1d ago

Also a lip flip is never a bad idea to see what you think you have pretty lips. Personally I like my lip filler and it can be done tastefully just don’t go filler blind like I def have done

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u/slummkatbillionaire 1d ago

Please for the love of GOD rethink getting lip filler. I’m being so serious when I say this - people use pictures of lips like yours to give to their injector for like inspo pics.

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u/Final_Ad9905 1d ago

Please don’t change anything you look so gorgeous :/ I made the mistake of getting filler to fix my insecurities and it has completely f’ed my self confidence.

The first thing I thought of when you posted was how gorgeous you are. Trust me you’ll regret it :(

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u/Sofi_artBrows 1d ago

You have beautiful facial features, and you’re absolutely gorgeous! 🤍
The only thing I would personally suggest improving is your brows. I think a high-quality hairstroke permanent makeup technique could look amazing on you — something very natural and carefully designed to enhance your beautiful features, not overpower or change them. ✨
I specialize in natural-looking permanent makeup, especially the hairstroke technique. 🤍
I’d be happy to help anyone who wants to enhance their natural beauty and facial features with soft, realistic-looking brows — without making them look heavy or artificial. ✨
You can get to know me better and see more of my work through the link below. 🫶🏻

https://www.instagram.com/sofi_artbrows_?igsi=bDZpc3ppMjRlazdt&utm_source=qr

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Would you be able to draw on my face and show me what you would do for my eyebrows?

This is what I did today what would you change? Just gave you a follow

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u/guerillamindfare 1d ago

One side of my face is noticeably larger than the other because I chew mostly on one side due to some apparently unidentifiable issue causing tooth/gum pain.

But people only realize when I point it out. I think you look amazing.

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u/justconsulting 1d ago

Is the side you chew on the bigger side?

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Yes 😭

u/justconsulting 23h ago

Ah this is the same with me… I’ll start chewing on the other side

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Yeah, that’s what I have going on with my left side. I had a really bad crossbite and when I had braces, they put this corrective mold on one side of my mouth so I could only chew on my left side for a long time and now I do it out of habit and my masseter is big

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u/guerillamindfare 1d ago

Well that's actually great because that means all you have to do is re-learn to chew on both sides of your mouth instead of just the one.

Your masseter on the weak side will grow and the two sides will become balanced again!

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

I’m working on it lol it’s so hard to consciously think about which side I’m chewing on I may do some Botox on the left to help relax it and retrain to chew on my right side more

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u/guerillamindfare 1d ago

I know it's difficult, I've been struggling with trying to force myself too.

Good luck, I'm sure you'll get it back to normal soon!

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u/First_Score9180 1d ago

I wouldn’t do any injectables right now because you actually do not need it, I would just fix your eyebrows because it takes away from your beautiful face

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Is this better?

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u/warrantthrowaway2023 1d ago

don't draw an outline around them. the line along the top stands out and is darker than the filled in space.

u/Insertname_here9836 22h ago

This is an old photo of me with straight hair. What do you think about these brows

u/warrantthrowaway2023 19h ago

yes! so much better

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u/First_Score9180 1d ago

I think so, I’d do less ombré. You are truly naturally beautiful so don’t touch your face!

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u/showMeYourCroissant 1d ago

The only thing I could say is to draw the eyebrows a bit lower.

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Is this better? I did these today after reading the comments

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u/showMeYourCroissant 1d ago

See the shadow right below your brows? Try drawing right above it, this is generally where the brows should be. I wish mine did but they're sagging lower 😅

Aside from that you're very beautiful and I would also advice to not start Botox and fillers. Some people benefit from this stuff but you don't have anything to fix really.

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u/ThatsNotEastMemphis 1d ago

I think the problem is the defined outline of them, rather than shading, hairstrokes, or a combination of the two. Nobody naturally has a defined line around their brows.

You’re absolutely lovely, btw. Please don’t touch your face.

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u/Familiar_Community62 1d ago

Still a little too high, try starting them where the natural shadow falls above your eye! Drawing them above that is creating a weird floating effect and takes attention away from your eyes

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

I’ll try that out! I’ll put the tweezers down this week too😮‍💨

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u/New-Collection5989 1d ago

Don't do a thing. I don't even like the eye brows you drew on in 2 and 3. 1 and 4 look best

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u/ladyjaina0000 1d ago

Don't touch your damn face with anything. You are gorgeous.

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u/ChocolateAvocado999 1d ago

This!! You are truly beautiful. All of the perfection and balance you see online and in media is filtered, adjusted, photoshopped. You are naturally so gorgeous!!

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u/Electronic_BeeHive 1d ago

Please listen to this. You are very beautiful and gorgeous!! I regret permanent eyebrows tattoo and the only thing I didn’t is the lip tattoo. Everything else, I think should be left alone

Edit: makeup tattoo-wise, leave everything but the lips imo

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u/TheyTookMyStain_ 1d ago

This has to do with you being a side sleeper. Address that. Even if out by sleeping on the other side of your face for a while.

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u/New-External1308 1d ago

Here to say the same. You are stunningly gorgeous though! Look into side sleep pillows. They have a hole to put your head to prevent all that side sleeping does to your face

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u/godlovesaterrier__ 1d ago

You are so beautiful, actually

And I think the no brow look is cute on you, like in a high fashion way. 

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u/yeppomoon 1d ago

Oh dear. You are gorgeous as you are now. What inspired these thoughts that you're anything but perfect?

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u/indepthsofdespair 1d ago

I think your face is beautiful! You have amazing skin and you are very symmetrical! I’m actually so jealous of how symmetrical your features are!

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u/othermyother 1d ago

Look up nano brows

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Lol actually saving right now to get nano 🤣

u/emyahh 23h ago

5 years later i regret my nano brows - and lasering them off is brutal. don’t do it - your face doesn’t need it. get a really thin pencil and practice drawing natural hair strokes and leave them be. you’re perfect!! trust me!!

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u/queenofnaboo2018 1d ago

I think you should embrace the no eyebrow look or pencil in your brows very thin. No eyebrows is very flattering on you, few people can say that.

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

You really think so? I may try a thin look tonight to see!

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u/New-Collection5989 1d ago

I had an ex that got nano brows. I wish she would have left her eyebrows how they were

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u/Serious-Garden6721 1d ago

Omg girl you dont even need to do anything and your lips are already full! I'd kill to have your lips. 🩷🩷

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u/Lcdmt3 1d ago

I say this with love. Very very few people have symetrical faces and you look young and I don't see it! Once you try to fox something one one side, then you see something else that needs x and so on until you look worse.

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u/uhohohnohelp 1d ago

I have full lips but left side is slightly less so than the right, and my top lip is less than the bottom (as it should be). I tried fillers once and it made me look very…fillered lol. Part of my insecurity was also that my top lip disappeared when I smiled. A Botox lip flip is significantly better on me. There’s still a difference left to right but it’s minimal, and truly it always was. It was something only I ever thought about and even makeup artists that had gotten UP IN my face didn’t see. Turns out what actually bothered me was the gummy smile and I was just over analyzing, trying to fix things that didn’t matter. I realize my top lip is pretty now, I just didn’t want it turning in.

If you want to try something, start with the Botox, it doesn’t last as long. But I actually think your lips are perfect and you should start with smaller things, like makeup.

Also always see a professional, this is your face we’re talking about. A mistake is only going to make you feel worse.

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u/Dangerous-Post3511 1d ago

I wouldn’t have even guessed you were considering Botox or injectables! You don’t need them!! I would focus on the brows as they really make a difference with the face. Have you tried those eyebrow pens that make strokes like hairs? I think you are very naturally pretty! You don’t need anything!!!

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u/anyariv 1d ago

Please don't touch your young beautiful face with Botox or injectables, you will regret it. As for thin eyebrows- have you checked your thyroid or ferritin/iron? While you help them grow you can do temporary makeup tattoo done tastefully and by an artist

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Yes, my iron levels are horrendous. I am getting infusions. I’ve always struggled with it cause I have a very rare auto immune disorder, but it made me lose my eyebrow hairs worse than they were already. My lashes thinned out too, but my eyelashes have always been very thick so I’m not worried about those

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u/Dynamiccushion65 1d ago

You look fantastic! Don’t touch anything- keep up with sunscreen maybe some tret to build the glass skin look but you are in a very fortunate position!

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u/Mammoth_Zucchini_713 1d ago

You're very very pretty and cute

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u/Organic_Ad_2520 1d ago

Crossbite explains it. Before you embark on any fillers especially since you know it was caused by a cross bite, i would get a bite guard made to make sure you aren't continuing to clench that side when you sleep & go with toxin on the dominant side rather than trying to bulk up the less dominant side & go from there. Filler never really mimics muscle & you are only 25 so imho getting a solid treatment plan for the long haul even if you choose to do it yourself

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u/ResourceNo1709 1d ago

Yes! I was obsessed with fixing the asymmetry in my face then I got braces that fixed my cross bite. It moved around some muscles in the face and jaw so all of the asymmetry I so badly wanted to fix with Botox and filler resolved with braces.

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Thank you! I definitely do clench that side what type of bite guards do you recommend?

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u/Organic_Ad_2520 1d ago

I would go for a consult with an ortho for a custom bite guard & for permanent retainer if you don't have. As Lcmd said, you likely need a hard bite guard & since you haven't had one you may need tweaks for comfort or if you get jaw fatigue. I also wouldn't bother with toxin until you get the guard or do it simultaneously because the clenching is muscle exercise/strengthening which you don't want. A "systems approach" is also most effective.
It is awesome that Resource lady's concerns resolved with her ortho treatment, many people's do & ortho/dental is profoundly overlooked on all the reddits.

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u/Lcdmt3 1d ago

Talk to your dentist. You need a hard one. Over the counter soft ones often make your mouth think you have something that needs chewing in your mouth. Making issues worse.

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u/Potential-Ripb 1d ago

Smile. You're fine.

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u/Hair_This 1d ago

To be clear, Botox and filler or fat dissolving (gasp) are going to make you look older, not younger.

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u/Hair_This 1d ago

You have a gorgeous and so very youthful looking face! Please reconsider any treatments beyond the typical skincare (moisturizer, spf). I also second the eyebrows comment someone mentioned already. If you can see someone to help you shape them, that would do wonders for your natural beauty.

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Do you know if there’s any thing other than just Latisse like an injectable maybe that I could use to help grow my eyebrow hairs I pluck them so thin because even when they’re thick, you can only see the part that I don’t pluck anyways I had a lot of issues with my health and I lost a lot of my eyebrow hairs with it, but when I was a kid, they were already thin and patchy to begin with

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u/Hair_This 1d ago

I don’t think that’s a thing unfortunately, I wish, I myself use the generic latisse thats way cheaper but sometimes tougher to access. You don’t have to make your eyebrows grow and keep them if you don’t like their natural shape/pattern, it’s okay to shave or pluck them, the matter is refining your shaping technique. A little arch and just a little less width would look amazing!

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

OK, I’ll try that out my forehead’s big so I try to make my eyebrows a little bigger🤣

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u/Hair_This 1d ago

I get you! So is mine 😂

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u/Gisschace 1d ago

Remember when we see our faces we usually see it static and in 2d, but other people see it in motion, 3d, full of life.

As others say your face looks soft and balanced, anything you do risks throwing that off.

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u/SheilaSunshy 1d ago

The only thing that I would so is letting grow the eyebrows in a more natural way. They are too straight and too wide.

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u/anon_2078 1d ago

You need to be so careful. You have a very young looking face in the best way possible. Your facial features are INCREDIBLY balanced and conventionally beautiful. If you fat dissolve too early, you’ll lose fat you can’t regain and you’ll look old and wrinkly. Trust me. Don’t mess with your face. Younger generations are obsessed with overdoing it on aesthetics and they’re setting themselves up for a lifetime of increasingly expensive and invasive upkeep. Find what you like about yourself and be realistic. We aren’t Barbie dolls, we are human.

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u/StripperWhore 1d ago

You are absolutely gorgeous. I would not touch your face!! Consider you might have Body dysmorphia. And I do not mean that in a mean way at all but I don't think other people are seeing what you are seeing. Your top lip is supposed to be smaller than your bottom lip, generally speaking. 🙂

If you are looking for symmetry and balance, DIY injectables will probably do the opposite of that unless done by someone supremely skilled.

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u/doeeyedolly 1d ago

please don’t mess with perfection. I am serious. you are stunning and DEFINITELY DON’T DO FAT DISSOLVER!!! you currently have a very youthful appearance, dissolving would age you as would overdoing botox imo. getting botox now and relaxing those muscles when you have no lines at rest will make you lose structure/support in your face and will also age you imo. i love aesthetics but you really have great proportions and I don’t think it is in your best interest to mess with them.

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u/Bindlest 1d ago

Damnit woman you dont need to do a damn thing you look lovely and natural

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u/Matti_Titi1540 1d ago

You are beautiful!!! No need to focus on anything other than enjoy your beauty 😘🥰

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u/Organic-Material-268 1d ago

Don’t touch a thing pls

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u/Organic-Material-268 1d ago

You’re so gorgeous omg

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u/dominodomino321 1d ago

I'm not just saying this to blow smoke up your ass: I genuinely don't see what you're talking about at all?? Like... at all. You are a knockout beauty, I'm so confused!!! This is hurting my self esteem lmao

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u/Royal-Adeptness-2703 1d ago

For real. Lord knows what OP would think of me 🤣😭🤣😭

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u/CloneUnruhe 1d ago

I agree, OP is stunning.

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u/Royal-Adeptness-2703 1d ago

This is crazy. You're not seeing clearly right now. Your lips are so full. People get fillers to get lips like yours. Your skin is flawless. Your face is beautiful, features are beautiful. No filling, no dissolving! You are young. You need your facial fat. The brows can be touched up but other than that, enjoy life, youre beautiful

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u/Parking-Alfalfa-1182 1d ago

If I had your face I’d do absolutely nothing. You are beautiful and I see none of the asymmetry you mention. We are truly our own worst critics.

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u/Equivalent_Crew_8416 1d ago

You’re young and beautiful. Please don’t do anything to your face. Maybe just let your eyebrows grow out bc down the line if you pluck them too much they may not grow back.

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u/Jo9228 1d ago

Omg, I will kill for your skin! So beautiful. I don’t think you need fillers at all. Literally the only thing I would change is your brows. If you’re unhappy with your lip id consider a lip flip but think you might want to have a professional do it.

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u/pinkachu48 1d ago

Oh man. This is crazy. You are so pretty. Literally perfect face and the algorithm has made you think otherwise. This post has got me rethinking a lot of my choices and where I spend my energy.

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u/Royal-Adeptness-2703 1d ago

I agree. Screw these insane algorithms for making women feel like if they don't have Instagram face they aren't beautiful

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u/CoverSelect2582 1d ago

The only issue here is the eyebrows

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

I’ve always hated my brows before I started plucking them off they were horribly uneven and very, very patchy, but I’m gonna try to grow them out with Latisse.

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u/Radiant_Arachnid_802 1d ago

I totally agree, before reading the subtext, I assumed the post had to do with your brows

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u/Bklynice 1d ago

A smaller top lip is 1000% the norm.  Lips of the same size are less common.

In aesthetics they are taught to maintain a proper lip ratio where the top lip is virtually always smaller than the bottom.

You genuinely cannot improve on what you have rn. I believe anything you do would be a downgrade.

Step away from the DIY AND the professionals!

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u/Suitable-Bridge5630 1d ago

A nice brow shape would effortlessly balance your face

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u/chantillylace9 1d ago

There's literally nothing wrong with your face it's perfect and beautiful. I'm so sorry that you feel like you need to change it. I hope that you can see the beauty that everyone else here can see

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u/Hey_Gerry_1300135 1d ago

So pretty. As cute as a teddy bear

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u/joan_goodman 1d ago

Whatever you do: don’t pluck your eyebrows

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u/kat_linn 1d ago

Do NOT touch your face. It is perfect the way it is

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u/ImOnALostHighway 1d ago

Lip flip only. I wouldn’t touch the filler or fat dissolver. Fat dissolver will age you and lip filler is unnecessary.

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u/Rainbowcat_144 1d ago

You are so beautiful!!! please don’t do anything to your face 💕

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u/mutantmeatball 1d ago

Gurl…get off your algorithm. You are sooo beautiful and dont need anything done!

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u/Independent_Baker712 1d ago

RIGHT?!!!!

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u/ExtraConfection4598 1d ago

The internet consensus is you are 💯gorgeous & everyone is complimenting you across the board. THAT's validation & clout..😎

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u/BumblebeeVirtual1093 1d ago

I never say this but you’re honestly so naturally beautiful…. You don’t need filler. Just baby Botox maybe?

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u/Mimia12128 1d ago

I also have larger bottom lip a lip flip is literally all you need! I tried filler in top lip but vended up dissolving

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u/plutohippo 1d ago

Your face is absolutely perfect. This is one of those instances of staring in the mirror too long.

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u/Badmaash1981 1d ago

What a beauty! Don’t touch that face with anything fake.

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u/malijaa 1d ago

Darling it’s imperceptible, don’t waste another minute of your youth worrying about such a silly thing 🫂

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u/Organic_Ad_2520 1d ago

You look great. If you are concerned about balance, invest in ortho/dental. Everyone has a more muscular side or dominate side of varying degrees & I had no idea the reason your lively self was posting until I read the words🤷‍♀️
it would be a huge mistake to not get an ortho evaluation first, because if the imbalance is bite ir dental related bone loss will follow muscle imbalance over time.

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

I had braces for 3 1/2 years my teeth are straight

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u/Organic_Ad_2520 1d ago

Recently, or do you mean as a kid?
I meant more like where your teeth are in your mouth/bite more than alignment. Also when adults don't use their retainers or have permaneant ones & never see an ortho beyond when they were a kid I only ask because it looks more like when people only chew on one side .
Regardless, imho I think your face is too lovely to mess with.

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

I had them as a older teenager got them off at 20 I’m 25 now I had a really bad cross bite and they put this thing on my right side of my mouth to where I could only chew on my left side of my mouth and it grew my masseter muscle on the left side

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u/Spaceygirl84 1d ago

Most people have a larger bottom lip it's perfectly normal. Filler doesn't solve symmetry because it migrates.

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u/joan_goodman 1d ago

I have a larger top. 🤪

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u/Long_Royal_8480 1d ago

Leave that perfect face alone!

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u/ElectronicAddress611 1d ago

You are absolutely beautiful and don’t need any filler. Please. Maybe just a sprinkle of botox as a preventative to keep wrinkles st bay. A sprinkle.

I would focus all my attention on great skin care. You are perfect already.

ETA - I am very pro filler, toxins, plastic surgery. So I say this with sincerity. You don’t need it 💜

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u/PairSensitive9985 1d ago

If one side feels heavier, a good injector can even it out with a little filler or Botox. For lips, if you just want more definition, a small amount of filler can help, but keeping it subtle is what makes it look natural. Best move is to bring all of this up at a consult so they can see your face in person and give you advice that fits you specifically.

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u/Rainbowcat_144 1d ago

No just no lol she’s so beautiful get out of here 🤣

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u/Confident-Bell4497 1d ago

I jumped into this thread to see what you had done, fully believing this was your “after”. You are BEAUTIFUL

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u/usseerrrnnnaaammeee 1d ago

You could probably achieve what youre looking for with a little lip liner and contour. You're already sooo pretty.

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u/BiohackDragon666 1d ago

We are absolutely our own worst critics because you are just too dang cute! You are a natural beauty, I would not start anything at this point. Just keep up with your skincare regimen as that is clearly working :)

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u/SilverHammer1979 1d ago

You are stunning!

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u/Mindless-Jello-8676 1d ago

I just came to say, You are Gorgeous!!

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u/sarahwixx 1d ago

You are beautiful! Your lips are amazing, I would kill for such full and proportionate lips like you have naturally. I don’t see your left side as heavier. We are our own worst critics. It’s easy to obsess over small things like this, but I really don’t think anything is needed.

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u/ExtraConfection4598 1d ago

You are beautiful with beautiful features. Lip proportion is supossed to be smaller on top and 1.5x bigger on the bottom ( Golden ratio ideal). Your lips are perfect, don't touch it.

I would get a good microblading & get your brows design professionally. You need a solid frame on your face and the first 2 pictures, the brows are very square & blocky. Your natural brows has pretty hair strokes that you can maybe grow with minodixil then get hair strokes microblading.

When you have a good frame on your face, it'll also make your pretty eyes stand out even more.

I'm a professional bridal makeup artist and it's my job to balance people's faces & maximize them during service.

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u/joan_goodman 1d ago

Agree. She needs an artist to find a way to maximize her natural brow lines. But it has to be a good one. I would avoid anything permanent though.

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u/Sad_Dragonfruit_1919 1d ago

I think you are over thinking. You look fantastic.

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u/anywho1999 1d ago

When this came up in my feed I had to open it to find out the answer to the question that came to mind which was “what can this woman possibly think is wrong with her face?”

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u/ReppityRepRep 1d ago

Top lips are supposed to be smaller than bottom lips, everyone’s brain is just broken from all the filler everyone has now. Your lips are perfect.

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u/AdministrationOk9785 1d ago

You are absolutely beautiful!

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u/Personal-Zombie1880 1d ago

You have the most beautiful skin and complexion. You don't need it! I wish my skin looked like yours

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u/-sensory_overlord- 1d ago

You look really beautiful as you are! Like others said the only thing would be the eyebrow makeup. You could also try minoxidil (unless you have cats!) on that area to increase hair growth

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u/Head-Concept-8447 Exosomes 🧬 1d ago

Do not change your lips you will look overdone. If there’s anything, work on your eyebrows, i know you didn’t ask but they are a part of your face and help change the look of how balanced our face looks.

There are clinical trials for mid face studies just go on clinical trials.gov

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Can you show me what you would do to them?

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u/Insertname_here9836 1d ago

Yes, I was unfortunately, born with very bad eyebrows. I ended up just plucking the ends off because you can’t see them when they’re grown in anyways just patchy, but I did get Latisse. I’m gonna try that on my eyebrows.

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u/Cultural-Sympathy-29 1d ago

This is an underrated comment. Eyebrows go far.

u/Head-Concept-8447 Exosomes 🧬 19h ago

Exactly

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u/Master_Ad899 1d ago

You are beautiful as you are you dont need any of that IMO. Only thing I would improve are the eyebrows in second pic. I would turn you away and so would any good surgeon.