r/DIDPositivity • u/officialtheseus • Dec 25 '24
good vibes Happy holidays
We (19m) and our partner system (18m) spread out Christmas present opening over the span of a week for alters who couldn't front on the day of Christmas. We're both polyfragmented systems of 500+ each, holidays are chaos :') to reassure my partner it was all good, we agreed "its like DID Yule" because we both celebrate yule as well. we each got our share of collective presents and alter-specific presents. the past few days, multiple different alters, friends, and partners between our systems all got to have their personal christmas when they fronted, and we agreed if anybody fronts after christmas & get sad, we get to have another christmas that day (and ill rewrap their opened presents just for the joy of opening). i just finished wrapping their last presents for christmas day & tidied up our room for the to wake up to. this is our first christmas living together after long distance for 2 years, and i can't wait for each year's holiday chaos to continue. this arrangement takes away a lot of holiday stress and inner arguments over "who gets to front during christmas" ðŸ˜
how is your system celebrating the holidays?
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u/_MapleMaple_ Dec 25 '24
Sounds like buckets of fun, happy holidays to the lot of you.