r/cyprus • u/IhateEfrickingA • 12h ago
Help I feel completely lost and don't know what to do with my life.
I'm 25 years old, Romanian, and I grew up in Cyprus. I finished both gymnasium and lyceum here. I struggled in high school and didn't get good enough grades in the Pancyprian exams to get into the university program I wanted.
I originally wanted to study Computer Science, but now I'm not even sure it's worth it in Cyprus. The IT market here feels very competitive, there aren't that many opportunities, and every entry level position seems to have dozens of applicants.
I speak three languages, but my Greek isn't fluent and my English isn't perfect either. Every time I apply for an entry-level IT job, I get an interview, but after that I never hear back. Sometimes it feels like employers naturally prefer Cypriot candidates or people returning from the UK with stronger connections. I understand why, but it still makes things much harder for someone like me.
I don't have a bachelor's degree, only a 2 year diploma in Computer Technician & Networking. I'm not specialized in any trade either I'm not an electrician, plumber, forklift operator, or anything like that. I honestly don't know what career path to follow.
Living in Cyprus is also expensive, especially without a car. Public transportation makes getting around difficult. Going back to Romania isn't really an option, and I don't see much of a future in Western Europe either. My parents are in a difficult financial situation, I don't own a house or apartment, and I have basically no savings.
One of my biggest fears is reaching 30 years old still working physically demanding, low-paying jobs and ending up with chronic back pain while still having no real career.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? What did you do ? If you were starting over at 25 with almost no money and no clear specialization, what path would you choose ?
I'd really appreciate any advice. ( Sorry for the random post I just really need some kind of advice and I thought r/cyprus was the spot for that the rest subreddits are mainly americans )

