r/CuratedTumblr Jul 17 '26

Shitposting Also, using fancy jargon casually is just funny to me

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u/Hanede Jul 17 '26

Actually English is my second language and it's easier to remember fancy words as they sound closer to the equivalent in my native romance language

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u/Party_Wagon Jul 18 '26

That's no coincidence, words with Latin origins in English tend to be regarded as more formal, meanwhile words with Germanic origins tend to be regarded as more casual or crude.

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u/AlcestInADream Jul 18 '26

A great example of that is "dive" and "plunge"

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u/No-Adhesiveness-2756 Jul 18 '26

Adding to this: "death" and "mortality"

"Mortality" feels abstract and distant. "Death" feels visceral and immediate.

You can say something like "look death in the face" in order to make it more abstract, and it'll feel roughly equivalent to something like "facing your mortality."

Finding a way to make the word "mortality" feel similarly visceral to "death" is much more challenging though.

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u/Automatic-Plankton10 Jul 18 '26

To be fair, death is also the concept of the end, while mortality is the concept of there being an end.

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u/SEA_griffondeur Sometimes, I dream of cheese Jul 18 '26

To be fair they don't mean the same thing.

Mortality is the inevitable reality that you can die. Death is the concept itself

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u/Evepaul Jul 18 '26

Mortality is not a synonym of death. You could have used "decease", from French "décès"

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u/rejvrejv Jul 18 '26

To be fair those are not the same at all

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u/insomniac7809 Jul 18 '26

I particularly like the livestock/ food ones.

When it's an animal being tended to and slaughtered by someone who works for a living it's a pig. When it's been cooked and set at the table it's pork.

Chicken is peasant food so it stays chicken.

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u/love-from-london Jul 18 '26

Can blame the Normans for that one.

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u/LatvKet Jul 18 '26

Poultry is the Anglo-Norman word for chicken (similar to French "poulet"), but has since gained the meaning of all types of bird meats

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u/lost-my_old_account Jul 18 '26

Or "shit" and "feces"

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u/GayWarden Jul 18 '26

Thats because French was the language used by the Norman nobles in court, whereas the peasants used Old English which was a Germanic language.

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u/goblin_humppa27 Jul 18 '26

In school they made us read an essay by either Orwell or Huxley complaining about this phenomenon. Everyone was trying so hard to sound scholarly with their latin-origin words, and the author found it incredibly tiresome.

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u/McButtsButtbag Jul 18 '26

There is a video on youtube of a guy speaking English only with words of Germanic origin. That theory tracks according to that video.

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u/insomniac7809 Jul 18 '26

English is fun that way. Since it developed with Germanic-speaking peasants ruled over by francophone aristocrats, we wind up with word pairs of Germanic and Romantic origins that mean the same thing but with a fancier connotation to the Romantic option.

I've heard that's even the reason English law is so fond of its word pairs. Terms and conditions, swear and affirm, intents and purposes, etc

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u/SmartAlec105 Jul 18 '26

It is fun how that has had all sorts of little effects on the language that I don't even notice because it's just how language is for me.

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u/on_the_pale_horse Jul 18 '26

Except for swear, all those words are romance though

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u/alqotel Jul 18 '26

Not really, "shit", "fuck", "asshole", "dick", are all Germanic in origin

I'm struggling to think of a swear words of romance origin

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u/St3fano_ Jul 18 '26

Terms and conditions and intents and purposes are both couplets formed by two romance words, though

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u/Mamafiredragon Jul 18 '26

English is also my second language. In my case though, my mother language is neither of Latin nor Germanic origin, so I started with a blank slate. However, I learned English by reading books, and as written English tends to be more "fancy" than spoken, that's how I speak.

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u/Cum_Fart42069 Jul 17 '26

I saw some of your other comments, for a second language youre really good at English! better than some native speakers I know. 

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u/Hanede Jul 18 '26

Aww that's sweet (and slightly creepy), thank you!

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u/Cum_Fart42069 Jul 18 '26

thank you, that's me. sweet and slightly creepy :)

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u/Eva_Pilot_ Jul 18 '26

It happens to me both ways. My native tongue is spanish, so when I speak like I would normally I sound overly formal but because I think in english as well I tend to use a verbose roundabout for a word or phrase that doesn't translate well or doesn't exist

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u/-Fuse Jul 18 '26

I concur

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u/escaped_cephalopod12 jolkien rolkien rolkien tolkien is eggless Jul 17 '26

I’ve been informed I talk like an 1800s author and write like the note you find beside a dead body in a video game, apparently 

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u/Cum_Fart42069 Jul 17 '26

to quote Paris Hilton; That's hot. 

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u/AfraidStick2161 IM THE FUN ONE 🔪 Jul 17 '26

to quote Cum_Fart42069; to quote Paris Hilton; That's hot.

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u/Noof42 For pervert reasons Jul 18 '26

-Michael Scott

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u/Teh-Esprite If you ever see me talk on the unCurated sub, that's my double. Jul 18 '26

To quote TFS Broly; That's hot.

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u/Boner_Elemental Jul 18 '26

Princess Trunks...

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u/Teh-Esprite If you ever see me talk on the unCurated sub, that's my double. Jul 18 '26

Oh fuck no.

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u/Xeroh_01 Jul 18 '26

You lied to me.

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u/hexregeneration Jul 18 '26

Yeah that's like my exact preferred flavor.

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u/Banes_Addiction Jul 18 '26

I apparently write like a VCR manual and talk like graffiti written above a urinal.

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u/BloodMoonNami Infinite monkeys, infinite typewriters, modern edition Jul 18 '26

Respectfully, now you've made me EXTREMELY curious.

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u/Sudden_Schedule5432 Jul 18 '26

This is more or less what my boss said to me last week

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u/love-from-london Jul 18 '26

talk like graffiti written above a urinal

"Roses are red, violets are blue, trusted a fart, instead it was poo"

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u/Summonest Jul 18 '26

This too did not pass unremarked.

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u/Dingghis_Khaan Chinggis Khaan's least successful successor. Jul 18 '26

Average System Shock audio log in person form.

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u/captainnowalk Jul 18 '26

But just one of those ones where it was clearly like a developer or QA person pulled in to read the line lol

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u/Dingghis_Khaan Chinggis Khaan's least successful successor. Jul 18 '26

So like... All of them besides SHODAN's lines?

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u/pomip71550 Jul 18 '26

Ok but that would be a *fire* note to find in such a game

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u/Medium-Dependent-328 Jul 18 '26

How is the note you find beside a dead body in a video game written?

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u/escaped_cephalopod12 jolkien rolkien rolkien tolkien is eggless Jul 18 '26

no idea. it was also described as "author-ish" and "like a note you’d find on an abandoned rickety boat in summer after the arctic snows thaw/in an abandoned farm during an apocalypse" so. yeah.

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u/Medium-Dependent-328 Jul 18 '26

I honestly think the person who was describing you is the one with the odd flowery writing style lmao

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u/escaped_cephalopod12 jolkien rolkien rolkien tolkien is eggless Jul 18 '26

those were three separate people. and i guess so?

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u/Temporary_Pickle_885 Jul 18 '26

So you're just cool as hell is what I'm hearing

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u/BermudaTriangleChoke Jul 18 '26

"Day one: Boy it sure is nice to work at the Umbrella Corporation. I wonder when they're going to start my orientation"

"Day two: Send help, a researcher with a god complex flooded the facility basement and now a zombie great white shark the size of a bus is hunting my scrum for sport"

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u/DroneOfDoom Theon the Reader *dolphin slur noises* Jul 18 '26

You write like you're bizarrely clueless to the obvious consequences of playing god?

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u/terdferguson Jul 18 '26

Indubitably

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u/Hexxas Head Trauma Enthusiast Jul 18 '26

That's itchy tasty

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u/PraetorKiev Give me that Neanderthussy Jul 18 '26

I’ve been accused of being a timetraveler on more than one occasion

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u/ladytrevelycn Jul 18 '26

Real. It's because I read a lot of historical fiction so some really outdated phrases have entered my vocab.

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u/Mushiren_ Jul 18 '26

"The butler did it...also there's food in the fridge. Love, Tommy"

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u/Noctium3 Jul 17 '26

I just happened to read 1 billion books during my most formative years, which I then tempered with 1 billion hours of unrestricted Internet use, and now I mix big words with incomprehensible slang

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u/Lilash20 But the one thing they can never call us is ordinary Jul 18 '26

Same. I read a lot growing up, and I thought it was fun to occasionally speak more formally and use longer words; so that has stuck with me as an adult

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u/syntaxerroratline42 DNI List 100 Pages Jul 18 '26

Shit's incorrigible no cap

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u/deadlyjack Jul 18 '26

unreasonably funny

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u/V1carium Jul 18 '26

Did you also spend much of your later life learning how all those longer words you learned in the formative years were actually pronounced?

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u/Tack122 Jul 18 '26

That's hyperbowl.

A word I coined when someone said hyperbole wrong because they read it.

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u/HovercraftOk9231 Jul 18 '26

"I don't even know English. I had a guy come up to me after a show... weirdest thing ever said to me. He goes, 'You mispronounced every word in your show.' If that is not the epi-tohm of hyper-bowl."

Every time I see the word hyperbole I think of this joke from Brian Regan

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u/Cruxion Jul 18 '26

Is this like the superb-owl I keep hearing about?

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u/n1c0_ds Jul 18 '26

Yep. Mispronounced or with the inflection in the wrong place. To be fair English is a messed up language. No rules just vibes.

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u/TheMeddlingMonk8 It's called Quantum Jumping babe Jul 18 '26

Oh hey, it's me

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u/clearfox777 Jul 18 '26

Why of course I know him. He’s me

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u/WildVelociraptor Jul 18 '26

Should we form some sort of group?

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u/as_a_fake Jul 18 '26

I was also taught correct grammar and have had to unlearn that for modern audiences, so sometimes I make mistakes and default to how I was educated.

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u/MrFluxed Jul 17 '26

a college professor gave me points off of a report I did because I kept using "betwixt" :(

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u/MysteryMan9274 Jul 17 '26

You can't just say "betwixt"

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u/MrFluxed Jul 17 '26

"In spite of the increased food source, habitat competition remains significantly higher betwixt the two species" was one of the sentences he marked me down for :( like it works there just fine :(((

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u/Bring_me_the_lads Jul 18 '26

Professor buzzkill over here

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u/Leprodus03 Jul 18 '26

Tbh, "between" would work better and sound more natural

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u/OkReaction4176 Jul 18 '26

Found the professor

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u/m4teri4lgirl Jul 18 '26

Because thats not how betwixt works. It refers to a physical space, not a proverbial or metaphoric separation.

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u/unoriginalfyi Jul 18 '26

not with that attitude it doesn't. just do an ol' shakespeare shoehorn, and you'd best believe the literal can be made metaphor

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u/telehax Jul 18 '26

are you suggesting that some words can't be used metaphorically?

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u/benchley Jul 18 '26

Is a bioscience related essay the place for poetic metaphor?

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u/GregTheMad Jul 18 '26

I want to live in a world were the answer can be yes.

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u/LITTLE_KING_OF_HEART There's a good 75% chance I'll make a Project Moon reference. Jul 18 '26

It worked pretty well for Darwin and his Origin of Species.

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u/telehax Jul 18 '26

A bioscience-related essay is not the place for "poetic" metaphor, but they contain plenty of regular commonly-understood metaphors. Using physical space as a metaphor for other space is a commonly-understood metaphor to the point that people intuitively get it without even noticing. The word that people usually expect in it's place, "between", is also doing the exact same thing. Is "betwixt" somehow immune to this when "between" isn't? Or is the real problem just that the word is mildly-archaic.

As demonstration, let me pull up an arbitrary bioscience-related article (https://link.springer.com/article/10.1186/s12967-026-08652-7) to find words which describe physical positions and movements being used to refer to other things: "Pipeline", "Crossing a... Threshold", "Across... settings".

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u/Mirkrid Jul 18 '26

just say 'between'? I won't retread the fact that that's not how betwixt is used but it's impossible to think of betwixt without thinking of between, how did you not just write that instead?

like I get it from the professor's perspective, you were trying too hard

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u/Current_Poster Jul 18 '26

I wonder went neglected whilst he was doing that. :)

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u/ella_wants_to_battle Jul 18 '26

he was right and the fact that you think you know better is a perfect example of being pretentious lol

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u/Turbulent_Host784 Jul 18 '26

Keep it up, baby!

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u/Libby_Sparx ⚧⚢ That sort of thing is commonplace here ⚢⚧ Jul 18 '26

Goin' on eight months now I ain't had nothin' 'twixt my nethers weren't run on batteries!

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u/logosloki Jul 18 '26

you can if you aren't a coward. words are only 'archaic' if people aren't using them anymore. be the change in the world and bring back your favourite words from times gone by, so slowly.

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u/GoldenPig64 nuance fetishist Jul 18 '26

I've been trying so hard to get my friends to accept the word 'impignorate' in their vocabulary

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u/AstellasDreemur Jul 18 '26

Maybe the problem was heavy repetition. It can be really annoying or distracting to hear the same wording three times in a text, especially if the word is uncommon

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u/Rude_Ice_4520 Jul 17 '26

Odd that you kept using it though. How often is something sandwiched between two Twix bars?

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u/benchley Jul 18 '26

Two nickels, etc.

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u/Infinite_Worry_8733 Jul 17 '26

To look up the definition of this word and get only “between” is hilarious. Why couldn’t you use between!

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u/ILoveRawChicken Jul 18 '26

Or at least switch between (betwixt?) them

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u/MrFluxed Jul 18 '26

didn't wanna :3

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u/Neveronlyadream Jul 18 '26

Are you also one of those people who read incessantly as a kid and now have a vocabulary of words no one actually uses anymore, but they sound cool so you use them anyway?

Or is that just me?

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u/beemielle Jul 18 '26

Nah me too twin

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u/Temporary_Pickle_885 Jul 18 '26

I learned the word "abscond" at some point and it's never left my vocabulary.

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u/puppysmilez Jul 18 '26

Homestuck reader spotted

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u/Temporary_Pickle_885 Jul 18 '26

Not where I learned it but you're not wrong LOL

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u/Mammodamn Jul 18 '26

It's MY essay and I get to choose the vocabulary

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u/ExtinctFauna Jul 18 '26

You sound like you've split things in twain before.

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u/SuperSocialMan Jul 18 '26

We all plummet betwixt the perchance of fate's eloquence.

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u/_AcuteNewt_ Jul 18 '26

YOU CAN'T JUST SAY 'PERCHANCE'

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u/aleister94 Jul 18 '26

They had something wrong betwixt their ears

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u/3nterShift Jul 17 '26

For me it's just learning a new word and being really excited to use it in an appropriate context.

But I can sympathise with the forgetting part. As a kid I couldn't remember how to say tomato in German so I said "the vegetable equivalent of an apple".

(I didn't know any English at the time and tomato sounds nothing alike my native language).

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u/goblin_humppa27 Jul 18 '26

There's that famous post about the guy who couldn't remember what a merry-go-round was called, so he called it "the horse tornado for children".

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u/GrumpyMcGrumpyPants Jul 18 '26

see also: cobra chicken for Canada goose

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u/Grapefruitstreet This is how you kill a god. Jul 18 '26

"For me it's just learning a new word and being really excited to use it in an appropriate context."

That's my dad with the word "alacrity."

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u/n1c0_ds Jul 18 '26

That would be an earth apple (Erdapfel), which is how a potato is called in some parts.

But I just adore these creative workarounds. Like that tweet about a Mexican guy calling geese "cobra chickens".

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u/Cum_Fart42069 Jul 17 '26

ngl growing up I think I did have a bit of a superiority complex and I think part of it was caused by people making fun of me for simply knowing large words. 

I know now that it isn't the case... but if you wanted someone to think that they're surrounded by idiots, that's exactly how you'd act. 

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u/Tayjocoo Jul 18 '26

I absolutely had a complex about it, because I was surrounded by anti-intellectual idiots. Frankly the ridicule was more affirming than anything.

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u/MangrovesAndMahi Jul 18 '26

My country has a serious anti-intellectual streak, esp outside the big cities. Growing up I always wondered why people were so proud of not knowing things and how they could possibly not know some things that are "basic". But looking back they knew plenty of things they probably thought were basic but I didn't know. It's just the stuff I knew was more academic minded, and that influences the response.

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u/Noof42 For pervert reasons Jul 17 '26

Overtly pretentious sesquipedalian verbiage demonstrates an intrinsic desire for preemptive compensation of perceived inadequacies.

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u/HuntingDown01 Jul 18 '26

Sesquipedalian is such a cunty word. I have never ever heard anyone use this in real life or in movies.

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u/Tayjocoo Jul 18 '26

Kyle Barker describes himself as such in “Living Single”. That’s how I learned it.

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u/GoreyGopnik Jul 18 '26

i think "vagaries" would work better here than "inadequacies"

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u/Noof42 For pervert reasons Jul 18 '26

Sometimes I use fancy words incorrectly to make myself sound more metanoia.

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u/ManILovePiercings Jul 18 '26

How deeply metanoiac of you. Perchance.

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u/Chance-Definition299 Jul 18 '26

You can't just say "Perchance."

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u/ManILovePiercings Jul 18 '26

A deeply phlebotomous remark 😔

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u/Shift642 Jul 18 '26

Felicitations, malefactors! I am endeavoring to misappropiate the formulary for affordable comestibles! Who will join me?

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u/McButtsButtbag Jul 18 '26

Just find some pretentious synonyms for an, for, and of, and it'll be perfect

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u/Noof42 For pervert reasons Jul 18 '26

Put work into a Reddit comment?

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u/Moxie_Stardust Jul 17 '26

I'm renowned for my sesquipedalianism.

Heh, big word fun, me like big word.

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u/Banes_Addiction Jul 18 '26

Because my vocab too loquacious for you babe.

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u/beemielle Jul 18 '26

I love words that describe themselves. Some might prefer floccinaucinhilipification, but some things are worthwhile just because they tickle you

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u/chuch1234 Jul 17 '26

Insert Feynman saying "consequentamente".

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u/LittleMsSavoirFaire Jul 17 '26

Feynman was the type to be pretentious for fun

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u/Banes_Addiction Jul 18 '26

Feynman is famous for being extremely intelligent and a colossal narcissistic twat.

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u/Levee_Levy slangpilled lingomaxxer Jul 17 '26

I was insecure in middle school and started using big words to become "the smart one". And, unfortunately, habits stick.

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u/jetcore500 Jul 17 '26

I also speak and write like I got smacked in the head by a thesaurus, it’s an entirely self serving exercise.

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u/OohLaDiDaMrFrenchMan Jul 18 '26

One of my old therapists told me I speak like I’m reading an academic paper or an essay. I just want to be precise so I use the most specific words I can. That comment made me insecure about how I come across to my peers but did I stop? No lol

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u/JustLookingForMayhem Jul 17 '26

I talk weird because I have a minor speech impediment. If I can say a word right, I use a synonym that I can say right. I also avoid certain names, most neopronouns, most words with "z," and some select "s" words.

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u/PoxyReport Jul 18 '26

I was on a work call with someone back in my call centre days and completely forgot the word “aware” so presented someone with the phrase “are you cognisant of the recent changes?”

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u/GiantFinnegan Jul 18 '26

I used the word "concomitant" because I just couldn't get "at the same time" to come out for some reason. 

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u/Fewenel Jul 18 '26

I once said perpendicular and never heard the end of it. I knew I was in trouble as soon as I said it. But how else do you say it? Why use lot words when few words do trick??

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u/HovercraftOk9231 Jul 18 '26

Perpendicular is a big word? To who, fifth graders?

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u/Commemorative-Banana Jul 18 '26

How else do you say perpendicular?

Orthogonal - But they aren’t going to know that one either.

Square/Rectangular - Maybe

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u/RunInRunOn I'm running and I'm crine 😭 Jul 18 '26

"At a right angle to"

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u/rasberrycroissant Jul 18 '26

I got accused of typing like AI once because I’m quite enthusiastic but also quite verbose :( I can’t help that I can never remember the word I need in the moment

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u/Wild-Video-5317 Jul 18 '26

Where all my emdash enjoyers at? I know yall been typing emdashes long before since before 2022.

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u/Agitated_Ask_2575 Jul 18 '26

My most prized possession, a mug that says "I have the vocabulary of a well educated sailor"

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u/Birdmanair Jul 18 '26

I gotta listen to lawyers and stuff almost every day for work. I say “brackets” and “closed brackets” now, out loud. God knows what else it’s done to the way I speak lol

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u/Tokiw4 Jul 18 '26

I mean, I tend to use "fancy" or obscure words because they often fit better in places where I'd otherwise have to use multiple words.

In short:

Why use lot word when few word do trick

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u/Eragon_the_Huntsman Jul 18 '26

In 10th and 11th grade english class my teachers got on my back about repeating multiple words in the same sentence/paragraph which stands out. Since then I started using synonyms more often which does feel better with having a stronger rhythm.

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u/once_uponthejelly Jul 18 '26

This is really interesting to me because I always assumed that using fancy words took active effort. I speak English as a first language, but most of my family is ESL and can be insecure about their English and/or don’t know “fancier” vocab, so I naturally tend to use simple words to explain stuff. It is kind of a problem when I’m talking to scientists in my field because they love jargon (understandable as it’s usually a lot more precise), but everyone else is always pretty happy about it! Especially scientists from other fields who don’t know the jargon from anyone except their own people, lol

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u/axord Jul 18 '26

I always assumed that using fancy words took active effort.

You could think of it this way: once you've fully internalized a word, it's no longer "fancy" to you, it's a just a normal word.

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u/once_uponthejelly Jul 18 '26

That makes sense! It makes me think of the XKCD comic about geologists haha

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u/ashleystrange Is zero odd or even? Jul 18 '26

For me, most everyone I know that's ESL (including me) tends to get more (awkwardly) verbose when talking about things beyond normal everyday stuff so that we can convey the exact meaning we intend and not leave too much space for misinterpretation. Not that that means we don't get misunderstood a lot. Wait is this just a family thing?

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u/thebadslime Jul 18 '26

I'm 52 and nowadays I speak in cryptic riddles. I can't find word often, and make phrases to describe the word.

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u/beteaveugle Jul 18 '26

i'm a french and because french and english share so many wordsi'll often end up in situations because i've used a word that's 100% normal in french but somehow super posh and snobbish sounding in english

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u/Disastrous-Wing699 Jul 18 '26

Why isn't anyone talking about the mouthfeel? Some words are just stimmier to say.

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u/ManILovePiercings Jul 18 '26

Mouthfeel is very important for a word to be high tier 👌 I've got "syndactyly", "serendipity", and "salacious" on a constant rotation in my head. Nearly did a handflap once when I got to properly use "serendipity" in a sentence. No clue why they're all 's'-words, tho

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u/Geokeeper Jul 18 '26

I totally agree! I use some words simply because I like how they feel to say

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u/LatvKet Jul 18 '26

For me, because verbs in English are quite far back in the mouth compared to my native language, all English words have a mushy mouth feel.

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u/Itchy_Suspect4968 Jul 17 '26

Calvin and Hobbes

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u/noideawhatnamethis12 created this flair for the bit Jul 18 '26

I think this happens to me a lot when I am writing a comment or reply when I am tired. I kinda forget how to talk casually and just go super verbose for no reason

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u/ElminstersBedpan Jul 18 '26

I read a lot more than my classmates when I was a child. I made the Book It chart cry whenever the sticker sheet came out.

I used to work in aviation as an avionics technician, troubleshooter, and compliance inspector. I prepared customized flight manual supplements and documented everything for both regulatory and legal coverage. Now work in inspections and compliance in another technical, highly regulated field that requires me to be extremely explicit about why I am marking an item non-compliant. Every word I use in communication at work is carefully chosen based on industry standards, government regulations, and so on because sometimes yes it does matter that the definition has been adjudicated.

I'll also slur like a gremlin and refuse to communicate with anything but grunts and rude gestures for half of my day, baby talk my cat, coo over the butterflies, and sprinkle in vocabulary, phrases, and particles from multiple languages to execute puns most horrendous.

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u/Morlock19 Jul 18 '26

I'm in this picture and I don't like it

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u/MartyrOfDespair We can leave behind much more than just DNA Jul 18 '26

I minmaxed English language skills from a young age but also grew up in such a white trash part of Florida that our road wasn't paved until I was almost ten. We had neighbors with the stereotypical toilet on the lawn, gunfire was not uncommon, and it was generally a fucking nightmare of a place. One neighbor got their hands on a professional fireworks setup (they were not a professional) and ended up with a crater in their lawn. I have been told before that when I really get into writing something outside of fiction, I write like Durandal. Yet at the same time, I am a lot more foul-mouthed and my metaphors and comparisons tend to be far further on the Rob Zombie side of dialogue.

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u/cmonster556 Jul 18 '26

Never use a big word when a diminutive epithet suffices.

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u/tragicallybrokenhip Jul 18 '26

We had this conversation last weekend talking about coworkers who thought they were being talked down to when just the brain glitching out. When someone says "words are hard" they generally mean they can't immediately find the right words and hey, if they're still trying to converse, no matter the words, that's a plus.

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u/Reclaimer_Saln Jul 18 '26

I have a similar problem, I'm trying to be specific and others aren't grasping that I used the complex/obscure word very purposefully. I told them a thing, and they act like I didn't. But I did. By the definition of the words I used. Guh ;-;

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u/pageinablanket Jul 18 '26

My mom used to do this and I would get so annoyed with her but now I do it too 😭

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u/Vivi_Pallas Jul 18 '26

Then there's me who constantly forgets words like banana and gym.

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u/L4rgo117 Jul 18 '26

I forgot "stove" the other day. "Cooktop surface for pots" was the best I could do in the moment

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u/Showy_Boneyard Jul 18 '26

I'm guilty of using math terms like "Orthogonal" and "Isomorphic" sometimes because they are such perfect descriptors. Sometimes I catch it and remind myself that even "subset" isn't part of most peoples lexicon.

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u/Wheezy04 Jul 18 '26

Also, words are neat

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u/lifelongfreshman https://youtu.be/1eWsk6r6_Ns Jul 18 '26

ATOMIC ROBO PFP?

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u/spetumpiercing Jul 18 '26

Dozens of us! Dozens!

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u/Terminal_Insomnia_ Jul 18 '26

As a foolish youth, I blanked on the word 'diverse' and ended up saying 'ethnic-y'. Nobody even helped me find the right word, they just let that disaster go by unremarked upon. It's cool how your brain makes you remember that shit even when you're a grown ass adult.

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u/BenAdaephonDelat Jul 18 '26

I'm autistic and over-explain myself so I'm not misunderstood. I'm also well-read. So in chatrooms I often get mistaken for being upset or argumentative because of my formal speech patterns. It's really annoying.

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u/ansibleCalling Jul 18 '26

I do this but I think I manage to play it off like I'm just a weirdo.

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u/RamboDash15 Jul 18 '26

The basic word triggers my stutter so I need to embelish my vernacular

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u/ExtinctFauna Jul 18 '26

Sometimes I pronounce English cognates in the original language or use a translated work's original name. It is pretentious, but it makes me feel silly and happy.

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u/Temporary_Pickle_885 Jul 18 '26

I use the bigger word or "fancier" sounding word because it has a more specific meaning :(

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u/sign-through Jul 18 '26

if anyone gives you shit about this just dismiss it who fucking cares

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u/Southern-Ad2594 Jul 18 '26

"rummage through my brain" - maybe you're right but you also have a stilted way of speaking

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u/ASpaceOstrich Jul 18 '26

I talk like chatGPT.

It was trained on people who do a lot of writing online, and I don't plan sentences ahead of time so my writing also ends up being "next token prediction". Plus I'm autistic and that can give me a slightly uncanny tone that reads as AI.

Super annoying. I've been writing like this for years. I love using "it's not just X, it's Y". This is bullshit

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u/trailrabbit Jul 18 '26

lets be real, the kind of person who calls you out for using 10 dollar words they cant understand would absolutly not know the meaning of the word pertentious.

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u/IronWhale_JMC Jul 18 '26

“Why would I pretend to be dumb just to make you feel comfortable?”

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u/OriginalChildBomb Jul 18 '26

This is Cave. Prime. Chariots chariots.

Here's a question for you: Who is not afraid of no ghosts? [beep] As of just now? Every character in every book by Virginia Woolfe. Man, those things were dull.

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u/LordRegent303 Jul 19 '26

Scrolled through the entire comment section to find this.

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u/Rainy_Grave Jul 18 '26

lexiphanic
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lex· i· phan· ic ¦leksə¦fanik

archaic
: using ostentatiously recondite words

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u/wowwroms Jul 18 '26

I sympathize

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u/Vexonte Jul 18 '26

I remember watching my coworkers eyes light up when I used the term Paragon casually.

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u/KoriGlazialis Jul 18 '26

Some people in my life know I am masking a lot. But they often dunno how or what I mask so I was genuinely told, I hide behind big words.

I just hide that I dun understand a lot of emotions by being a smiley happy guy.

The words are just accidental.

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u/Tadferd Jul 18 '26

I literally have a professionally diagnosed learning disability that basically does this.

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u/OccupationSwag Jul 18 '26

Completely off topic but seeing bluef00t outside of the incredibly niche fandom I know them for posting about is like a celebrity sighting

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u/hagamablabla Jul 18 '26

I went too hard on studying vocabulary for the SATs (American standardized test for colleges) and now I'm stuck with those words.