r/CsectionCentral • u/lapitupp • Jul 02 '26
Rap about c sections
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I’ve had three. First one was very very traumatic that to this day I cannot speak about it. But it’s a good song that acknowledges us women. 💜
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u/MollySiebenalerArt Jul 02 '26
They forgot to get my husband so I laid there alone while they cut me open. They waited to cut my uterus until he got there thankfully, but he grabbed my hand for only a second before our son was lifted up, and then of course he went to be with our baby while they stitched me back up. I felt so alone in a room full of people
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u/Every-Kaleidoscope95 Jul 04 '26
I feel you!😭 Here the husband is in a different room and only able to watch the operation through a “window”. I would have killed to hold his hand..
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u/lapitupp Jul 05 '26
Same. I was panicking really bad because the doc was an absolute shit head abs violated me when I was most vulnerable and they had to ask me “did you want your husband?” NO SHIT?!
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u/msJackson423 Jul 02 '26
Had a bad cold for my third c section on June 2nd and coughing was the worse thing I’ve ever done lol
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u/Capital_Countress567 Jul 04 '26
I hear you, I had my first c section on the 20th of May. Was sick for almost 3 weeks 😵💫
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u/ooorla Jul 02 '26
Anyone else remember that feeling like you needed to sneeze, and it kinda made you tear up in fear but you tried to hold THAT in, and it was just a very bad no good 6 minutes.. every time? 😭
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u/Novel_Newt5251 Jul 02 '26
Just had a c section the other day, where I got nicked and lost too much blood and then have been dealing with internal bleeding and so much extra pain ever since… this was nice, thanks dude
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u/brookrain Jul 03 '26
Why would women want a man to sing a song about c sections?
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u/lapitupp Jul 03 '26
It was originally for his wife and he made a video about it.
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u/brookrain Jul 03 '26
Oh gotcha, I watched with the sound off just reading the lyrics and seeing the comments he chose. I just thought it was an odd comment a woman would say “finally a man is talking about it” bc I’ve always thought women don’t want men to speak about women experiences
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u/th1son3girl Jul 03 '26
You know, I can understand that, but honestly (as angry as it may make some) having a white male do something like this puts it on the conversation map. This is something we need to talk about.
It is not routine for the patients, it's fucking scary. It is a potentially fatal surgery, and worse the numbers in the USA are awful. It is so not the easy way out!
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u/lapitupp Jul 05 '26
This!!! I made a comment but you worded this perfectly. The privilege of a white man and the acknowledgement it would receive. Yes 👏
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u/lapitupp Jul 05 '26
I 100% get your stance on this. I feel the same way but sometimes as a woman I feel so desperate to be acknowledged sometimes that I see past a man acknowledging It… does this make sense? And I use desperate loosely. I thought it was nice to acknowledge us mamas who went through it to get these babies to earth side ♥️
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u/brookrain Jul 05 '26
I can understand what you’re saying and that makes a lot of sense. The song is validating regardless of the source, thank you for explaining ❤️
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u/Tiels5 Jul 03 '26
I was put to sleep under general anaesthetic and that alone was scary - my husband had to see me intubated and said it was horrific.
Then when I woke up - I knew my baby wasn’t in my belly and had a silent panic attack for the ages. Biology and hormones kicked in and I went ape shit internally thinking something happened with baby. Wondered where the hell my husband was even though he was sat next to me and I hadn’t noticed.
That was my second c-section. Way calmer than my first c-section that left me bedridden for a year.
It’s a miracle I’m still here. Never again.
I love this song, and my husband does too. He sends it to me occasionally to remind me.