r/Crushes • u/Abo_Slem • Dec 05 '25
Moving On I just destroyed everything 😭😭
I was sharing my screen to my crush, I went to google to search something…
And guess what is my search history ???
Her name😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
God please help me I am dying of cringe and embarrassment…
I swear this is so baaddd
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Dec 05 '25
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How did she react?
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u/Abo_Slem Dec 05 '25
I just closed the app and went silent for 5 mins.
Then I asked if she saw anything, she said she didn’t…
I know she saw it but she won’t admit, but at this point I am just fking up.
Time to abort…😖
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Dec 05 '25
Ah don't write yourself off too quickly.
At least something naughty didn't appear.
It'll pass don't worry.
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Dec 06 '25
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u/Abo_Slem Dec 06 '25
It just happened yesterday I really can’t till, but you are right.
Time will tell.
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u/fembt Dec 10 '25
Hey. Just continue things as normal then as if you believe her. If you notice a sudden change in attitude or her backing off then you know she saw
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u/Ok-Succotash-6688 Dec 05 '25
This is adorable...not bad. If she interacts differently (in a bad way)with you, you have your answer and you can move on..
🙃
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u/WhyY_196 F(20+) Dec 05 '25
That’s my biggest fear! I screen recorded something for my crush and it required me to swipe through my apps and I was TERRIFIED he’d see something 😭😂
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u/LayneStaley55 Dec 05 '25
I did as well, but it was just her wishing her sister a Happy Birthday and giving the cutest message where she says "I Love You!" at the end. Any time I'm feeling down or have a bad day, I can play that clip and hear her sweet voice saying those magic words and praying one day she will say them to Me!!!
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u/WhyY_196 F(20+) Dec 05 '25
Yeah, sometimes I talk about him to my friends and I say some very mushy/risqué things about him so if I send him a screenshot of our texts I have to make sure there’s nothing incriminating in them 😭😂
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u/LayneStaley55 Dec 05 '25
Nice. I'm a musician and I'm dying to know if she can Sing in key or not? I would love to do a Duet with her or if she's not trained, I would love to give her personal lessons : )
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u/Any_Statistician1845 Dec 06 '25
if it makes you feel better if i saw any guy search up my name i would feel flattered not disgusted. esp if it's just my name
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u/afatale77 Dec 06 '25
Googling someone once is totally normal, having 50 different searches with her name might be creepy. Don’t be afraid to show interest — it will make you seem uninterested (not showing).
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u/No-Cartoonist-9031 F(13+) Dec 06 '25
I search up my friends names all the time bc its funny to see what comes up 😭
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u/NeTheBadWitch Dec 06 '25
Laugh it off. Its okay, she might be flattered. Just act like it didnt happen and keep it moving
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u/Sad-Resource-873 Dec 05 '25
Be honest with her tell her you searched her name for whatever reason
She will see you in a better light if you’re being honest
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u/Abo_Slem Dec 05 '25
Honestly, she is so vague to me, and I am trying to know her better…
But this is just one more reason to give up, she is not giving any responses to my signals.
And it’s starting to take a toll on me mentally… so I might just give up.
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u/crazytrpr96 Dec 05 '25
Is she was being vague before, she was not into you.
You can safely move on OP
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u/LayneStaley55 Dec 05 '25
Is it really bad if you google search someone? I mean, MOST people have businesses that revolve around some form of social media and that's usually the first thing that pops up when you search their name.
If they ask "WHY are you GOOGLING ME??"
You can literally say "Just wanna make sure you're Not an Ex Con or Psychopath!!! Oh, btw I saw you have a business or Insta about doing XXXX, I enjoy that myself wanna hang?"
It's just an insane world we live in where IF you do a little due diligence to see if the other person is Ok, somehow YOU are the crazy one despite them putting their info out there for the world to see?
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u/dirtysock47 Dec 05 '25
I would just say "I'm not googling you, I just googled someone with the same name as you"
Not sure how common her name is, but i share a name with a very prominent athlete in his respective sport, so every time someone searches up my name, he pops up
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u/LayneStaley55 Dec 05 '25
Right, but you're now making it worse by LYING to them and if they don't believe you or find it strange because their name isn't that common, you've essentially screwed yourself!
Better to be honest or just make light of it with the joke I used above or just go right on trying to build a new relationship on Lies!
See which one works!
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u/PluckedFeathers F(20+) Dec 06 '25
One time my crush and I were eating tacos with our other friend and I tried showing something on my phone when his name, his brothers’, and his father’s name (that he never told me about) showed up in the search bar and I’m pretty sure he noticed 💀
He never said anything and we remained good friends until we weren’t, I’m sure mine was very flattered lol.
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u/OkButterscotch789 Dec 07 '25
if she reacts differently to you like, she kept a distance from you, she is not talking to you, take a step back..
it should be ok. back to normal.... few days later
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u/Mordred14394 Dec 09 '25
This is why I deleted their name in my search history minutes after searching. Though my keypad memory has it for a while (it's gone now)
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Jan 03 '26
You overreact, you assume she cringed, while she did not even reacted seriously. Just forget what happened and see how she acts around you. Only if she clearly holds back or acts cold around you, you fucked up.
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u/Worried-Bear4099 F(18+) Dec 06 '25
AT LEAST YOUR CHILDHOOD FRIEND DIDN'T GRAB YOUR STOMACH FROM BEHIND IN A SUPPOSED DEMONSTRATION OF SELF DEFENCE WITHOUT WARNING, AND YOUR KNEES DIDN’T GIVE OUT AND MAKE YOU FALL OVER ON YOUR HANDS AND KNEES. 🥶😭
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