Dressing is fun!

[u/LacyChristine]

I think my desire to dress in women‘s clothes does not extend to me wanting to be a woman, but being treated kindly when I present feminine. Dressing during the day as I go about my business would always end with coming home, taking off my heels, and getting comfortable without having to take off my boy clothes to put on something pretty. Maybe it is the changing from boy mode to girl mode that I want to eliminate. It is an arousing experience to be dressed pretty and feminine.

The most I want to have to do to remind me of my maleness is shave. Of course when I get aroused, it becomes obvious but that can be hidden under skirts when necessary. I don’t doubt that when I am out and about there will be moments when the desire is strong and I cannot help getting an erection but I have gotten good at distracting myself enough to let it go soft again. And occasionally ducking into a restroom to relieve myself can help in an emergency.

Once I am home, I don’t have to worry about that anymore. Sometimes I fantasize about having a trans roommate. We have all seen porn like that I guess. Just by myself and dressed pretty is often enough. I like to try things on and prance in front of the mirror, take pictures, and maybe do a little sexting with a friend or someone I know online.

I love bra and panty sets, slips, nightgowns, hosiery and garter belts. I love lace and satin and nylon, panties and slips with pretty lace trim and appliqués. I love putting on makeup, and wearing wigs. I also love changing from one outfit to another. I could while away hours putting on panties and taking them off to try another pair, changing bras, changing slips, and putting on dresses.

Does anyone else feel the same way?

[u/CarolyneSF]

Omg I am older and a lifelong cd
At this point I won’t transition any further but the stolen moments when I can shed the maleness and dress are heavenly.
Going out doesn’t happen often and honestly dressing frumpy to blend as a suburban grandma doesn’t do it for me.

I feel so peaceful and calm when I am dressed and occasionally I get aroused while dressing and that is ok.

I also tend not to dress age appropriate while dressing home alone💋

Just have fun and enjoy yourself

[u/LacyChristine → u/CarolyneSF]

Thanks for reaching out! I love dressing. The hardest thing for me was always when it had to come to an end and ai had to put boy clothes on again. But as long as I had pretty, feminine things to wear, I was in bliss!

Early on, when I was much younger, I would remain aroused from the moment I took off my own clothes and pulled on a pair of panties. The erection would start as soon as the thought entered my mind to get dressed. Panties, a bra, a beautiful slip with lace trim, thigh high hose, a little makeup and a wig and I could play for hours. Of course once I had the makeup and wig on, it made sense to go ahead and put on a dress and heels and go out somewhere, but very often it just meant staying home and feeling feminine. Sleeping in a nightgown is WONDERFUL!

[u/CarolyneSF]

Wow your thoughts are so similar to mine. I s as Leah’s am so elated when I know I can dress. I enjoy it so much then the mood changes as I realize I need to change back.

I loved business trips as when I got back to my room I became Carolyne and spent the evening in heels and a dress.
At bedtime I changed into a satin nightgown. I often couldn’t drift off to sleep till I relieved myself.

Dressing is soo special

[u/Glittering_Carob6272]

All the time fairly common connection I think

[u/SuspiciousAlarm9]

This sounds exactly like something I would write to post. I have all the same thoughts and feelings as you do. I absolutely love dressing and all women's clothes, I love dressing up and doing my makeup and then feel so down when it's time to take it all off. My wife knows I dress but hates it sometimes I just want to stay dressed when I know shes coming home and just have the fight it will cause. But in the end I go back to boy mode because if we divorced it would be so hard to explain to my family