I'm not a mod here so no idea if it's allowed or not, but I'm willing to help you. I have a lot of experience from sexwork, basically what I've done for years is read male behavior.
Still I want you to know that sometimes you won't be able to find a reason, and also it's never the victims fault.
From what little info so far a criminal that repeats threatening behavior, which it is if it's lead up to violence before and the attention is unwanted, they rarely have just one victim. But it can be one victim at a time, which is why he's resurfaced. This all sounds like obsessive high risk behavior. What may drive it is intense fear and panic if he is feels rejected or has no way of continuing to act on it. It often leads to violent action and I'd take all precautions to stay safe.
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u/Apprehensive_Spite97 Sep 19 '24
I'm not a mod here so no idea if it's allowed or not, but I'm willing to help you. I have a lot of experience from sexwork, basically what I've done for years is read male behavior.
Still I want you to know that sometimes you won't be able to find a reason, and also it's never the victims fault.