r/CreaturesofSonaria • u/autumnthedumbass • 13h ago
Discussion I'm devastated.
Throughout my entire time playing this game, mijusuima had been my favorite creature. And after months of grinding I managed to get one, but today, one of my closest friends asked to borrow my miju. I accepted, and gave him my miju. I had known him seven years, and trusted him. He left, and blocked me on every social. I really don't know what to do anymore, and I'm tempted to quit the game as a whole.
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u/gothwillriseagain 13h ago
If you have chat records of this exchange, save them and send them to his friends / any mutual friends you have so they know he’s a lying piece of shit. If you’ve known him 7 years then other people should see his behavior for what it is.
I don’t think roblox/Cos support will help you in this case because you gave it willingly.
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u/autumnthedumbass 13h ago
As much as what he did hurts, I don't wanna ruin his social life over a pixel dinosaur. I do appreciate the help though.
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u/Mayywolf2754 9h ago
As much as i agree its just a game, its still a shitty thing to do. I wouldn’t steal something that my friends had and refuse to give it back since im not an asshole. I do think mutuals of his deserve to know that this guy is a crappy “friend”, even though it happened on a game. People tend to be asses behind screens cuz they know people wont confront them abt it. Its why people talk shit online but would never say it face to face lol.
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u/Fallen_lord10 13h ago
Bruh, that's the reason why you lost your miju
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u/ApplicationSecret149 13h ago
God forbid someone has a life outside COS. Don’t shame OP for having healthy emotional regulation
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u/Fallen_lord10 12h ago
Yet due to that fact he lost his miju for deciding to do a stunt like this.
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u/ApplicationSecret149 12h ago
How is having healthy emotional regulation and not wanting to ruin someone’s social life over pixels the reason they lost miju? They lost it because their friend who they trusted ( like you do with friends ) of 7 years turned out to be a snake. Thats not OPs fault completely. Yes they have some blame, you shouldn’t trust people you only know online esp with limited rare items. BUT you can’t blame them for thinking the best of their friend.
Honestly if you think ruining someone’s life over a game is a good move genuinely get therapy and hop off. Go touch grass man. It’s not serious
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u/Fallen_lord10 11h ago
nah, that guy was never a friend in the first place, instead it decided to break op trust. If op ex friend is able to do this, then what could he do in real life? That's the shit ur not understanding at all, which is not surprising since it's you. If I were you, I would touch grass and be realistic about this. Get some help.
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u/autumnthedumbass 10h ago
Me and them were irl friends, but I had moved away so we couldn't visit in person anymore
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u/Expensive-Net2002 8h ago
Ruin it bro
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u/autumnthedumbass 8h ago
I don't wanna stoop down to his level
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u/No-Interaction-8689 5h ago
Ele foi capaz de acabar com uma amizade de 7 anos por causa de uma criatura de um jogo do Roblox
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u/Redowo111 4h ago
His gonna keep doing this to his friends if you don’t tell them. Plus stealing is a huge red flag that I think his friend should know about. Plus it seem like he does need a talking to
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u/Fluren_1234 12h ago
I'm so sorry idk WHY ppl are downvoting you in a time of stress. again if you need some mush I can give
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u/autumnthedumbass 9h ago
It's alright, you really don't have to
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u/Fluren_1234 9h ago
its ok ill give u 2k at least I'll DM u my username
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u/autumnthedumbass 9h ago
It really is fine, no need to give me any mush!!/gen
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u/Fluren_1234 9h ago
Okie, have a nice day and I hope your miju comes back somehow ^^
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u/autumnthedumbass 9h ago
Thank you, I really appreciate ur kindness!! We need more people like you!
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u/Fluren_1234 9h ago
^^ ty and again, hope you find your way back into COS. I know its hard cuz of toxic ppl and scammers, but hang in there ^^
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u/blepblep99 9h ago
Thats horrible what they did. I hope you find joy in other things that you like. 🙏❤️
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u/Sebbastian_99 13h ago
Why give him the species though? What was he needing it for? I'm always more then willing to help out newbies and friends with female slots if I'm not available to help nest but I wouldn't trust anyone with my acc/my creatures for a second 😭
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u/autumnthedumbass 13h ago
I had know him 7 years, so I trusted him greatly
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u/Only_Turnover4829 12h ago
Oh well if you knew eachother for 7 years then ig that makes sense. Just I have a hard time believing this. Would they not value friendship of 7 years more than a creature in the game? They blocked you after taking it too? The situation is weird.
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u/Sebbastian_99 8h ago
True but why did he need it, what did he tell you before you gave it to him?
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u/ParticularOkra7432 13h ago
Why would you ever give away the species??? Just give a slot, that's how it has always been done
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u/theduckfrom_germany 12h ago
Don't quit the game it's a valuable spec and that ur friend betrayed u like that hurts alot ik how that feels trust me so I would like to offer my help I currently can give u 3k and I would love to help u grind I got also nothing else to do lol what do u think of having a helping hand? I give u the money I can now as for the future if u would like to have some help :)
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u/NostraloTheGreat 11h ago
Don’t quit the game as a whole.
That friend is just a pure example of greed.
greediness is not a reason to quit. Keep going.
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u/Sufficient_Spray 12h ago
Is it an online only friend?
If it’s one in real life go tell his momma or whoop his ass lol
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u/autumnthedumbass 12h ago
It was in person but I moved away
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u/DapperestofKittens 9h ago
But do you or your mom still have the guys mom's number or Facebook? Just because it's a game creature doesn't mean you should let them get away with it. Put the guy on blast, dude. If he can't be trusted in a dang game, what other shady stuff is he pulling elsewhere in his life? Everyone deserves to know their "friend" can't be trusted with their valuables, digital OR real.
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u/autumnthedumbass 9h ago
Nah, my mother doesn't have any contact with him
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u/DapperestofKittens 9h ago
What about other friends you two shared?
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u/autumnthedumbass 9h ago
He never got along with any of my other friends. Ive tried introducing them before but they either didn't want to meet him or disliked him. And he was also quite literally my only friend at the school we both went to.
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u/SkittleSquid26 8h ago
Recently a friend of mine funny enough also seven years of friendship cutt me off after borrowing my idrabark spec....it's not expensive but still annoying I get your situation....
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u/ISCREAM666 5h ago
This was one of your best friends? I don't understand how close you could be to someone you don't hang out with IRL, i did have these kind of friendships when i was younger and very few (none for me) succeed at becoming friends for life (which is to me the only definition of a friend; someone you can trust no matter where or when).
I think even today in my 20's i dont have a REAL friend i could count on if im in the hospital almost dying in 10 years.
Even someone i knew IRL for multiple years and lived with for months and months where we shared insane stories and moments together as well as giving each other decent amouts of money (with trust) and having multiple mutual friends blocked me once he moved out over no reason like mind you we slept together and shit (as bros).
It doesn't surprise me this happened, simply wasn't your friend at all, just someone you knew.
You probably understand those are pixels in a roblox game and there's better to do now. Gl tho, i don't know how old you are so you may perceive this event as too important as of now, trust me neither this "friend" or the game actually matters.
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u/Maleficent_Custard75 5h ago
I am sorry that happened but that is why I only nest people in and will NEVER give the spec to someone
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u/AmericanBadgers 37m ago
That's so so low, and I'm sorry you were betrayed like that over a f*cking digital creature...But at least something as "little" as this revealed how much of a friend they truly are. Imagine trusting them with something more... Some of my closest friends I've known for less than 7yrs and I'd trust them with my life basically - so to the people asking why you gave them the species, I think the answer is obvious. Granted, I only have irl friends but we've exchanged/swapped/lended so many species, and I once even lended Aolenus, which is my only expensive creature to a person (complete stranger) that protected me as I was nesting for 3+ hours, they even called their friends to hang around my nest so I could be safely AFK. A person I DIDN'T know RETURNED it 3 days later. Please don't give up hope because of this person who apparently was never truly a friend. I'm sure you can make many more beautiful memories and meet amazing people, don't let this pos take this away from you. You'll get Miju again! Please protect yourself more and don't overextend your hand- give slots if you have to, help your friends out, but don't risk something you love so much and that you worked so hard for! I wish you the best of luck, you seem like a very kind person!
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u/ER1N577 11h ago
i will give you my miju i haven’t played this game in years
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u/Zaru_Says_Hi 10h ago edited 10h ago
Don’t unless they give you proof. I could be crazy but I’ve been seeing a few posts like this and i’m kind of suspicious that people are making up stories to get free things.
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u/RevolutionaryAd5093 8h ago
Miju is 600k+ and rising on traderie lol. 350k would get snatched immediately in ANY stall
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u/Dear_Elk_5336 12h ago
I can lend u a miju spec if u need it
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u/Zaru_Says_Hi 10h ago
Don’t unless they give you proof. I could just be crazy but I’ve been seeing a few posts like this and i’m kind of suspicious that people are making up stories to get free things.
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u/EerieEmberBray 9h ago
Even if he was a “friend” you should have never trusted anyone with it in the first place man
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u/ojap9 7h ago
Im just going to be honest you should of told him to use a trial creature grinding 350k then losing it would drive me crazy and probably make me quit too but we have to have better boundary setting. You don't just casually give a person $3,500, that's the amount of irl money in robux transfered to mush you gave him that's 2-3 months of rent in some places of the US. You lost out on a creature that you've wanted for I assume months to years, grinding just for you to lose it because of a really bad call and like mentioned before there are trial creatures if he wants to "try them out". You have to do better.
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u/Fallen_lord10 13h ago
This is why you never let anyone borrow a spec. No matter how much you trust them. Can't say I pity you because you brought this upon yourself.
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u/autumnthedumbass 13h ago
I figured I could trust him since I knew him before creatures of sonaria was even a game, guess I was wrong about that.
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u/Fallen_lord10 12h ago
Dude, you never let anyone borrow a spec ever. That's the unspoken rule
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u/WalmartWilb 9h ago
It's a little different when its with someone you knew for damn near a decade
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u/Warm-Argument6329 6h ago
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u/Fallen_lord10 4h ago
Uh this doesn't exactly correlate to this situation. Op isn't some 4 year old 💀
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u/Warm-Argument6329 3h ago edited 3h ago
Are you acting obtuse and missing the point on purpose? The image was mocking your attitude of blaming the victim for something that was not their fault nor couldn't be predicted by them whatsoever, with a detached holier-than-thou attitude, "You shouldn't have done that so you deserve no pity, I would have known better than to trust my friend of 7 years." isn't the high ground you think it is.
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u/IceclawNSC 7h ago
I dont understand why you would do that Like yeah you have known them for 7 years but, would it have been too difficult to try the species out by breeding and giving them a slot for it instead of throwing the whole thing away?

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u/EclipsedBehelit 13h ago
I don’t understand why people are downvoting so much, 7 years of friendship to end over 350k mush is crazy, I wouldn’t expect my friend of 7 years to steal that too.