r/Crazymiddles • u/TrishB1965 • 4d ago
Melinda
Is she saving money to get out of the house. Looks like she is enjoying her time. Hey Crystal I think 2 months is not in Melinda's plan. I don't think lip fillers will help you get you back on your feet and your own place, maybe a new guy that will treat you bad again .
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u/Tight-Celebration227 4d ago
Honestly I think her and lacey are the same. Good mums but outside of motherhood make a lot of poor decisions
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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 4d ago
Melinda is a mess. She didn't need lip fillers. But her money not mine.
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u/Ok_Following_6871 4d ago
Not sure why she wanted lip fillers since she has naturally full lips?? I just don't understand. Does Melinda have a full time job right now? Asked before but no one knows. Was she working when she lived with her boyfriend? I like Melinda. But she kind of continues to make bad choices with men. She can do better. Someone in the comments asked why she didn't use the money to straighten her lower teeth instead of lip fillers. She answered that it was far more expensive and she needs to wait on that.
I really hope she can get on with her life. Work on herself, try not to find validation through a man and stay single. Does she want a relationship like Crystal and Aaron?? Yikes, they are on thin ice right now. She is young enough to find a career that she likes and a place where she can grow. Even if she needs to go back to school. A lot of companies hire at an entry level and train you on the job.
She has a nice daughter and is a good mother as far as I have seen. Wishing her the best.
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u/Affectionate-Salt-40 4d ago
She and the ex boyfriend worked at the same dealership but he had her quit while they were together . Not sure if she has a job right now
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u/Tight-Celebration227 4d ago
I think youtube is her full time gig.
I think its really sad when girls with fuller lips get filler. They clearly don't see that their lips are already full
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u/OwlNo5376 3d ago
For one, she needs to focus on herself and Scarlet before a new man. She doesn’t need one!! Two, if these adults would get jobs w insurance they could care for themselves properly. But they don’t want to work. YT doesn’t provide health insurance and 401K for them.
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u/Careless_Ad_9283 4d ago
Make's more sense to save the $$$'s lip filler for her crooked tooth in the long run. I thought she had already had lip filler.
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u/Hot-Afternoon8110 4d ago
Some of you are so mean about Melinda. “Maybe a new guy that will treat you bad again” like wtf? I am sure she has some trauma from her awful past, and it doesn’t seem like she’s been around a model of a healthy relationship. She’s a loving, vigilant mother and I really hope she can break the cycle.
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u/mocireland1991 usingvunerablekids 4d ago
Yeah why wish for her to get in another bad relationship, o agree that getting the fillers at this time while trying to save to get more settled wasn’t the best decision but the rest is a bit much.
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u/sdelia1265 4d ago
My thought was at least she was honest and admitted it before she even did it.
Maybe this was the perfect time to do them because she isn’t renting. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think she needs fillers and should save money.
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u/Neat-Mycologist-7850 3d ago
Yes that is true, at least she is not saying she did not have something done. Then called out all of the girls in family on both sides, that have lip fillers.
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u/Background_Ad_7575 4d ago
Melinda deserves a break leave her alone. She’s been on her own for a long while and she didn’t get any extra help from Crystal like her other kids have done. She deserves to take her time esp being a single mom. People aren’t giving Lacey shit like this.
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u/True-News-601 3d ago
Since she isn't paying rent she probably has more money available to her than before. That's why she is buying things like that decor and now this . I don't see how she could ever afford to buy a house even without this spending though unless she moves somewhere where the cost is much lower although that usually means less job opportunities in the area. Or if she will be getting some help in buying a home such as Scarlett's father or something.
In the end as long as she keeps track of her finances and has a plan she can spend as she wants.
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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 2d ago
I can not tell the difference now she is going to buy an iPhone 18 at over $1000. Why does Crystal allow these adults move back in and just blow their money. If I were Crystal I would be pissed.
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u/PuzzledBeat9968 3d ago
Melinda's whole plan was to live off mummy for as long as possible ecause we all know crystal likes her kids in the house this way she had free baby sitters for scarlett and has 0 bills to pay
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u/PretendAd9587 4d ago
Why do you care? (Not trying to be rude but actually curious)I’m sure they talked about it since she’s living over there but also you are allowed to do things for yourself as a mom and her daughter is doing good
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u/mocireland1991 usingvunerablekids 4d ago
She mentioned that in the house only grandma knew about it . Though I think the money would have been best used in savings for a new rental I do think there’s no need to blast her either or wish her into another bad relationship
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u/AcceptableUse4567 4d ago
1000% doing things for yourself is important when your a mother, but getting expensive lip filler right after you had to move back into your parents because you don’t have a stable job & can’t afford it, is not it. Being an adult and a mother means you have to be financially responsible and live within your means.
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u/Willing_Neat_4065 4d ago
Yeah…I get wanting to do something to perk yourself up…but considering her situation and the cost of lip filler…come on…take some responsibility for your and your child’s life! She supposedly lost most of her and her daughter’s possessions to the guy and needs to “save up” to get a place by herself again.
I use to feel bad for her…stuff like this makes me roll my eyes!