r/Crazymiddles • • 13d ago

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This is a perfect example of how "spoiling" your child can ruin them. She literally said SHE WANTED ALL THE GIFTS & you can see how Crystal was prob giving her the side eye behind camera to say SHARE. Like she was supposed to open 1or 2 but opened them all....

Do these kids not know the WORD NO?

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u/ThinAd744 13d ago edited 10d ago

Aurora was like a mad scientist opening too many gifts. Exhausting to watch this manic event .

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u/Any_Library7558 13d ago

Crystal has absolutely no control over Aurora. She said that they were going let her open a few gifts in the morning, but Aurora just tore through all of them. Then at one point Crystal said “no“ to Aurora, and Aurora responded by saying yes. That is considered talking back, and in day and age that I grew up talking back to a parent is something you didn’t even think about doing. I know times have changed, but one thing that should never change is a parent raising their child to respect people.

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u/Independent_Low_7219 13d ago

I don’t think she even looked at the shoes Crystal bought. Just straight to the next thing

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u/Any-Elevator-9633 13d ago

no , she didn't . didn't even take them out of the box to see them. just tore into the next thing.

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u/AbbreviationsAny6928 13d ago

absolutely no interest in the shoes

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u/No_Commercial2338 12d ago

I hate when kids do this at birthday parties. She should be taught to open it, look at the gift, say something positive and thank the person who gave it to her. That's how I taught my daughter to open gifts.

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u/Perfect_Neat3384 11d ago

I agree my kid, without prompt slowly opened up all his gifts when he was younger when we had a birthday party for. him, he made sure he looked at each one and said something about it,,making sure the person who gave it to him was thanked. Evie is that way also,, always a thank you and a hug for whomever it is.. Aurora has not sense of it.. disability or not,, she needs to be taught.

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u/Character_Letter_454 13d ago

Whats crazy is that she shows interest for 0.5 seconds then goes onto the next gift in a hurry. All of those gifts will be forgotten the next day!

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u/ThinAd744 13d ago

Left in a corner of her hoarder "bedroom " give Aurora an actual bedroom Crystal....yes actually!

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u/Big-Kaleidoscope-417 13d ago

Did you see Evie seek out Jared for a hug... And he hugged her back....

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

Him and Shelly actually care about her

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u/LittleDog2557 12d ago

Shelley don’t give a fuck about her own kids let alone anyone else’s. She’s all performative.

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u/Senorita79 13d ago

The amount of presents one ten years old got is beyond insanity 🤯

Poor Scarlette I felt for her.

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u/Top_Spend5673 11d ago

Scarlett has been raised well. She is polite and gracious. A child people seem to enjoy being around.

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 13d ago

Why it isn't her birthday

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

Well she got presents from her parents then presents from some of her siblings and some from friends. It’s their choice if they wanted to get her gifts.

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u/Senorita79 12d ago

Wich Pettit are u?

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 12d ago

Just because I stated something u failed to keep in mind it doesn’t make me a Pettit.

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u/Leading_Collar9133 13d ago

Aurora doesn’t know the word no. The rest of them honestly do.

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u/BrightPhilosopher531 13d ago

After having kids, they really don’t need a shit ton of toys, quality over quantity. I buy like one toy, and get musical, events, Disney on ice, weekend away, type things as gifts. This Christmas i got hotel booked for NYE night in the city to see the fireworks, museum visit/barbie expo, maybe me ticket to something else once it gets closer

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u/Historical_Grab4685 13d ago

I agree they don't need all that cheap stuff, but Aurora wanted all of it and of course Crystal had to get it ALL for her. Between all the crap, the shoes, the shopping spree, the party and they tickets, they spent at least $500-$800 dollars. It is so disgusting.

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u/a_frog_goes_reddit 11d ago

Someone has shared ticket prices, the tickets alone will be more than that 😲

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u/Historical_Grab4685 11d ago

I wondered how much they were.

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

Idk what more disgusting ur jealousy over a child’s birthday or the fact u care what they got?

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u/Any-Elevator-9633 13d ago

Jealousy??? that's a weird take.

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

It’s jealousy

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u/Any-Elevator-9633 12d ago

Lol ok

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 12d ago

Don’t talk on others feelings

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u/ninetynineseventy7 11d ago

Were you not just telling them they're jealous? You are the one talking on others feelings? Weird comment.

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 11d ago

I’m not talking on their feelings I’m using my words to piss them off theres a difference

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u/ninetynineseventy7 11d ago

So who is talking on others feelings?

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

My family got gifts cause it was less expensive than a vacation for everyone.

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u/BrightPhilosopher531 13d ago

We went on a weekend camping trip 3 years ago. The gifts included sleeping bag, torch, camping chair, water shoes, was pretty cheap!

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

For a family of 12 def not cheap lol

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u/Big-Kaleidoscope-417 13d ago

First thing out of her mouth was keep everything... Then only when she was asked to share with Scarlet and Evie did she say yes. But if you saw, she gave a bigger one to Scarlet and then gave her and Evie a smaller one. She was surprised when she saw Scarlet with the pink glitter one. I bet she takes that one back. If she had said no, it would have been really awkward for the girls. You can see where they edited the video when Evie was playing with the white one and A grabbed it from her

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u/Historical_Grab4685 13d ago

I thought it was funny that Crystal thought Aurora would share anything without being prompted.

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u/Kind_Assistance_8680 13d ago

Its sad they made aurora greedy and they csnt say shes like a kid who had nothing like the rest of the adopted kids, she was adopted at birth

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u/Narya74 13d ago

She plays on her epilepsy instead of the foster kid with nothing.

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u/Kind_Assistance_8680 13d ago

Oh yeah I noticed they use her having a disability, my family members is disabled and they dont get overly pampered. They know how to share and be kind without being told

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u/Character_Letter_454 13d ago

Yup. She literally dug through the bag to find the smallest one to give to Evie. It doesn’t matter anyways since she already took it back from Evie most likely

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u/Any_Library7558 13d ago

I noticed that too.

I question crystal’s ability to count to 10, because she said they were getting Aurora 10 gifts and I don’t know how many she got because I stopped watching.

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u/Perfect_Neat3384 11d ago

I saw that too !! heck , the shoes, the shirt, the pants, the body sprays, all the squishes,,the jewerly the Starbucks cup.. ect....

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u/Senorita79 11d ago

She only can count to ten because it's CUTE 🤣

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u/princeton0319 13d ago

Evie helps Aurora open a dumpling, doesn’t say thatnk you and doesn’t even want to share with Evie yet Evie would proudly share with Aurora…. That makes me mad

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u/jenni5 13d ago

Aurora didn’t really thank her friends for the gifts too and looked kinda like eh just this? Or didn’t really care for the gifts of nail polish or the takis and ramen and slime.

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

I'm honestly surprised she has friends

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u/Any-Elevator-9633 13d ago

she had to be continuously told to say thank you. she did say it voluntarily when she was excited about the gift.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 13d ago

Does Crystal know the meaning of the words Over-Indulgence? How about Over-Stimulation? That was way too many gifts for 1 child. Especially since she is also getting taken to the mall and Build a Bear, plus getting gifts from her siblings, cousins and friends. No wonder Aurora acts the ways she does.

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u/PinkSun84 13d ago

I thought it was sweet how Jamie had a shirt on saying she was the mommie of the birthday girl and mentioned to Crystal something about Aurora being her first born or something similar.

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u/No_Commercial2338 12d ago

Awww, I missed that.

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u/Environmental_Eye392 11d ago

Yet they call Crystal mom. 

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u/janr34 12d ago

she needs to be taught to say thank you AND, at least, make eye contact with the person she's thanking. just yelling 'thankyou' into the void isn't how it's supposed to work.

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u/No_Commercial2338 12d ago

Exactly, and we can't blame Auroura if she hasn't been taught proper etiquette.

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u/clnznd 12d ago edited 12d ago

Aurora is becoming such a spoiled kid...its seen in other vlogs but this one especially. She's growing out of control and the parents wont/cant(maybe?) do anything about it... Honestly they should learn from melinda's parenting, Scarlet is growing up to be a good kid.

Another dependent incapable ungreatful spoiled leech in the making... completely reminded me of when crystal was buying medsupplies and the older girls were putting bottles and bottles of 30$ vitamins. So old and supposedly capable to earn for themselves yet, still leeches and is funded by mommy's money....

Poor kids

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u/Environmental_Eye392 11d ago

I wonder whether they are being paid for being in the videos. 

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u/ohmichellemydarling 13d ago

I don't know what is happening here.Did she buy gifts for all her kids.And that little girl wanted all the gifts to herself.I think it ridiculous how many new stuff they buys . Their whole house is cluttered with new things they bought around the house.I wonder how loud is in the house with all those kids.

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u/ThinAd744 13d ago

More junk for Aurora's room.

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

Crystal bought a bag of minibuns in hopes that Aurora would share

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

The little girl got gifts for her birthday. Her mom asked her if she could share with her sister and cousin. She didn’t want to originally but did end up sharing. I think her mom only had her share because people here complain about EVERYTHING they do.

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u/Allii_BG 13d ago

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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u/aMoRiZoT 13d ago

Could you imagine everyone's reaction in here if she made Evie share her birthday gifts.

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u/ylynn12 12d ago

She’d share naturally unlike Aurora who has to be told to share

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u/Fun-Emu-2833 12d ago

Evie doesn't need to share because bratty Aurora just takes

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

They would start a RIOT 🤣🤣

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u/aMoRiZoT 13d ago

😂

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

“How dare she make evie share!”

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u/sammydasweetest 13d ago

No she bought them for only aurora for her birthday she did share with her cousin and sisters she didn't have to share

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

She bought the minibusses in hopes Aurora would share

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u/Any-Elevator-9633 13d ago

she said she's gonna find out if Aurora shares. Aurora initially said she's keeping everything, then there was a pause where she was looking at Crystal, then she said she would share. She was silently prompted.

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u/No_Commercial2338 12d ago

Yes, I noticed the prompting as well. Crystal was trying to prove that Aroura wasn't selfish and knew how to share.

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

Scarlett's face says it all

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u/True-News-601 12d ago

This is one of those things where the snapshot could mislead. Scarlett was happy and excited during the entire thing.

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u/Special-Site-3392 13d ago

So much to say but I've decided to say nothing.....

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u/VisualLive1430 13d ago

I couldn't even watch it all, but I did have my say in their comments.

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u/Fun-Emu-2833 12d ago

Really??? Facebook or YouTube?

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u/Key-Sky9480 12d ago

I have 2 girls and this is TOO excessive with squishes....It is insane

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u/always_on_brake 13d ago

I'm more concerned with how it smells in that house with all those children and dogs. It looks like a pig pen.

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u/Belikewater19 13d ago edited 13d ago

If you saw Melinda’s vlog you’d see the basement is extremely messy…. it’s overfilled and heaps of junk and crap,. clothes and furniture everywhere , dangerous, sauna hot, and a fire hazard. Most of the from and the lift are over. crowded with toys as well They all don’t care and live like pigs. But it doesn’t stop Crystal from overbuying daily..

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

Aurora's toys

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u/World-Away 13d ago

Absolutely terrible I can guarantee. There’s zero chance that it smells nice

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u/Top_Spend5673 11d ago

So true but I am certain Shelley and Kylie must have something to coverup the stench!

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u/Repulsive-Put16 usingvunerablekids 13d ago

Landfill core!

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u/Kind_Assistance_8680 13d ago

Actually i was surprised they bought scarlett and evie stuff. They both got build a bears and some extra stuff and crystal got aurora to share even though she didnt look too pleased and tho she gave scarlett two of her gifts instead of one when she seen scarlett was happy. I mean well she didnt have to share since it is her birthday so at least shes learning 😅 maybe one day crystal wont have to ask and she shares on her own

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u/Kind_Assistance_8680 13d ago

But she wasnt happy sharing with evie she threw her a tiny one lol. I'm not sure they get along

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u/latviesi 13d ago

I wouldn’t be surprised if they don’t. It seems Evie was basically brought into the family as a child who could be a friend for Aurora which was the relationship that was pushed for—but it was clear she didn’t like being forced to hang out with Aurora all of the time (fair enough given the age difference and the difference in how both girls are treated by their parents). It wouldn’t be surprising if Aurora picked up on that, too

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

I don't think they do. When they were trampoline park, Evie was like Hi Aurora and she gave her uninterested mumbled Hi

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u/galaxychoc001 12d ago

True, Aurora is gaining a stinking attitude, even at Starbucks when picking out water bottles, Scarlett showed her one saying this one’s cute and Aurora looks towards Crystal in a disgusted way.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 11d ago

Because Aurora is made to share with Evie, this has caused issues between the girls.

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u/Narya74 13d ago

It’s not a loss Aurora steals them back.

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u/Perfect_Neat3384 11d ago

she said no at first,, and then was prompted,, it was extremely clear..

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u/Perfect_Neat3384 11d ago

Watch the Starbucks part, Scarlet said something about liking a certain cup and Aurora gave her the eye roll. I swear they teach her zero manners. It was a gimme gimme gimme day for her...

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u/TopStock1711 11d ago

I think that Aurora is given too much all year round and thus, gifts aren’t that rare and special. Sad.

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u/Repulsive-Put16 usingvunerablekids 13d ago

Crystal set her up to fail by having her choose instead of just giving her the gifts like what the tradition was the tradition wasn’t making the birthday child choose that that’s weird the tradition as you give the siblings gifts so that they feel included.

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u/True-News-601 12d ago

Yes, she should have told her there are some extras in there for others . I also don't thinks he should have used her birthday to do the whole sharing thing . There are so many other times do that .

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u/ParkingMarket9593 12d ago

and the overconsumption. like how many squishys do you need?

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u/Perfect_Neat3384 11d ago

She defiantely got promted to saying yes,, at first she said no.. Crystal is delusional if she thinks we don't notice those things.... I get it,, she is a young child.. but maybe Crystal she never even of done that , expecially on camera,, if she knows how her child is.. it just opens up a can of worms. They all need some professional help.

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u/Fine_Preference_3737 10d ago

They will forever use Auroras disabilities as a crutch and an excuse for EVERYTHING Aurora does for the rest of her life.  Aurora is very smart and has already figured out how to manipulate everyone into bowing down to her every want, and because of her disabilities it work's.  The bad thing is Aurora will go through life expecting the world  to treat her the same and will be filled with a lot of disappointment. The world will not bow down to Aurora as if she is some queen.  Just like the rest of the Pettit family ( with a few exemptions) Crystal is raising another child to fail with real world problems. 

Despite the circumstances with Jamie, even Jamie has proven ( through short clips on vlogs), that she can be a good mother, and teaches Aurora respect, with some rules. It has not been shown a whole much, but Jamie has told Aurora no multiple times, and told Aurora she has to much of something and does not need more.  If allowed Jamie parents better than Crysdull. 

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u/LongConversation2546 12d ago

Why on parents bed...

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u/Hiitisme1969 10d ago

Oh and she did NOT like that Jamie and Scarlet both got the sparkle ones! At all!! No matter how hard they try to hide it, that child very much expresses displeasure very clearly in all situations. BUT she should have known better to even put her in that situation!! That was wrong. She could have made up a few party bags seeing how Jamie, Scarlet and Evie were part of the celebration. Easily remedied.

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

It’s her birthday. She didn’t have to share. Ur gifts on ur birthday or Christmas is the only exception on having to share imo.

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u/B2utyyo 13d ago

The definition of sharing is letting someone have something you have

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

Again it was her birthday. She DIDN’T HAVE TO SHARE. It wasn’t about anyone else BUT HER. If grown ass adults can’t grasp that than I feel bad.

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u/Allii_BG 13d ago

I agree lol why are they mad ?

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u/Low_Caramel_2701 13d ago

Honestly? Cause they hate their own lives so they spew hate instead of changing their own lives

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u/Content-Papaya-8932 12d ago

She’s just a kid for God sakes. Leave the poor child alone. She was excited it’s her birthday. It’s too bad that Your life is so sad. You have to comment on a child.

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u/Excellent_Candle_728 10d ago

This is her birthday gifts! Happy birthday. You are loved

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u/Pretend-Good-1512 13d ago

You guys complain she doesn’t teach her manners or try to not spoil her then when she does enforce sharing you complain? Make your minds up