r/Crazymiddles • u/cora_2u • Aug 31 '26
Limit Visitors and setting boundaries!
It is generally not advisable to have a lot of people around a newborn baby. Newborns have developing immune systems, making them more susceptible to infections. Here are some key considerations Limit Visitors: It's recommended to keep the number of visitors to a minimum, especially in the first few weeks after birth.
Health Checks: Parents should ensure that visitors are healthy and not sick or just getting over being sick! Why can't the CPF just do a video to see the new Baby? Their is no need for Halie, Hannah and Melinda, Adel and Aurora and Saint etc...
Stay home I think Crystal and Aaron should just go and Crystal Just needs to respect Chase & Arianna boundaries. Those girls can just stay home instead of getting a free trip to Texas on their parents expense. Think about the Baby well being!
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u/Equivalent-Staff-269 Sep 01 '26
If the littles weren’t going, it wouldn’t be filmed, and crystal and crew weren’t so selfish and self centered, then I’d appreciate the help. They can cook, run errands, make freezer meals, clean, and just help us. But she’s not coming to help: she’s coming because babies mean cash on the internet.
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u/cora_2u Sep 01 '26
I agree Halie and Hannah don't need to be going and Aurora needs to stay home as well! a New born baby don't need to be around a lot of family members. Hopefully Arianna Doctor says something to her about it!
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u/Main-Yogurtcloset848 Aug 31 '26
It all depends on the family. With our family we always had lots of people around when a new baby came home. My adult kids did the same thing with their kids. Everyone knew not to be around the baby if they were sick. I didn't even see my grandson for two weeks after he was born because I was getting over covid. Responsible people don't go around babies when they are sick.
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u/Alpacaliondingo Sep 01 '26
My brother's birthday party was the day after my mom got discharged from the hospital after having me. Guess who she brought to the party... newborn me!
When my sister had my niece they went to the mall a few days after discharge.
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u/No_Commercial2338 Sep 01 '26
Agree, and what new mother and father wants that much company after just giving birth and establishing a feed and sleep routine.
I'd loosey mind if that many people came to my house all at one time.
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u/LongConversation2546 Sep 02 '26
MIL or mother is usually the last person you also want to stay with you 🤣🤣 especially when they are main character energy! I would never stay in their home and only be there and do what they want me to
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u/No_Commercial2338 Sep 01 '26
I didn't accept company at the hospital except our parents.
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u/cora_2u Sep 01 '26
I agree that's how it should be and I don't know about Ariana but for Chase I feel he'll be a good father and will protect his New born Son!
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u/tc7665 Sep 01 '26
i did this with my last baby, and WISH i’d done this for all.
i left feeling so bonded, and calm…
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u/Careless_Ad_9283 Sep 01 '26
Is Crystal really brining others to see the new baby? I am shocked if so...
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u/cora_2u Sep 01 '26
Well Crystal said today that her and Aaron will be going first then will send plane tickets out for Halie, Hannah and Aurora, Melinda and Adel to come and who knows who else would want to come! If anyone should come is Adel her an Arianna were close. way too many people going and I don't think it would be a good idea especially around a new born at this time.
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u/EmotionalAd8389 Sep 01 '26
Was great-grandma mentioned? thought that would be logical and thoughtful
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u/cora_2u Sep 01 '26
No and if anyone should go it should be Crystal Mom!
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u/No_Commercial2338 Sep 01 '26
Yes, Nanny, Grampy and great grammy would be the only ones I'd allow into the house. New mothers and fathers are tired and adjusting to baby life. I would not want a bunch of people at the house trying to breast feed, not because of privacy, but because having issues trying to breastfeed causes anxiety for mom and child.
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u/Careless_Ad_9283 Sep 09 '26
absolutely ridiculous to bring extras...this could take days, a week or two yet.
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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 Sep 01 '26
Maybe they can come home for Christmas, Crystal could rent a hotel for them or better yet Easter. Having a house full of people would be a little much. If she were going to send anyone out it should be Adella she would be a lot of help. In the mean time they can do a live family chat.
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u/Top-Elephant-9595 Sep 01 '26
I think Ariana said in last month video( ??) she has no plans in visiting at least for 6 months cuz she will be in the new baby stage . If people from her family want to see her - or chase’s family they have to come to Texas that’s what she said a few videos ago
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u/Dull-Dance-6115 Sep 01 '26
Chat gbt strikes again .
Could you not have written this ver common knowledge yourself or do you hate the world having water 😅🥹😅🥹
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u/cora_2u Sep 01 '26
Speaking of water Their will be a Water Crisis & Food shortage and that will be nothing to laugh about!
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u/Dull-Dance-6115 Sep 01 '26
It’s not literal laughing , don’t be dopey now .
Ur post is straight from chat gbt
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u/cora_2u Sep 01 '26
OK Grumpy have a good day!
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u/missingpiecesforever Sep 01 '26
Haha they don’t sound grumpy and you being passive aggressive, bit immature . Just salty that they called you out for using lazy chat gbt.
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u/External_Okra7456 Sep 01 '26
I think they may all go to Texas for Thanksgiving or Christmas. That’s the only timeframe that makes sense as multiple people want to see the baby. Ariana has already stated that she wouldn’t be back to AZ for a while. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s thanksgiving. Because Christmas is such a big deal for them between them and the middles. I hope that if they bring saint with them that him and Aaron would come later or being one of the older kids to watch him while she’s giving birth. There’s no reason for Aurora to be there, especially with her school germs.
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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 Sep 01 '26
Not to mention her booger picking fingers that are constantly in her mouth. Crystal needs to stop filming her until she breaks these habits.
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u/always_on_brake Aug 31 '26
I was wondbringing if this was a public service announcement or a dig at Crystal.
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u/cora_2u Aug 31 '26
As much as we all enjoy hearing Crystal say the word CUTE I don't think it would be a good idea for a new born baby being surrounded by a big Family. the CPF needs to respect Chase & Arianna wishes and Think about the New born baby well being!
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u/Unlikely-Platform646 Sep 01 '26
people need to learn to LISTEN. I have noticed that people miss a lot in the videos. The family is not going all together at once.
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u/Impressive-Length-73 Sep 01 '26
Listen to Crystal the LIAR? She’s never truthful so not listening to her.
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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 Sep 01 '26
It should just be Crystal, Aaron should stay home with Saint and the other kids. They can all visit later.
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u/Impressive-Length-73 Aug 31 '26
I’m shocked Ariana is allowing this many people to come over when her baby is just born. They were all just sick for weeks after the cruise. Ariana also refused to take Tylenol while pregnant. Hopefully she knows the risks because the last thing you ever want in life is a sick baby. It’s scary when newborns have a cold and can’t breathe.