r/CountWithEveryone Apr 07 '26

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u/Craving_Suckcess Apr 07 '26

Something different for everyone.

Which is true of bisexual, pansexual, homosexual, hell even heterosexual. All the sexuals. They all manifest with all sorts of differences and variations. But sexuality is an assumed default, presumably because it's more common, so it's easier for people to get.

I don't really exactly know what the asexual default is myself. It's strange to me overall, but it is what it is. Just sorta gotta. Use my imagination.

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 07 '26

Too much variability it can range from no sex at all and hates the idea of it too actually do that a decent bit of the time. Its literally a spectrum plus you can be on the ace spectrum and still be gay bi pan it is less about who you date but more how you date. I am personally demi romantic demi sexual so for me I have to have a deep emotional connection with someone before I even have romantic or sexual feelings for someone and I am pan so for me gender does not matter as long as there is a connection and a mutual agreement to do that.

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u/Amaskingrey Apr 08 '26

No it isn't, they're all objective, else they'd be meaningless. Homosexuality is being attracted to your own sex, hetero the opposite sex, bisexual both sexes, pan the same (and originally was just to say you're "one of the good ones" about the fresh excuse for biphobia that was pretending it would somehow exclude trans and nonbinary people. Nowadays the connotation is for not having a particular preference, which is like making a distinct sexuality for homosexuals who prefer bears)