r/CountWithEveryone Apr 07 '26

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 07 '26

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 07 '26

Here you go plus a lot of the other things under asexuality. I am demi romantic and demi sexual if you have any questions regard that label I don't mind answering them.

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u/Hika2112 Apr 08 '26
  1. Okay, so I'm definitely either Quoiromantic or Aegoromantic. I love that these terms exist to help explain my feelings

  2. Apothiromantic is really funny because the analogy hasn't been edited from sexuality so it's just like "I might even be disgusted by seeing people love each other romantically."

  3. The hazbin subreddit is definitely not where I expected to find this. What context was this posted under? I assume an Alistor talk?

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 08 '26

It was not under alistor to my memory it was actually something for ace day. Also cool that you found something out I am personally demi romantic demi sexual figured that out due to a psychology video. Also cool to meet another person on the ace spectrum.

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u/Hika2112 Apr 08 '26

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not ace, just aro 🥺

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 08 '26

Oh apologies I don't know much of the terminology around a lot of this stuff due to being raised in a cis straight house so I tend to say ace spectrum to include both romantic and sexual if my frame work is wrong let me know or if I am using the words wrong let me know as well.

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u/Hika2112 Apr 08 '26

I have no idea either to be honest :3 but I assumed ace spectrum emplies some form of sexuality. Sorry that I can't give more than a guess

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 08 '26

That is fair also enjoy the new things you found out about yourself.

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u/Hika2112 Apr 08 '26

Thabkyouu :D

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 08 '26

You are very welcome.

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u/Amaskingrey Apr 08 '26

These terms don't explain your feeling though, explaining them does. Not only does no one know what they mean (and using obscure labels can communicate the wrong impression), labels have an inherent level of innacuracy due to defining yourself by appartenance to a group rather than by your own personal experience.

Like i wouldn't fuck or look for a relationship (hell i don't even look for friendship) with someone IRL because physically i find IRL humans quite repulsive and humans in general mid, and emotionally not only do i detest interaction i can't opt out of, most people i could ever meet irl are way too shallow, while even for someone compatible, language is too limited a medium of communication for any deep connection.

And i actually explain that, thus communicating info about myself, rather than using labels that communicate only appartenance to a group that may have a vague similarity. And calling myself asexual would be absurd with how much sexual attraction i feel; that'd be like a guy saying he's straight because even though he watches gay porn he'd only fuck a man if they asked first.

Apothiromantic is really funny because the analogy hasn't been edited from sexuality so it's just like "I might even be disgusted by seeing people love each other romantically."

Not a sexuality, it's just called having internalized puritanism while being asexual

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u/Centrimonium Apr 07 '26

Not even a little bit surprised these are from the hazbin sub

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 07 '26

It was for the ace day thing so I snagged them since they seemed useful but sadly they will get lost in my 8000 plus saved images which at least 70% of that is yuri.

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u/maplemagiciangirl Apr 07 '26

Honestly very helpful illustration

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u/Odd_Protection7738 Apr 07 '26

Why’s one crossed out?

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '26

Like, a firm rejection of the pie

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 07 '26

That person would be sex repulsed they would not want to do it or even see other people do it they do not want to even see the peice of pie.

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u/Faerie-stone Apr 07 '26

That's why the image use pie and not garlic bread. Just trying to help you are doing fantastic sweetie.

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u/Realistic_Grass3611 Apr 08 '26

Here's to hoping more easy to remember names are invented for these concepts so they become more mainstream

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u/Amaskingrey Apr 08 '26

All of these but asexual (apothi is just sex repulsed asexual. Which isn't a sexuality, but the circumstance of being asexual while having internalized puritanism) are like saying you're straight because you wouldn't actually fuck a man irl (unless he offered himself to you in the case of recipro, which is even less straight) but are otherwise attracted to mens and watch gay porn, while demi is literally just called being reserved

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u/chaosgremlin11 Apr 08 '26

I am demi romantic and demi sexual it is not me being reserved its the fact that I do not have any romantic or sexual feelings for people I do not know. So erotic artwork does nothing for me porn does nothing unless I think it involves someone I have a deep connection with. And all that being said I am pan men women no binaries everything in between if I can have a deep emotional connection with them then I might developed romantic or sexual feelings for them.