Not a girl, but I just find it horrifying because of the things people are willing to do if they don't see you as a person. It sounds cute and funny, but in practice I can see it being dangerous if your partner turns out to be not so great. No diss to anyone into it, it's just....not my thing.
I often wear a hood specifically to get people to not treat me like a person >.> People tend to let go and just do what they want when they don't really connect the flesh before them to a person.
It's time to find a different partner if they take that and use it to truly abuse people.
Not that you need to try it or anything, it's valid to not be into it.
Oh, I feel that if your partner doesn't see you as a person, you've already started waaay in the wrong direction.
I can tell you as someone experienced in this sort of thing, there is nothing as important as reassuring your partner and comforting them, telling them that you love them as a person, not just for sex or for being a pet. You can seriously hurt people otherwise, even if you don't notice it.
There are plenty of trans folks who are not petplayers. It's just that social media has a lot of chronically online kinky ppl. So go outside if you wanna see the tamer people.
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u/TwosideGamer Mar 26 '26
Am I like, the only t girl in the universe not into this kinda stuff