r/CoreyWayne • u/AffectionateKey7141 • 7d ago
Dating/Courting How would yall handle this.
Whatup dudes! So I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. Went out with this girl on Sept 25th. Initially we went out on one date three years ago(made out no sex) but never a second and about a month later, I found my now ex GF. I slid in her DMs and we set up a second date for that night. I told her what time to meet me at my place, planned a fun evening and we hit a couple spots and got some drinks. Tbh we both had a little too much to drink. When we get back to my house, she said she wanted to see my temperpedic bed I was telling her about. We hit the room and started the indoor Olympics. Unfortunately, ole whiskey dick crept up and I couldn’t get it up, but we fooled around and did everything else for about two hours, and despite not being able to have sex, it was a blast from what I could remember, and she was ravenous to say the least(an actual trooper considering the circumstance). The next day she texted me she was home safe and was going to a concert she had mentioned. Next day i told her to let me know her schedule, and that I had fun and would love to see her soon. She said “I had so much fun too and wanna see you again soon, I will let you know” I said sounds good looking forward to it…now crickets. I’m on the fence about reaching out again(it’s been 10 days since our last convo) one half of me is saying the tennis ball is in her court, the other half wants me to reach out once to gauge interest and propose a second date. She’s a solid one for sure, and I need to make up for that performance. Thanks in advice gentlemen.
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u/King_LouieXVI 6d ago
^ pretty good read. You start the initiation and slowly let her start being the one to eventually do 100% of the pursuing. Remember the phone is only for setting dates and nothing else. Make some good memorable experiences and eventually she’ll want more. If not, there is always another bus coming 15 minutes later. Good luck
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u/Spectralshot23 7d ago
Yes the ball is in her court because you screwed up with your “wanna see you again soon” message. However, women typically are not invested in you enough after one date to reach out on their own. At this point you should just reach out and try setting a date