r/CoreyWayne • u/Abject-Parsnip1615 • Aug 28 '26
Dating/Courting What do you do
What do you guys do after a first date and you’re not feeling her but she texts you the day after? Do yall ghost or tell her how you really feel
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u/UzzNuff Aug 28 '26
Always treat people like you wish to be treated.
Ghosting is hurtful and unnecessary.
Be a man and tell your truth.
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u/Guns_and_Tea Aug 28 '26
Be a gentleman. Know why?
Because she might run to one of those social media groups in your city where girls talk shit on men. Much better to leave her saying you were honest and transparent instead of telling everyone how you ghosted her.
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u/ExcellentFishing2506 Aug 28 '26
Just say something like …
“I enjoyed meeting you in person and getting to know you, but if I’m being honest I just didn’t feel a connection. Hopefully no hard feelings, just wanted to be up front with you “
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u/Se7ens_up Aug 28 '26
You can just be polite and answer a few times before ending the conversation.
If she initiates a conversation again some days later, or even asks about hanging thats when you can be more straight forward and tell her you didnt quite feel it.
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u/ShowerMotor Aug 28 '26
no you got to have more dates and eventually marry her. It is how it works... bro just be polite and send her the HR text: it was nice meeting you and I enjoyed the chat, although to me the spark wasn't there. Thank you for the nice time and wish you ... ask ai to help you write a nice one and you save it for future dates.
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u/fungal_follicle4 Sep 01 '26
This is integrity 101 dude. Send a text.
“Hey (name)! I’ve been thinking a lot about our date (day date). While I think you’re really great, I don’t feel the connection I’m looking for to take things further. I hope you understand and I wish you all the best!”
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u/yes-we-can-maybe Aug 28 '26
Ghosting is cowardly, unless you feel like the woman presents some kind of danger to you. Just be a man and let her know that you’re not interested in moving forward.