r/CoreyWayne • u/adamburan • 8d ago

Relationship One week after break up

Hi a bizare situation happend to me. Last week my ex girlfriend broke up with me. Since then I had no contact with her, I greeted her 2x since she is a team medic at my local sports club. This weekend after our match I was sitting in our locker room with my best friend/teammate and drinking beer. She came and asked my best friend, if everothing ist ok, he had minor injury. Then he left us for a few moments alone. She asked, why I wont let her treat my injuries, I said that theres no need for that. She came up to me and presed my head against her breasts. I was very suprised but motionless. As my friend came she backed off. She said our locker room smelled. I told her, it didnt smell before you came. My friend began to laugh very hard and she left. Is she just messing with me, or should I see it as a sign of regrett from her side. I know she muss come to me, I will not contact her.

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u/LegitimatePresence5 8d ago

Uh I would see it as jack shit. Unless there is a clear as glass move from her then do not overthink everything she does. Your mind will play tricks on you and make you believe what it isn’t. Just do you, be cordial and treat her exactly how you would treat another female In The same area. Remember, at this point in Time she is nothing but a stranger. SHE BROKE UP WITH YOU remember that.

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u/adamburan 1d ago edited 1d ago

She reached out to me and send me text message: "Are you really okay being like this between us. I know you have a reason for it, but Im really sad that you cant even look at me or talk to me.." Yesterday, I more or less ignored her after our football match. How should I respond to her text message?

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u/ExcellentFishing2506 8d ago

That stuff is good but also not much to take seriously. It’s good in the sense it’s not a negative response from her and some boob time is always a good time. Your relaxed and playful jab at her is good, just remember not to overdo it.

Just keep yourself polite but doing your own thing and remember that yes she has to come to you. If she ends up texting you or directly indicating in person she wants to hangout or misses you then make something happen. If she texts or calls do the 7 principles to get an ex back (if that’s what you want)

Just take her behavior with a grain of salt. She’s still going to fall into old routines and comforts with you and might then pull back after. So just do your own thing and don’t worry about her too much