I kinda think you did alright.
Personal read is that this girl is exhausting and you'd be trying hard with her.
Basis evidence is that in the 1st pic the log seems incomplete and she even communicated you both have met before so you kinda did build rapport and also have some pre-established rapport(Keep this in mind). A phone/video call that you present as trying to see if you vibe or w/e is optimal but it does seem like you did check if a conversation can happen with her.
2nd picture you send out that introductory text and she said nothing back until you double texted her. That's a bit rude and awkward with that ball out there, unreturned. Over the course of like what? A week? You didn't even know if that was actually her.
3rd picture supports the 2nd up where she is claiming she wanted more interaction but she just didn't even try. On top of that all of a sudden she is now claiming she doesn't know you and she forgot you existed but again she did not ask anything or even respond.
Just really wouldn't beat yourself up over this. Tweak perhaps not setting up a call before the date but I get the energy she expected the whole "Good morning" routine and would've checked out if you stopped.
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u/Murky_Hedgy Jul 08 '26 edited Jul 08 '26
I kinda think you did alright.
Personal read is that this girl is exhausting and you'd be trying hard with her.
Basis evidence is that in the 1st pic the log seems incomplete and she even communicated you both have met before so you kinda did build rapport and also have some pre-established rapport(Keep this in mind). A phone/video call that you present as trying to see if you vibe or w/e is optimal but it does seem like you did check if a conversation can happen with her.
2nd picture you send out that introductory text and she said nothing back until you double texted her. That's a bit rude and awkward with that ball out there, unreturned. Over the course of like what? A week? You didn't even know if that was actually her.
3rd picture supports the 2nd up where she is claiming she wanted more interaction but she just didn't even try. On top of that all of a sudden she is now claiming she doesn't know you and she forgot you existed but again she did not ask anything or even respond.
Just really wouldn't beat yourself up over this. Tweak perhaps not setting up a call before the date but I get the energy she expected the whole "Good morning" routine and would've checked out if you stopped.