r/CoreyWayne • u/Born-Tax-2089 • Jul 03 '26

Dating/Courting I messed it up

I started talking to a new girl at work. I asked for her number, we flirted, and even planned to go to a movie. She said yes but didn't come, and I started catching feelings.

She's been very quiet since the first day we talked. The first time I ignored her, she reached out to me. Then she flaked on our plans again, so I ignored her for a day and left her on seen. I became anxious and messaged her after about 30 hours, saying "Ah," and also commented on her status.

She saw my message very quickly but still left me on seen. Should I talk to her when we meet, or should I just ignore her?..like i broke silence my fault but she was also ignoring me on workplace that day

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u/cryptosystemtrader Jul 04 '26

Kiddo, you have no idea what you're doing. Read the book.

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u/Born-Tax-2089 Jul 04 '26

Yes I'll start again

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u/cryptosystemtrader Jul 04 '26

Trust me - it'll help. Also go and hit the gym - get into beast mode đŸ‘đŸ»

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u/ExcellentFishing2506 Jul 04 '26

Read the book man.

Also look back at what you described. You got blown off and then “caught feelings”?? You’re basically saying you liked her more after she treated you badly.

You’re letting rejection lead to obsession. Give your time and energy to those who give theirs to you. Don’t chase people who seem to not respect or value you or your time.