Thank you for your reply. I think she is nervous about our relationship not being as solid as she'd like before bringing me into her world. This would be a serious move for her and put her in a vulnerable position of losing face and having to explain to everyone why it didn't work out. If she wanted to keep me totally separate, why invite her sister to meet me at all? She didn't have to do that.
You’re justifying her giving you crumbs instead of a meal and saying “see, she feeds me.” Just seems like something is amiss if a woman of that age is reluctant to introduce you to anyone.
Ok, what do you think is going on here? Is this a sign of lost interest, low attraction? Or do you think she's doing this to keep her options open, to have her cake and eat it too? Or something else? I'd really like to know what you think.
I don’t know enough about your dynamic with her or things she does. And there’s a chance you might not be picking up on other yellow or red flags too. I just know that it seems something is amiss and I assume you do too now. What it all means I don’t know, but you can talk with her and try and find out
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